Newbie jellybean76 Posted June 12, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 My husband has never been able to last longer than a minute or so before cumming. He is great in that he gives me plenty of oral and we use a dildo, so that I am fully satisfied before he actually penetrates me. THe problem is that I often feel a loss of emotion because it is always a dildo or oral stimulation. I never get to feel him in me for more than a minute or so. I was wondering if any of the guys or gals had any suggestions on how he can control himself better. He says he tries but he can't control it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie jellybean76 Posted June 12, 2008 Author Newbie Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Oops, sorry I put this in the wrong section. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted June 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 If he can get hard then do the Kegel's you can eventually add a wet washrag or a towel and have him doing them with added weight. Once he learns to control this muscle it will help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted June 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Or how about a cock ring? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted June 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Bring him to climax, play with him until he's hard again. and then have the main course. There is nothing saying he can only climax once. My suggestion is that you have some fun, let him blow his load, and then 69 so you get the oral loving and he gets aroused again.Another thing you can do is bring him as close to climax as you can without actually letting him do so. All you have to do is back off and work on other parts of his body or let him work on other parts of yours.(another sure way to get him to stop from climaxing is to bring up his mother in law but that is a last resort)Randy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted June 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 ALL of these suggestions are wonderful. I would start wtih the book, and while you are waiting for it to arrive, try the 'start / stop' method. This means, put his cock into you, then STOP. Do not move, do not thrust, just STOP. Then, start again and as soon as you feel the sensations of cumming - STOP. This takes some practice, but is worth it in the end.Also, invest in a cock ring, the 3-pack is a great investment. Be patient, be kind and keep on trying. In the end, at least you have a guy who is willing to get you off in other ways. This is a start and you have come to the right place! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie jellybean76 Posted June 16, 2008 Author Newbie Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 Thanx for all the advice. I will definately look into getting that book. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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