Members Beavis Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Ok I have a question sorry if its been asked. Is it considered cheating if you're with say a girlfriend and you go have sex with a guy or if you're with a guy and you have sex with a women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 If you are dating someone and you have sex with someone else without the consent of the person you are dating, I would absolutely consider it cheating.If you got permission, however, then perhaps not. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted October 1, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 yesDitto. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 ABSOLUTELY! Not only are you toying with the partners emotions you are also risking their health! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 How would you feel if the tables were turned? OF COURSE IT'S CHEATING! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members FOS Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Yeah, it's defintely cheating. Regardless whether it's homo or hetero sex, if you're in a relationship and you have an understanding that the two of you are exclusive, then sex with anyone else is cheating. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Pretty clear cut. It is cheating. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted October 1, 2008 Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 It most certainly is cheating if you're in a relationship and it's understood that you're exclusive. Whether is straight or "gay" sex, if you wouldn't like your SO doing it with another person, then you shouldn't do it either. Sex is sex is sex. So is having oral sex with someone, giving hand jobs, and even kissing someone else (romantically, not-peck-on-the-cheek/hi-how're-you-doing? kind), is all cheating. It's being intimate with another person no matter what gender. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Why wouldn't it be cheating? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr.SP Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 I feel you already new what the real answer was, before you asked the question.Damn morals are always in the way. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Yes, plus it tends to hurt (from what I have noticed) when you cheat on you opposite sex SO with someone of your same sex (or vice versa I imagine), it's like they scared you off the team. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Beavis Posted October 1, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Ok it is cheating. Sorry it's just an ex of mine said while her and I were dating that if I had a male fuck buddy that it wouldn't be cheating because I was with a guy and not another female. But it is cheating. No other question that came to my mind today is it still cheating if you have 2 FWBs and they know and don't mind? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted October 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Ok it is cheating. Sorry it's just an ex of mine said while her and I were dating that if I had a male fuck buddy that it wouldn't be cheating because I was with a guy and not another female. But it is cheating. No other question that came to my mind today is it still cheating if you have 2 FWBs and they know and don't mind?See the FWB situtation is where the line becomes blurred because your not in a relationship officlly, but if this is a regualr occurence then you have a responsiblity to your partner to not engage in activities that could cause them harm ie: multiple partners increases your risk of getting an STD. Also are their feelinsg invovled, are both "friends" having other partners or just the one? No it's not cheating because your not in a relationship. The closer answer to the truth? Each relationship is different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Beavis Posted October 2, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted October 2, 2008 I was thinking it would be a female FWB and make sure she doesn't have anybody else and a male FWB and make sure he doesn't have anybody else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted October 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 3, 2008 I think your partner sets the stage for what is cheating and what isn't. Whether or not THEY consider it cheating is what's important, there are all kinds of relationship dynamics out there in which one or both partners are allowed to sleep with people outside of their relationship and it is not considered cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 3, 2008 I think your partner sets the stage for what is cheating and what isn't. Whether or not THEY consider it cheating is what's important, there are all kinds of relationship dynamics out there in which one or both partners are allowed to sleep with people outside of their relationship and it is not considered cheating.Definitely it is up to the other party. AND might I add if it is done in secret with out the other person knowing I believe it is safe to say it is cheating. Sneaking behind someones back is never a good sign. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Beavis Posted October 4, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted October 4, 2008 Ok thank you for help. I guess I will have to make the call on whether to talk to her about this or just drop it. Thank you all for helping. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members christinaf085 Posted April 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 27, 2009 yes, regardless of weather you are gay, bi or straight if you are dating someone and have sex with someone else its absolutly 100% cheating! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted May 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 3, 2009 I will say no, or at least I don't feel it is, at least for me. And I'm pretty straight-and-narrow and square about most things.A couple of years ago, while talking about various things, my wife let me know that she was bi-curious, fantasized about and wanted to try sex with another girl, etc. and so forth. I was OK with that, and gave her the go ahead. Nothing major has happened, but she has had a couple/few mild encounters. I find the whole business arousing.I got her liquored up recently, and she revealed that 8 or 10 years ago (after we were married a couple of years), she had had an ongoing fling with another girl, including smoochings, gropings, fingers, toys, oral, and falling asleep together. She didn't tell me at the time 'cuz she didn't know how I'd react, plus the other girl didn't want me knowing (it was someone I knew). After our couple-of-year ago talk, she still hesitated to tell me 'cuz she thought I might be mad that she had kept this a secret for so long.I am not at all mad she did it or kept it secret. I do not feel cheated. Again, I am aroused by the whole thing, and keep asking for more sordid details. I have asked myself several times, "should I be mad or feel cheated?" But I do not feel those things.That it was with a girl and not a guy, to me, makes all the difference in the world. I'm not sure I could put into words or any kind of logical argument why I feel that way. But that's the way it is and the way I feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bluelotusparties Posted May 1, 2012 Members Report Share Posted May 1, 2012 yes!doing "sexual things" outside the relationship is clearly cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Tman Posted September 25, 2019 Members Report Share Posted September 25, 2019 Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Connieknows Posted September 25, 2019 Members Report Share Posted September 25, 2019 OMG OF COURSE SILLY guyor girl gender doesn't detriment weather or not it's SEX if your girlfriend or boyfriend had sex with someone else wouldn't you consider that SEX???? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Alyssa Posted September 26, 2019 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2019 YES! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amy D Posted September 28, 2019 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2019 Absolutely cheating. Anything sexual with anyone else is cheating, IMO. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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