Please Help... How To Eliminate Residual Fecal Matter

[suze]

Someone please help me. Have new bf who is heavy into the anal side of things. Bought me butt plug to start stretching me out in preparation for his large penis. Been using several times a day as he suggested. There is always about an inch of fecal matter on the end when I pull it out. This would be very embarrassing if he were using the plug on me or when we get me ready to handle his penis. Can anyone tell me how to prevent this from happening?

Thanks so much. Suze

[sass]

Enemas, I always use them before any anal play. Regular warm water will do, although I have heard of all kind of others.

[Tyger]

Where you CAN do an enema, it's not recommended on a regular basis since your body produces bacteria to keep that area flowing, um, well flowing! HOwever, before anal play, it's a common thing to do an enema. I'm not sure about the long-term effects of it.

When we are planning on it, we make sure we don't have to "go", take a shower, and clean up there as best we can. Sometimes hubby will give himself a shower enema as best he can. But, since you are talking about putting something UP inside your anus, where things are suppose to be coming OUT, even the best cleaning can sometimes even have residual fecal matter. It's one of those things that, if you do have anal sex, you're going to have to tolerate. It won't be eliminated 100% since your anus isn't smooth as glass, it's going to have little pcs left behind which may come off on a toy/cock.

[Tyger]

Where you CAN do an enema, it's not recommended on a regular basis since your body produces bacteria to keep that area flowing, um, well flowing! HOwever, before anal play, it's a common thing to do an enema. I'm not sure about the long-term effects of it.

When we are planning on it, we make sure we don't have to "go", take a shower, and clean up there as best we can. Sometimes hubby will give himself a shower enema as best he can. But, since you are talking about putting something UP inside your anus, where things are suppose to be coming OUT, even the best cleaning can sometimes even have residual fecal matter. It's one of those things that, if you do have anal sex, you're going to have to tolerate. It won't be eliminated 100% since your anus isn't smooth as glass, it's going to have little pcs left behind which may come off on a toy/cock.

[raniedaize]

It might help for you to think about it this way: You say he is heavy into the anal side of things, which means to me that he has enough experience with anal to expect it...and to have already come to terms with it. And if it doesn't bother him, don't let it bother you. Just relax and enjoy it!

[elise]

Where you CAN do an enema, it's not recommended on a regular basis since your body produces bacteria to keep that area flowing, um, well flowing! HOwever, before anal play, it's a common thing to do an enema. I'm not sure about the long-term effects of it.

With all due respect, Tyger, regular enemas aren't harmful. I went through a period of several years where daily enemas were my routine and I suffered no ill effects, and was in fact advised by my doctor that it was healthier than routine use of laxatives, which were my alternative at that time. Fortunately, diet and exercise changes fixed that for me, and I use enemas now only on occasion. I am an RN, by the way.

In response to the original post: dear, the rectum doesn't normally have fecal material in it. It is a "holding area", so while you might find some material on your anal plug now and then, it shouldn't be there every time. Use of a daily stool softener pill (NOT a laxative) should help your bowel movements work more efficiently. The average penis is longer than the average butt plug, so if you're getting material on the plug, his cock is definitely going to get messy inside your bottom unless you use enemas.

If you're concerned about having a mess with anal intercourse, you should expect to have some fecal material present some of the tim.e. Unless you take an enema an hour or two before anal intercourse, which is what I almost always do when I'm horny for anal sex. I prefer my enema about 2 hours before "bedtime", which gives me plenty of time to evacuate and to let my bowel re-establish its natural harmony. About a quart of warm tapwater in an enema bag is a good place to start, and repeat in 15 minutes if you don't think the first enema worked.

[Cacky]

This was good info. Hubby told me about a year ago that he would like to do anal. I was like NO way. We have now done it a few times. And always have potty on either him or a toy. So enema to the rescue. I really do enjoy it, but always thinking about the mess.

[12GAUGE]

With all due respect, Tyger, regular enemas aren't harmful. I went through a period of several years where daily enemas were my routine and I suffered no ill effects, and was in fact advised by my doctor that it was healthier than routine use of laxatives, which were my alternative at that time. Fortunately, diet and exercise changes fixed that for me, and I use enemas now only on occasion. I am an RN, by the way.

In response to the original post: dear, the rectum doesn't normally have fecal material in it. It is a "holding area", so while you might find some material on your anal plug now and then, it shouldn't be there every time. Use of a daily stool softener pill (NOT a laxative) should help your bowel movements work more efficiently. The average penis is longer than the average butt plug, so if you're getting material on the plug, his cock is definitely going to get messy inside your bottom unless you use enemas.

If you're concerned about having a mess with anal intercourse, you should expect to have some fecal material present some of the tim.e. Unless you take an enema an hour or two before anal intercourse, which is what I almost always do when I'm horny for anal sex. I prefer my enema about 2 hours before "bedtime", which gives me plenty of time to evacuate and to let my bowel re-establish its natural harmony. About a quart of warm tapwater in an enema bag is a good place to start, and repeat in 15 minutes if you don't think the first enema worked.

First of all I just wanna say........I LOVE NURSES!!!!!

Twenty+years ago I had a gf who was a Nurse and a Nam Vet. She ALWAYS made me sleep on the wet spot. I didn't mind after a while since I had done my Manly Duty and given Her that wet spot...but I digress.

I love anal sex. When I'm in the mood for sum hot lovin' I can't get showered and enema-nated fast enough!! I use a rubber water bottle that holds about 2 quarts. I keep at it till that puppy comes out crystal clear cuz I ain't into the 'ewwy' stuff at all. I've found that a lite diet with no meat for a couple days helps out too but that's just me.

I can't stand to wait 2 minutes let alone 2 hours... But it's all good cuz I've got a heavy duty Rubber Sheet on my bed. If things do (occasionally) get messy a warm washcloth and 3 seconds takes right good care of the prob right now. Now and then I gotta have another quick shower and another enema. But I don't care when I want anal I WANT ANAL!!!

Tho it's pretty rare now and then when I want anal I just git nekkid and go for it only to find out I was already squeaky clean. Those are always some of the best anal sex+I get a couple more hours playtime....Yehaaaaaaaa

That's just the way this ole Redneck does it!!

[12GAUGE]

HUA!!!

[LindaP]

My ex husband was huge and I always used an enema and even then he had some poop residue on the end of his penis. My current bf is about 5-6 inches and we do not have this problem. By the way 6 inches feels way better than the monster of my ex. I can now enjoy anal..

[Snakeos]

On June 2, 2011 at 10:50 AM, sass said:

Enemas, I always use them before any anal play. Regular warm water will do, although I have heard of all kind of others.

Use cold water never warm or hot water

[12GAUGE]

On 7/15/2013 at 3:14 AM, LindaP said:

My ex husband was huge and I always used an enema and even then he had some poop residue on the end of his penis. My current bf is about 5-6 inches and we do not have this problem. By the way 6 inches feels way better than the monster of my ex. I can now enjoy anal..

Hay Linda! My favorite dildo is within my reach right this minute. Eight years ago I took daily medication which made me so regular you could set a clock to me. Two BMs before work and I was clean as a whistle for the next 23 hours. Man oh man that was nice. 8 years later I never know when I'm gonna need to go but I got out of my anal fun cuz I went thru some lifestyle changes and was stressed too much and yada yada yada... 3 or 4 months ago I got the old yearnings and put the pedal to the metal. Had a few hours of fun. Had to stop cuz it got messy. Bummer it was but I wasn't into a series of enemas. Well been horny as an old goat last couple days. So as I type this I never got dressed after my shower Wednesday around 1330. It's nice sittin nekid as a J bird tuggin my knob up until half hour ago Lil Red was jammed up my keester. When I finish this thread I be headin fer ole XHamster and get my freak on with Nina and Ginger Amber and perhaps Stephanie Swift. All hot porno stars from the last 30 years.

 

But where is this screwball going with this? Best dildo I ever bought is 5.5 to 6 pure lovely insertable inches about 1.5" diameter with a nice tight ball sac to hang onto. It's called the FABCOCK made by TOPCO Sales. Ran me around 15-20 bucks around 2005. Bought mine IIRC right here at TT. No bullet but got a nice suction cup. Perfect for shower walls and dryers. Almost indestructible. One of these days I'll be buying a new one just to be on the safe side. Plus Mister Big has given me 2 leg crampin toe curlin Kegel bustin assgasms the first lasted 2 full minutes and my Kegels were going bonkers. Second Assgasm went about 45 seconds and it was just like the first BIG ONE just shorter duration and 5 or 10 thousand little assgasms over 11 years. Works good in a womans coochee too. I gotta go rub one out.

Edited May 26, 2016 by 12GAUGE
added some info

[12GAUGE]

HAY NOW lets bring this subject back to the forefront and git It ON!!!

 

The last couple years I've read here and there probly on the web one should use DISTILLED water instead of tap water.  With many of us living in large (100,000+pop) cities or small towns (10,000 or less) served by a local water district or PUD I have read the chlorine and or fluoride to fight cavities kids all get (and the related expenses/BILLS) by using distilled water it is HEALTHIER for your anus and anal canal going distilled. I am not an MD or health worker. Funny thing tho is after having found this out I still use water from my bathroom sink or from the shower head and I've never had any untoward or ill effects using regular water. I've visited several sites here and there and have found I enjoy a nice soapy enema with DOCTOR BRONNER'S PURE-CASTILE SOAP (ORGANIC) made with HEMP. It's a pleasant Lavender flavor made with Organic Oils. Even comes in a lavender colored bottle. Sometimes I like a MILK ENEMA. Now I haven't had a milk enema for a long ass time. Butt (pi) I learned accidentally (in the throes of an unexpected Orgasm an enema can give one a real nice Big O when it was the LAST THANG you expected.

That right thar is why I am BIG on anti skid mats in the tub and grab bars/rails on the walls. 

 

Yozaaaaaaaaa I just took a real nice hit off a shot of R&R and I feel GRAND so I'm gonna duck on outta here and head for XHam and the new for me/just found the place LESS THAN 24 hours ago titsandass.com and git laid via the ***tried and true method of MASTURBATION*** and rub one out. Humma Humma!! Woo Hoo this instant BUZZ I just picked up has swept to the end of my fingers even!! YesSiree Uncle Bob's yer uncle...... Damn it all to Hell I'm a wishing right this minute my favorite gay bar was right near my place cuz I'd be walkin inside in 10 minutes scoping out a cute guy with a VERY NICE package and saying "hay Baby wanna take a walk on the WILD SIDE??!!? Lator Gators!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[12GAUGE]

 IRRIGATION Suze

IRRIGATION my dear.

Please excuse me I have a really short attention span. Plus I ramble at the drop of a drop of a seagull making a direct hit 

If your man is huge or just very well equipped you're gonna wanna get the tried and true (and still found in bathrooms across 'Murica) 2 quart RED BAG. Mine cost around 20 bucks at K Mart IIRC. Very likely I BAGGED UP a good 10 years ago. Cums(NI) with around 4 feet of white flex tube and 2 nozzles. Yours should have a spot in which to hang it near the fill opening. Should be a screw in top hole with screw cap. 

If you care to do your due diligence and really research the benefits and history of enemas I think you may find it fascinating and find yourself oozing girl juice and your nipples will stiffen up. Some of these sites will feature Erotic stories involving enema administrations. Frankly I have read SO MANY of these stories that I kin think of quite a few Bucket List sexual encounters I wish to partake of and today is a fine time to start. It's at least 80 RFN (RIGHT FUCKIN' NOW) and I am hornier than an OLD Billy Goat.

SOMEBODY QUICK BEND OVER AND GRAB YER ANKLES!!!!!!!! I'LL GIVE YA A REACH AROUND!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I have a couple good sites bout enema fun just PM me if you wanna.

 

Edit: Suze did you know there's a FAMOUS photographer of EVERYTHING SEXUAL AND EROTIC. Her name is SUZE too. Suze Randall. Likely retired now her only child is now a famous photographer following in the footsteps of mama. Suze Randall when younger was SO HOT she could a gay fairy into a woman humpin' STUD. Built like a Brick Battleship she is. She was a Super Fine STONE FOX. Dollars to donuts she's near as fine just like wine and has aged to PERFECTION.

 

 

Just a smidgen of trivia for ye.

Edited June 5, 2016 by 12GAUGE
Added Suze Randall bit. HUA

[12GAUGE]

On 6/2/2011 at 8:50 AM, sass said:

Enemas, I always use them before any anal play. Regular warm water will do, although I have heard of all kind of others.

I did some research on that very matter Sass and learned muchly. It was recommended to me to obtain some Doctor Bronner's Magic Lavender Soap. I did so. For a nice soapy enema this stuff gets the job DONE. HUA. Also tried the Moo Juice enema and it too is fun. I love to watch Japanese girls spray each other with milky ass juice. Makes fer sum mind numbing kinky sex. I've had sum but I want MORE. For a relaxing time some use wine. Read up on wine enemas as there can be complications if using too much. I thin the milk with water when I go the Milky Way. If I were to try this it wood be Beck's Beer as I have some yonder in my icebox. I prefer to drink my alcohol as Whiskey. Tho not recommended I prefer my kinky sex with a Grade A BUZZ

 

The perfect last rinse is adding 2 drops to a 2 quart bag of Organic Peppermint Oil. If you use 4 drops it will hurt from the inside out and unless you're really into pain this is not advised. Two drops per 2 quarts  is the cats meow. You and your partner will have tasty like a candy cane asses. I scored for free my .5oz or so bottle 10 days shy of 4 years ago. I have used less than 10%. This should last me the rest of my life. Even if it don't it was 5 or 6 bucls on 2012. Got it at one of those natural nutrition places.The Hot sales guy who helped me? I put my bestus Hillbilly moves on him but alas he wasn't bi. RATS Right over in the next town too. I'm still in the closet you see. 

 

For those curious there are sum pretty fine enema heavy sites out there. Ya just have to be not willing to give up. I am a member of an Enema site. It's a real humdinger too. PM me.

[12GAUGE]

On ‎7‎/‎15‎/‎2013 at 3:14 AM, LindaP said:

My ex husband was huge and I always used an enema and even then he had some poop residue on the end of his penis. My current bf is about 5-6 inches and we do not have this problem. By the way 6 inches feels way better than the monster of my ex. I can now enjoy anal..

As Linda said her new boyfriend with his 6 incher does Linda better than her ex with his massive (knocks over buildings) member. I'd have to go look but I think I have 2 thick ( 2.5" ) dongs I used sometimes in my heyday 5 years ago. Problem was it wood take me more than 2 hours of reaming myself to reach the point where I wood try to work in the dong I still call the...................HUMONGOUS With a large bulbous head it was a real stretch easing that monster inside my tight lovehole.  The  ONLY way I could do it at all was by snorting big hits of this stuff called RUSH or Platinum. Unfortunately due to (IMHO) political correctness swayed upper management of my go to sex shop to stop carrying RUSH 2 years ago. Bummer  Even if I could get HUMONGUS inside I couldn't hardly move it. I like fast in/out plus I twist it half a turn and doing thus really sets me off and gives me little orgasms where I have to stop and catch my breath. My Old Faithful  Mister Big is the PERFECTO SIZE-O especially for the twisting motions and rapid thrusting. That's where it's at for me. 

That's why give me a sturdy 6 1/2 to 7 or 7 1/2 incher I'll be purring like a kitty cat and offer my baby a nice breakfast my treat. This writing is making me HORNY agin!!!

Edited June 6, 2016 by 12GAUGE
Fergot to add my sturdy 6.5 to 7.5 incher bit

[Luv2peanfuck]

On 5/16/2016 at 2:27 AM, Snakeos said:

Use cold water never warm or hot water

Why cold water?

[foxthefoxyfox]

Read all these comments and there are some real problems with the common knowledge here. 1st. NEVER EVER EVER use tap water. That's just stupid. At the very least you need to boil the water first. Your bowel doesn't have the breakdown system that the regular digestion system from mouth to ass does and therefore is much more vulnerable than your gut. Also, always always sterilize your enema bag before use. I can't believe no one mentioned this. Seriously. I used to work as a GI Nurse and now I'm in school for Neuroscience. One thing that is absolutely certain is you need to use sterile tools. You risk bacteria and rupturing your bowel. Be careful! The next misinformation is to use cold water. yikes. Talk about uncomfortable. It's best to use warm water. Hot water can damage your bowel. A nice lukewarm liquid is just what the Dr. ordered. Also, I like to do coffee or tea enemas. Look up online how to do them. You'll find some good recipes. Even with all these considerations, if you have ibs or a sensitive bowel you can harm yourself, So please please do your research. Use sterile equipment and don't be a fool and use tap water. distilled is good. I like to just boil my water and coffee, drain the beans and fill my bag. 

 

Thanks for listening folks. Take care of yourself. 

[12GAUGE]

On 4/4/2019 at 2:36 PM, Luv2peanfuck said:

Why cold water?

Some folks like cool water Enemas in HOT Weather. Personally I'd never use cold water. I've also heard distilled is your best ticket. Distilled because it's soft water with no minerals. I always took my enema water right out of the shower head with No Ill Effects. My best advice is do your DUE DILIGENCE. Enema info is out there it's just extremely difficult to locate. Some of the porn sites have some info. Enema porn is mostly EL FAKE O. I hate that. 

XNXX.com   XVideos.com and FUQ.com are 3 places I've found the last 2 months. There's a Frenchman who LOVES to give young women Enemas and his videos are always a Hoot. He gives REAL ENEMAS TOO. He has some nice equipment too.

A nice soapy enema with Ivory or Doctor Bronner's liquid soap. Hold at least 10m so the soap can do it's job. Keep rinsing until rinse comes out clear. Then 2 Drops of Peppermint extract oil 100% Pure per 2 quarts of (I like) Warm water. Hold for 10m if you can. Surely you can retain some nice peppermint rinse for 10-15m. If you're not cramping or having discomfort your asses will taste Lovely. It's a wonderful feeling having a well versed tongue rimming your backdoor....

[Tyger]

HI 12GAUGE Nice to see you again!!!!

[Mark7even]

I personally love shower enemas I bought the adapter to attach to the shower head line and have several types of enema tips that screw onto the extra hand held shower wand. I do this several times a week and have never had any ill effects. Most of the time they are just shallow enemas but once in a while I will do the deep enema and really love the feeling it gives and yes it can be orgasmic. If your doing a deep enema and your not cramping your not doing it right, I love the cramping its a tale tale sign of a pleasurable release. Go slow and use common sense you don't want to blow out your insides.

[Open minded bi]

A good old fashioned poop and flush