Members liminal76 Posted April 19, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 i enjoy going down on my bf, but i am struggling with the taste of precum. he's asked my why i stopped and i cannot bear to tell him the truth. does anyone know any tricks to going down on him while i work on getting used to the taste?thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted April 19, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 i enjoy going down on my bf, but i am struggling with the taste of precum. he's asked my why i stopped and i cannot bear to tell him the truth. does anyone know any tricks to going down on him while i work on getting used to the taste?thanks.What he eats directly effect the taste. coffee, garlic, even smoking yuck.....Have him either eat some sweet things to yummy up the taste or take a look at the flavored lube section, it helps.Also click on the below link it is all about taste and what helps. Also if you haven't already done so check out the education page.Is it a Myth? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members liminal76 Posted April 19, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 Smoking? serious? i had no idea, but now it makes sense. we've been dating for almost a year and really don't have sex often because of our work schedules. i don't want to add fuel to the fire (and certainly don't want to make an issue of it) but how do i tell him the real problem? he smokes and is not planning on quitting anytime soon. i just want to get back in the mood and make him really want me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted April 19, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 Smoking? serious? i had no idea, but now it makes sense. we've been dating for almost a year and really don't have sex often because of our work schedules. i don't want to add fuel to the fire (and certainly don't want to make an issue of it) but how do i tell him the real problem? he smokes and is not planning on quitting anytime soon. i just want to get back in the mood and make him really want me.So make it a point to include fresh fruit in your dinners, feeding them to him will just make it seem sexy. The more he eats the better it will taste, now it's not gonna taste as good as it would if he were to quit but it will get better. Also this is something that you could bring up, make it into a challenge. "hey honey I heard that we can change the way we taste by eatting certain things, wanna try?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted April 19, 2009 Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 i think the best approach is to be up front and honest. trying to cover the truth in order to spare feelings pretty much always ends up in that person being hurt twice as much later down the line. if the relationship is anything worth holding a match to, he will at the very least be understanding and probably willing to at least try to work with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted April 19, 2009 Report Share Posted April 19, 2009 i think the best approach is to be up front and honest. trying to cover the truth in order to spare feelings pretty much always ends up in that person being hurt twice as much later down the line. if the relationship is anything worth holding a match to, he will at the very least be understanding and probably willing to at least try to work with you.This is a good practice to embrace. Honesty and being direct is a good thing. In bringing up something like this, which can be insulting to a degree, you also need to practice TACT with.Many smokers are on the offensive if you say ANYTHING about their smoking. So, you will probably know how to approach this a little better than we will, as far as that aspect.Yes, everything you put in your body you will find can affect the taste of your "juices", male AND female. Have you ever noticed that, after eating a lot of garlic/onions, your urine or even vaginal area can smell a bit sour, but not sick-like sour? Same thing. Foods high in iron, yeast, and acid can really affect your tastes more. Coffee too.If you drink a lot of water, this can make the things you put into your body a bit more flushed out, so the tastes wouldn't be as strong though. ANOTHER GREAT reason to drink more water!! WOOT!! Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members panab Posted April 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 I think just being honest and open about it is the best idea long term. If he's not offended there are several things you can do to change the taste. The best of which are really more water (dilutes the tastes) & fresh fruit (sweetens the deal). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted April 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 I think just being honest and open about it is the best idea long term. If he's not offended there are several things you can do to change the taste. The best of which are really more water (dilutes the tastes) & fresh fruit (sweetens the deal).Yes, I agree, but also you can't taste anything through the strong altoids taste for a little while too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dscn Posted April 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 try putting some honey on it it should sweeten the deal and if your going to have sex afterwards make him wash is penis off because you don't want honey up in your vagina because it may cause an yeast infection Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 see, personally i am DISGUSTED by mixing food and sex together, and even more disgusted by using something with a sticky/syrup texture like chocolate or honey (honey actually doesn't have any sugar in it btw). however if you don't mind it that might be something you could look into...although i don't think that flavored lubes/food should be used to MASK the taste (the only thing worse than a room that smells like fish is a room that smells like fish and roses mixed together, right?) i think they are more to enhance it. O'my makes a sugar free flavored lube that is safe to use without having to stop and wash in between (here) and i think the swiss navy ones are also sugar free but i'm not 100% sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted April 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 (honey actually doesn't have any sugar in it btw)Honey is made of Fructose and glucose. Therefore, it is a sugar, and CAN contribute to a yeast infection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members liminal76 Posted April 21, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Honey is made of Fructose and glucose. Therefore, it is a sugar, and CAN contribute to a yeast infection.thanks everyone for all the feedback...it is really enlightening. the truth is, he honestly does not taste that bad, but there is a taste. I never really liked going down on a guy. then i started dating a man about 2 years ago and could not get enough of it. the transition to my new BF is where i got hung up (no pun intended.) i think most women enjoy the taste...not me. i want to give it to him good, but i need to get over my issues. i like all the advice on the food. i really never knew it had an effect on everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 but honey is kind of wierd isn't it? it kills microorganisms despite having sugar and releases hydrogen peroxide. im not really sure what effect that would have but i don't really like honey as a food. it is a good ingredient for face masks though XD 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted April 22, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 but honey is kind of wierd isn't it? it kills microorganisms despite having sugar and releases hydrogen peroxide. im not really sure what effect that would have but i don't really like honey as a food. it is a good ingredient for face masks though XDIts bee poop,of course it's weird! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 Its bee poop,of course it's weird!lol its not bee poop its bee spit! have you heard of that energy drink that is popular in Japan that is made out of hornet saliva? supposedly their saliva is the "source of their energy" or something like that... looks tasty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted April 22, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 lol its not bee poop its bee spit! have you heard of that energy drink that is popular in Japan that is made out of hornet saliva? supposedly their saliva is the "source of their energy" or something like that... looks tastyWhoa bees spit? didn't thier bee-mom tell them that's rude? I think I'll pass on hornet spit though that sounds weird plus i don't like energy drinks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted April 22, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 thanks everyone for all the feedback...it is really enlightening. the truth is, he honestly does not taste that bad, but there is a taste. I never really liked going down on a guy. then i started dating a man about 2 years ago and could not get enough of it. the transition to my new BF is where i got hung up (no pun intended.) i think most women enjoy the taste...not me. i want to give it to him good, but i need to get over my issues. i like all the advice on the food. i really never knew it had an effect on everything.I think you just answered your own question....so much of it is directly related to how turned on you are by the act of sucking him! If he really inspires you, the give and take of it is so erotically charged that there is no way you can be bothered by his cum! I think it depends on just how into it you both get...a dead lay with no positive or mutual feedback is a buzzkill that will have you focusing on the negative and wanting it to just end quickly, whereas someone who really responds gets you hotter too and the game is ON! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members joeajp Posted January 24, 2013 Members Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 Lots of fresh fruit, raw vegetables, and protein. Pre cum actually is very tasty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 28, 2013 Report Share Posted January 28, 2013 Also, if you're really bothered by the taste, of pre-cum, not bee poop or hornet saliva LMAO, then try some flavored lubes, or try some Good Head gel. It's made for that reason, in case the taste turns you off, you can put some of that on the cock, and lick it like a lollipop. Fun for him, and tasty for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted January 28, 2013 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2013 Honesty and trust in the relationship would help. Think about how you REALLY feel about him, the relationship, the sex, then talk to him about how you feel. Chloegirl had very good insight. If the relationship is solid, with trust and mutual respect, you'll want to suck him off so bad you won't notice if there is a taste. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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