joey9817

Not a woman but I will drop my two cents in.............. well this can be concieved as a double standard but... most men think it is very sexy to see wives or girlfriends wear their shirts and/or boxers..But many women dont like the men to wear the panties...I am not saying that many women wouldnt warm up to the idea..I am just saying. I see nothing wrong with it as long as both sides are comfortable and open with it. But I have never heard of a man freaking out over finding the woman wearing his clothes like I have heard of woman finding the men wearing her clothes. Just the thought of seeing my wife in one of my button downs makes me smile, but the thought of me wearing one of her thongs cracks me up. I couldnt fit into them if I tried though! I am not saying anything is wrong..just saying what I have seen. My sister is currently dating a man who likes to wear womens panties and when she discovered it...she freaked, left him, and is back with him now. Another double standard of life.

Welcome aboard!

I wouldnt get any for months if I tried that with my wife...She cant stand cum on her. We had our second child close to 15 months ago and we have been using condoms..Well sometimes the mood hits and we dont use a condom and I just pull out..Well at first I was making sure to grab a towel or something but then I was like fuck it and started just cumming on her ass or stomach..Well I found out later that she hated it and thought I was just doing that "because thats what they do in porn".hmm well whatever! My wife is completly grossed out by porn and has many hangups that we are trying to work through.. But I doubt her ever taking a facial or letting me cum in her mouth is ever something that will happen..I did cum in her mouth once years ago..and ended up having it spit back on to me! lol

Hi back at ya!! No playing till all of your homework is done

Thanks Howard.. I am far from thinking there is nothing left. My thoughts are that yes we have just become buddies, her mom passing away prob has her looking back and thinking of what she has missed due to the fact of being in a long relationship since she was just a young teenager. Working at the bar of course has more or less yearn for the youth she missed out on. I believe that if we just communicate more and get some common interest between us and throw in some common activities together things can get better. We need to romance and rebond with each other. The love is not gone just the edge has been dulled and we need to sharpen up the edges again.

yea you hit it on the head...We are going through some troubles right now...And yes I know it was an unreasonable action on my behalf... I remedied that and wont go down that road. It just took me off gaurd...the last month has really had me off guard anyways............................ We have been together for close to 17 years now..We got together as young kids. her mother passed away a few months ago and things have been def different since then. She says thatthings have been different for years. I felt like we were in a rut when ever I saw some signs...But every since her mother passed away she has been drinking more, She works in a bar/resteraunt and now she goes out more or hangs around her work more. I know she is not cheating on me..she is not wired like that and you would have to know her to understand how true that is. I called her out on it one night afet I had been thinking on things and was getting ready to go out of town so I had bought her some flowers and a card with personal sentiments written inside and took it up to her work. The reaction was not what I had expected and I called her out on later that night. She broke down and said that she just not felt in love with me for the last four years or so..... Well we have been talking about that off and on now with me doing the most talking....She said she just felt like we were roommates...that we wernt really close as friends, there is no passion, and she needed the love and passion back in our relationship. So yes I have been paying closer attention, giving more attention, doing more around the house, going out more,and doing little romantic things..or trying too. She keeps pushing everything back and saying everything I do feels more forced and fake than real. That anytime in the past that something happened and I started reflecting on our relationship that I would start doing things like i am now...And I cant call her out on that because yes..I probably did act differently. The thing that is different between now and thne is that we have not really argued real bad in years. Things have felt fine...in a rut yet fine. So I have been very attentive and wanting to talk about things. We are still loving and caring to each other....We still hug and kiss and conversate..there is just no heat. This has took a different direction now and is posted in the wrong area....

Ok my wife and I have an up and down sex life...meaning at times it is hot and others it is just routine...We have a few sex toys that I have seen her use with extreme results....I have been the one to always buy them though and introduce them into the bed room. I also travel a lot and i know she uses them while I am gone. Well yesterday we were having a heavy make out session and I ended up going down on her in order to bring her to orgasm and she would just keep getting close then lose it. So I figured I would get one of the toys to add a little more and they were not in the usual place. When I asked her about it she said that she had hid them from me and asked why do I feel like I cant handle the job, and starting saying that they are replacements and so on.... Replacements? I said they are not replacements! They are accessories! Ways to just play...They are toys!! She acted like I was unsure of myself and thought that I needed extra to pleasure her....I mentioned the fact that I know she has used them plenty of times and has always enjoyed them either with me or without me. Well that was the mood killer and we got dressed. So I found them and put them away... If she sees them as replacements...well then.....She will have to do without. It just bugged me..isnt it usually the other way around..with men seeing them as replacements and feeling threatned?? Am I being unreasonable??? Gad you women are so damn complicated!!!!!

Always have wondered what the reaction would be by someone using the pills that does not need them..... Just an erection that wont die..or a painfull one?

I would say not at all....... There are some great articles in the sex education area that will help you sooo much! Good luck!

Well............... What are you waiting for?

6 years without sex?? Cant be......... Take tygers advice Good luck!

Open and honest........ Not descriptive but just honest..... Dont force the talk but do encourage it and just be supportive and as honest as you can be.

I get to add to my list.. Last night my wife gave me a quick blowjob in the ladies bathroom at the bar she works at while there was still a party going on... Hehe

With the librarian in the Wilmer Texas Library In the bathroom at mother in laws house... In the middle of a dead end road..on the road out in the open...more than once.. In plenty of cars. On a slide in a city park...she actually tied me to the slide and a cop busted us...he was laughing so hard that he just told us to get the hell out of there!

Yea inquiring minds want to know! Welcome aboard!

I will be attending aHolloween party at my wifes work and bythe sound of things it is going to be really wild! So i am working on coming up with a wild costume of course... Trying to decide on being either a dirty old man or a drag queen....They both have one thing on common though. Either way i want to open my long coat and suprise everyone with a big ol cock! Cant be mine!!!! What I need to know is what would be the best to choose from! So this is where your expertise come is handy.. I dont want to really be walking around with what looks like a huge boner cause that will give away the element of surprise. It needs to be able to hang down for true shock appeal! What would rock is if I could find one that is flexible and somehow design a rig that would allow it to "pop up" when I open my coat. If I go through with this I am sure it will be a hit at the party

Nice to know that sickos and freaks are weeded out. Good job!

I agree!

An old couple were sitting on the fron porch in their rocking chairs one evening as they always did everyother evening. The wife suddenly gets up and walks over to the husband and slaps him across the face then goes back to her chair. The husband asked 'What in the hell was that for?" His wife responds back " Thats for 50 years of bad sex!" He then gets up walks over to her and slaps her across the face and then goes back to his chair. The wife asks "What in the hell was that for?" He responds back............................... For knowing the difference!

How long have you been using a vibe and how often do you use it? Sometimes you can actually cause your body to get used to certain stimulation. Have you tried more direct clitoral stimulation during sex either using a vibe of even your partners and/or your fingers? How about sex positions? Try to position yourself so that your clit is pressed against his pubic bone and grind away! You are not alone on this...I have heard many women have more trouble having an orgasm during penetration versus mastrbation. Its all about finding what feels good and works for you. Could also be caused by his technique.....sex is waaaay more than just pounding away if that his style! You could also be concentrating too much as well..relaxation and breathing is very important to achieve good orgasms. Experiment with diff positions, clitoral stimulation, and breathing patterns..Take your time and let it build up and you will achieve blissful orgasms.

Welcome!! I lived in Oklahoma for close to ten years....been gone for many as well.

Sorry but you have some tough love coming your way..... Drop the bs.....You sound like a very sexual person that knows what feels good. Also sounds like he has a little innocent school girl fetish.. Some men just really dont come that often from blow jobs..I myself have only came twice since I got my first at the age of 14. At first I thought I was alone till I asked around then I found that it is very common. Best thing for you to do is to relax and let the good times roll...stop thinking and worrying so much about it....nothing good will come of it. Enjoy the moment, read his body language, listen to his breathing, notice the subtle changes in his cock, and relax! Pretty soon that man will be putty for you to mold. Now for the hands...I prefer a firm grip with plenty of lube..saliva is a great lube.. .really soak it down! Try alternating up and down strokes and twisting motions..not too tight with the twisting though...dont want to do any damage here... thats where the wetter the better comes in. Most important...you need to realize that you hold a good deal of power...use that for the better and stop doubting yourself!

Now that is a great plan all in its own!!!! I am a very visual person myself...and the few times that I have actually been able to film us remains some of my best memories...plus I get to relive them every time I decide to watch the tapes!

Sorry...But I...cant...resist....the...urge...to...drop...a...old...joke. Q: Why do women close thier eyes during sex? A: Because they just cant stand to see a man enjoy himself! Hehe sorry about that.. But honestly... There is nothing what so ever odd about it! Listen to Val...she is very correct..

ahhhhh errrrr wow? lol