Members vanilla_bean Posted September 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Some of my earliest posts and many of my conversations in chat have been about my insecurities in giving my husband oral sex. He used to turn me down most of the time, even though he said it felt good, which led me to wonder what I was doing wrong. I tried many of the techniques I read about here, which didn't hurt, but wasn't really the centre of the problem. The advise I got here that really worked had to do with, of course, communication. I had to let him know that it was something that I WANTED and ENJOYED doing. He always felt like it was something that I didn't really want to do and only did for his sake.We spent a week at a small cabin this summer- two families, three small bedrooms and we were stuck in the middle one. This meant we had to be very quiet. One night after I gave him oral, he said, "That felt so good it almost hurt!" I was proud of myself. Oral isn't a problem any more so thanks for listening to my whining and thanks for the advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted September 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 One night after I gave him oral, he said, "That felt so good it almost hurt!" I was proud of myself. Oral isn't a problem any more so thanks for listening to my whining and thanks for the advice. That's when you know you're on the right path. It's not really a pain but it is overly intense! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted September 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Good for you, I am proud of you, too.Nothing is hotter to me then when sweetguy says if I don't stop soon,I'm gonna get a mouthful and none in my muffin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted September 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 I had to let him know that it was something that I WANTED and ENJOYED doing. He always felt like it was something that I didn't really want to do and only did for his sake.How is it that we talk so frequently and I don't know this????? It's funny My H is the same way he has NO idea how much I enjoy it. I mean I tell him but I think it was hard for him to believe. I think it is hard for most guys to believe! I have told him very specifically why and what I love about it. I think he believes me now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted September 27, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 It's funny My H is the same way he has NO idea how much I enjoy it. I mean I tell him but I think it was hard for him to believe. I think it is hard for most guys to believe!Same here. I have told some people that I really do enjoy it, and have gotten the "yeah, right" response. But after explaining, and in some cases showing they seem to understand and believe.Good for you Beanie! I am so glad you got this worked through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted September 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Nothing is hotter to me then when sweetguy says if I don't stop soon,I'm gonna get a mouthful and none in my muffin. I totally get why he's your "Sweetguy".In retrospect, it was such a silly situation. I read Cosmo at the hairdresser's so I know guys like BJs more than breathing. I was so insecure about my abilities because here was my guy turning me down all the time. While I was wringing my hands over this, he thought he was doing me a favour by refusing me. Jeez.Sun, I really like your idea of being very specific about exactly why I like it and what it does for me. That is on the to-do list . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members makasha1 Posted September 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 he said, "That felt so good it almost hurt!"The way I put it is " OMG, that hurts SO good!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted September 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 AWWW!!! yeah honey!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sterculius Posted September 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 Don't you just love those win-win situations? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members littlemissnonamegirl Posted September 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 29, 2008 woot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sterculius Posted October 2, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 2, 2008 Good for you, I am proud of you, too.Nothing is hotter to me then when sweetguy says if I don't stop soon,I'm gonna get a mouthful and none in my muffin. I heartily agree with the sentiments, but ....your "muffin"?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted October 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 5, 2008 Thats what he calls it.............it was a new one for me to, but I'm not going to complain! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted October 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 5, 2008 It's a huge turn on to get someone to almost lose control.One lover early watched me during oral sex and after he came, he asked me, with wonder in his voice, "you really like doing that!"I said, "well, YEAH, duh!!!"It was new to him...IMO many women do it just to please their man...but if they read Mikayla's articles and practiced techniques, i think they'd like it a lot more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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