Members sexykitty Posted March 22, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 when someone new posts we know why they came here.....but there are alot of regulars her....you know who you are....so just for the hell of it im asking what brought you to tootimid in the first place....you know way back when....Ill start off....i came online looking for a toy and seen the forum and alot of topic caughtt my interest....i posted my first topic....(i dont remember what it was about) got alot of helpful answers from you all....and here i stay....interesting and informitive.....Now your turn.....where you just looking and stayed like me or did you have a problem and got such great answers here that you just cant stay away.......just a question of interest....so please share dont be shy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted March 22, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 Well, I guess I consider myself a regular! Many people might already know what brought me to TooTimid all those months ago . . .I too was shopping for a toy (I have many toys) and saw the forum. I thought, "hmmmm, I should ask a question about something that has been bothering me." I posted this post - my very first:"My husband and I have been married 10 years...I have a very high sex drive, I like everything from bondage to movies to exhibitionism. My husband is more of the "in the bedroom" kind of guy. getting him to do anything on the wild side is hard. I need to get him to open up and feel more relaxed and in my space. i always though men liked porn and aggressive women, but he just has a hard time going there. Do I give up and have less sex and less fun sex or is there a way to get what I want? HELP!"I received a few answers, and as I was waiting I went and looked on the site to see what else was going on. I decided that my issues were nothing compared to some other issues - that I had been where some women were now - and that some people just needed someone to tell them to "buy a vibrator!" I decided to answer some posts and the rest is history! OVer the course of these months my sex life with my hubby has gotten 100% better - mainly because I took my own advice - I talked to him about my wants and desires and he complied and told me that he loved everything we shared sexually and wanted more - but didn't think I did. It was a communication gap. I am still more sexual than he - but we work on it. No one's relationship is perfect.So, there you go. I just wandered in, asked a question - and now 500 plus posts later I hear that I have helped many people - and hopefully I will hope many more!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tracey Posted March 24, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 24, 2006 Well, I guess I consider myself a regular! Many people might already know what brought me to TooTimid all those months ago . . .I too was shopping for a toy (I have many toys) and saw the forum. I thought, "hmmmm, I should ask a question about something that has been bothering me." I posted this post - my very first:"My husband and I have been married 10 years...I have a very high sex drive, I like everything from bondage to movies to exhibitionism. My husband is more of the "in the bedroom" kind of guy. getting him to do anything on the wild side is hard. I need to get him to open up and feel more relaxed and in my space. i always though men liked porn and aggressive women, but he just has a hard time going there. Do I give up and have less sex and less fun sex or is there a way to get what I want? HELP!"I received a few answers, and as I was waiting I went and looked on the site to see what else was going on. I decided that my issues were nothing compared to some other issues - that I had been where some women were now - and that some people just needed someone to tell them to "buy a vibrator!" I decided to answer some posts and the rest is history! OVer the course of these months my sex life with my hubby has gotten 100% better - mainly because I took my own advice - I talked to him about my wants and desires and he complied and told me that he loved everything we shared sexually and wanted more - but didn't think I did. It was a communication gap. I am still more sexual than he - but we work on it. No one's relationship is perfect.So, there you go. I just wandered in, asked a question - and now 500 plus posts later I hear that I have helped many people - and hopefully I will hope many more!Mikayla I found this site by accident, I was actually looking for Adam and Eve catalogs, my hubby used to get them, and I found this instead and never looked any further. I was satisfied with the items I see here and with the info I have received after some of my posts-thank you Howard and Mikaya and ty to everyone else for all the ideas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexxxikittie Posted March 24, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 24, 2006 Well, I honestly can't remember how I came across this site. More than likely, I was tooling around in the internet and ran across this one, somtime late last summer, and never forgot it. I did check it out for a while and actually posted under another name asking for advice on toys (didn't get any response - but that didn't stop me). I still read on and got more advice and info from reading. I decided to login again with a new name because I couldn't remember my password since I hadn't used the other name in so long (it was one that I only used here). I think that I deceided to post again since I still had questions that all the posts that I had read didn't hit exactally what I was looking to have answered. This site seems to have the most honest and real communication regarding sex and intimacy that I have seen.For me, talking about sex with my family is actually kind of a taboo thing - and I guess that even in my 30's I am still looked at as the "baby" in the family (even my older sister doesn't know this much about me). Here, with all the varying ages, experiences and perspectives, we can all be as open as we care to be; and isn't that what everyone needs - open communication without the embarassment or restraints that our regular lives bring?Maybe more info than you wanted, but I have found this site to be a comfortable place to be more honest about who I am and know that there are other people out there with similar likes, dislikes and questions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members curvacious_lust Posted March 25, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 I don't remember either. I'm guessing that I was looking for a toy and found this site during a search, and noticed the adult talk forum link and started reading. I do know I lurked for a least a month or two before I posted or even signed up for an account. I'm FAR from anything close to Howard and Mikayla, but I'm having fun learning as I go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted March 25, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 When you say "far from Howard and Mikayla" do you mean our inability to concede? Our continual bantering? Or, our mental instablility?CL, you offer many, many good posts here! I don't consider myself to be "above" you or anybody else here - I just talk a lot about what I have experienced! I am most sure that you have had some experiences that I have not - we just need to find the right post for it!Keep on posting girl!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members curvacious_lust Posted March 25, 2006 Members Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Boy, my post sure came out wrong ... lol. I meant that it seems like you both have had long wonderful sex lives and me being 37, didn't realize a lot of this until after my first marriage came crumbling down and here I was, at 27-28 years old, finally figuring out what sex was really about and I'm STILL trying to learn it all. Of course, a near fatal car accident on my part and husband being diagnosed with Bipolar disorder after being married for almost 3 years, throws in a curve too. (I don't suggest brain trauma to anyone) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexykitty Posted March 26, 2006 Author Members Report Share Posted March 26, 2006 thanks to all for the posts so far....now hope the rest of you start...dont be shy keep em coming....its very interesting to find out what reasons brought us all here....and why we stayed.....any i know some have said they may have given to much info....theres nothing wrong with that....better to have more then not enough......and in regards to Howards post yes im sure the topics have repeated themselves.....i havent been here all that long and ive seen it already and i think i have started topics that have been done before but thanks for answering them again even if it is a repeat.....im sure this site have helped many people.......and if it wasnt for the regulars posting who would??? it kills me that you see so many view topics so you know they are out there we just have to hope someday the open up and offer a point of view or a helpful answer......KEEP UP THE GREAT ANSWERS TO ALL THE REGULARSWell, I guess I consider myself a regular! Many people might already know what brought me to TooTimid all those months ago . . .I too was shopping for a toy (I have many toys) and saw the forum. I thought, "hmmmm, I should ask a question about something that has been bothering me." I posted this post - my very first:"My husband and I have been married 10 years...I have a very high sex drive, I like everything from bondage to movies to exhibitionism. My husband is more of the "in the bedroom" kind of guy. getting him to do anything on the wild side is hard. I need to get him to open up and feel more relaxed and in my space. i always though men liked porn and aggressive women, but he just has a hard time going there. Do I give up and have less sex and less fun sex or is there a way to get what I want? HELP!"I received a few answers, and as I was waiting I went and looked on the site to see what else was going on. I decided that my issues were nothing compared to some other issues - that I had been where some women were now - and that some people just needed someone to tell them to "buy a vibrator!" I decided to answer some posts and the rest is history! OVer the course of these months my sex life with my hubby has gotten 100% better - mainly because I took my own advice - I talked to him about my wants and desires and he complied and told me that he loved everything we shared sexually and wanted more - but didn't think I did. It was a communication gap. I am still more sexual than he - but we work on it. No one's relationship is perfect.So, there you go. I just wandered in, asked a question - and now 500 plus posts later I hear that I have helped many people - and hopefully I will hope many more!Mikayla very interesting what brought you here....im sure you agree that most women dont have such a high sex drive....i know i didnt in the past and thank god that has changed....anyway how did you go for 10yrs with not really getting your hubby to open up??? at least you didnt give up and as you said all is much better now.....i agree with you i thought most men were into porn etc....and to find a women into it all i would think would make that man think he died and went to heaven....not that its wrong that your hubby is or was a in the bedroom type that kinda nice since most men thest days arent....i feel like every guy i have slept with has had alot more experience then me......and were into alot more then i have ever done....thanks for your posts and yes you are a regular here and without you and the others no one would get any answers KEEP POSTING Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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