As My Life Doesnt Suck Already...

[kellijane1]

Today, I had my follow up appointment, from after I had the miscarriage and they ran some tests, so today was the day I got the results. They werent good, Like doctor told me I have cervix cancer. Luckily, its not from the hpv virus, cause I guess if its from the hpv virus, its harder to treat( I dont really know much about all this yet, thats just what my doctor told me) One more thing to suck in my life. Can one good thing happen to me please?? I dont even know what else to say, so I'll talk to you guys later.

Kelli

[froggystyle1977]

I am really not sure what to say.. I am sorry your going through such a hard time

[brandyfan411]

Aw!!

My mother had cervical cancer. She had to have her uteris removed but after that she was fine. You'll pull through. I know life sucks...we all have our issues. Just keep your head up Kelli!! I'll pray for you I promise.

God bless!

Oh, and before you get anything done, find out EVERYTHING you can about cerical cancer and your doctors!! It can really make a difference if you know alittle bit. I'll help you if you want (it's always easier when you've got someone lol).

STAY STRONG BABE!! I'M HERE FOR YA!!

[thurisas]

Oh my goodness, you're right, you really need a break. I'm so very sorry that you're going through so much right now. You sound to me like you're as tough as nails and I have a feeling you'll come through everything okay and probably stronger for it. Remember, it is okay to let yourself cry if you need to and you should look for any and all opportunities to smile. There are many people here who are more than happy to lend you an ear. Don't be afraid to use us to help you through your tough times.

Thurisas.

[pappyld04]

I know that there is little if anything we could say that would make your situation better but there are a lot of caring people here if you need us. This is one thing that I can empathize with you though. It sucks that you are so young and have so much shit thrust upon you all at once. I hope things change and go the other way for you!

[jad20fan]

My heart and prayers go out to you. I've had times in my life where I wondered why nothing good was happening. It's a hard thing to go through but I can promise it will be better. Find a good counselor to talk to. It helped me to do that. If there is anything I can do, please contact me through here!!!!!

[Tyger]

Yes, you really do need a break! I'm sorry you're going thru all this. I would recommend that, if your outlets are over the internet, that you find a Miscarriage/Cancer site as well. They're out there, and there will be many people there to help you thru this.

Also, it sounds like you're getting some conflicting info from your doctor. Such as: you can't have kids due to scar tissue due to a rape. But, you WERE pregnant AFTER the rape, yes? I would definitely get a second opinion. And, there are lots of women out there that have had kids AFTER they've had cancer. Unless you have a lot of cancer that needs to be removed (again, I don't know your full medical history), get treated ASAP, and then, later on, when you're fully ready to have kids, go to a fertility specialist and see what THAT doctor says. The doctor treating you cancer will give you a good idea, but the human body is resilliant and a wonderous thing! You never know what it will do! Best wishes!