Being Able To Climax Through A Blowjob

[chance76jp]

In my 31 years, half of which i have been sexually active, I have never climaxed from receiving oral sex.

I have had many partners try unsuccessfully over the years. Different girls have tried different styles.

I have only been able to cum through sexual intercourse. With a couple of my past gfs I have pulled out from their

pussy and came in their mouth, but not the same thing.

I am married now and my wife has been trying really hard to get me to cum with her blowjob.

There have been several sessions that came close to or has gone over an hour.

I feel like i am getting really close to cumming but just can't seem to be able to pass the

threshold... Now my wife is trying to deepthroat me and having a really hard time with that too.

Anyone else out there unable to cum with a blowjob?

-chance

[Mikayla1]

This same question was posted not too long ago. basically, there is probably a mental block that prohibits you from ejaculating in her mouth. You may subconsciously feel that it is "wrong" or too 'porn like' - or you were told by someone, somewhere that this was disrespecful. There are also some guys who just need the extra sensation of the vagina - a mouth (no matter how talented) isn't enough.

I am pleased that your wife is trying so hard - my suggestion is to try to mix it up. Try starting with a BJ, then going to vaginal sex, then back to the bj, then sex, then finally cumming in her mouth. When you start feeling like you are going to cum, slow it down and let her finish you off in her mouth. You may never get to fruition through oral only, so why fight it? Just do what feels good and have FUN!

[Mike_d]

I agree that it is mental. I take much longer though when I am receiving oral. There is nothing wrong with her technique, but rather than say 10 minutes of intercourse, I won't cum in less than 25 or 30 from a bj.....and I love getting them and cumming in her mouth. Once you get past the mental issue of letting go, don't expect that you will "cum on demand" or lose your stamina. Just keep with it and find ways to psych your self up while getting head.

[Blurted]

I haven't ever ejaculated during a blowjob.

doesn't really bother me though.

[Blurted]

I don't. I Realize receiving blowjobs is not the Christian thing to do, and so it's really not something I go seek out.

But this is a place to talk about sexual experience and the fact of the matter is, right or wrong, I have some, so there's no sense in being too ashamed to talk about it.

[Tyger]

Indeed, I don't ever remember reading in the Bible "thou shalt not recieve/give a blow job".

[synirr]

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. (Song of Solomon 2:3)

I think some Christians wrongly group oral sex with sodomy, but to my knowledge, nowhere in the Bible is it mentioned as being sin.

[synirr]

Blurted has more serious things to reconcile with his Christianity than blowjobs.

We are old friends IRL. I know this.

[Blurted]

lol

yeah we've known each other since kindergarten

at any rate, Biblically speaking chastity is the Christian route for single men and women, oral or otherwise.

nobody said blowjobs were anti Christian though. I was just saying I haven't ejaculated during one. They just don't do it for me.

also, I know how to read the bible guys, kthx, I studied it for 3 years in college.

[Blurted]

I didn't connect the two at all.

I said I don't reconcile Christianity with unchastity, and I said I haven't ever ejaculated during a blowjob. Never did I connect the two at all. I didn't say anything about Christianity until somebody else brought it up. It's just a misunderstanding, maybe I wasn't clear.

I'm pretty open sexually, and have no problem not being in missionary position (if you don't believe me I know somebody that can vouch) I am just more turned on by taking an active roll. It's not a deeply seeded teaching or anything, I wasn't brought up in a household where blowjobs were specifically taught against, I just like to be active. That is all.

[pappyld04]

I didn't connect the two at all.

I said I don't reconcile Christianity with unchastity, and I said I haven't ever ejaculated during a blowjob. Never did I connect the two at all. I didn't say anything about Christianity until somebody else brought it up. It's just a misunderstanding, maybe I wasn't clear.

I'm pretty open sexually, and have no problem not being in missionary position (if you don't believe me I know somebody that can vouch) I am just more turned on by taking an active roll. It's not a deeply seeded teaching or anything, I wasn't brought up in a household where blowjobs were specifically taught against, I just like to be active. That is all.

I Realize receiving blowjobs is not the Christian thing to do, and so it's really not something I go seek out.

Not to take sides here but these are your words!

[synirr]

I think Blurted's Christianity is probably not his problem here, although some things he has said in this thread would suggest that. I'm a filthy heathen atheist (haha) and when we hang out his faith is basically a non-issue.

Sounds like his "problem" is the same as mine. I've never come from oral either, or even gotten close. I have absolutely no problem with it, I don't think mouth-genital contact is unclean or anything like that (infact I think it's sexy,) but I don't like to just sit back and receive... I'd much rather be touching, groping, and giving pleasure myself as well! I enjoy receiving oral as part of foreplay, but once I get really good and turned on, I'm ready for something more fun!

[Blurted]

yeah I realized that wasn't clear which is why I said i might not have been clear. I think I should have said "I realize receiving blowjobs is not the Christian thing for a single guy to do" I'm no going to get into doctrinal arguments here though cause this isn't a place for people to question each other's biblical exegesis.

and you are filthy, Synirr that's why you're fun though

and thanks for caring guys, but Synirr's right. That's same reason I love to perform Cunnilingus.

[Deveninny]

Sexual intercourse and religion should not be brought up in the same breath..unless your screaming OH MY GOD.....LOL

[Tyger]

[synirr]

Who else are they going to talk to when they climax?

"OOOOOH [name of lover]!!!"

How's that for an ego boost, eh?

[Cinam0nStyxx]

I don't. I Realize receiving blowjobs is not the Christian thing to do, and so it's really not something I go seek out.

But this is a place to talk about sexual experience and the fact of the matter is, right or wrong, I have some, so there's no sense in being too ashamed to talk about it.

[Cinam0nStyxx]

WHAT?? What did you say about oral sex not being a Christian thing to do? I can't believe I hear this . I too was brought up in a strongly Presbyterian family, but no one ever told ME oral sex or premarital sex or sex as an Adult play time or anal sex or anything that was consensual was ...what would you call it? Non Christian? I know Im not going to rattle your cage about your take on this topic, but how can you say so self-righteously that " I know that receiving blow jobs is not the Christian thing to do"? There are a lot of Christian believers here in this forum, and I find your ignorance offensive.

Who exactly had the nerve to tell you this ? Or bully you with it, more likely?

I hope I haven't offended anyone with my rant, but REALLY now...lol

Old woman, with lover who says " keep practicing, honey, but I can't imagine you could get any better!!"

Dear me.

[synirr]

Cinamon, you might want to re-read the topic. He later correctly himself by saying

I think I should have said "I realize receiving blowjobs is not the Christian thing for a single guy to do"

[jad20fan]

This is a very intersting discussion. I am a Christian who grew up in a Christian home going to church every time the doors were open. I graduated from a Christian college. I have always believed that sex outside of marriage is a sin. I also believe God created man and woman. Our bodies are desiged to please each other. God doesn't say that sex is wrong or dirty but should be shared between a couple married to each other. God wants married couples to fully enjoy each others bodies. I can't quote scripture on that though!!

Although I believe that sex outside marriage is a sin, it's my choice to have sex outside marriage or not. I'm a woman with the desire to have my body pleased sexually and to please a man. I've been able to satisfy my sexual desires through masterbation but the desire to be with a man is very strong. If the right man comes along and I make the decision to have sex, it's a choice I made. I will not regret the decision, even though I may consider it a sin. I'm not turning my back on my beliefs because I sinned. I'm just a human that has her faults just like everyone else.

As far as sex and Christians, there are very few things God says are forbidden sexually. God wants men and women to enjoy sex, enjoy pleasing each other. I'm looking forward to enjoying sex, pleasing a man and being pleasured.