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Thanks, I appreciate the info.

Thanks for your reply, shortstuff. Have you used silicone? If so, I'd be interested to know why you prefer a water based lube over a silicone. Thanks again!

What is your favorite lube for anal play / sex? We've been using Astroglide water based lube, but I want to look into other options. Last time it dried out and got sticky and obviously that's not a good thing. So, what say you? Silicone or water based? which brand? BTW, I have read Mikayla's anal lube article and the reviews on the products. One of the big reasons for my query is that in the article Mikayla recommends Astroglide water based, but in her review seems to recommend Astroglide X over the water based. (Note to Mikayla: I would have just PM'd you, but thought that this might benefit others as well.)

We probably average 4-6 times per week, occasionally hitting the daily mark. Frequency-wise, I wouldn't change much. Passion-wise, I would like things to heat up a bit.

I read the review, which is why it's one of the options... I mostly wanted to be sure that there were more than 2 people who liked it before I spent the money. And, based on the poll right now, it appears that there are... 3 yes's!

I expect that would be almost as enjoyable as watching a 3-way between Hillary Clinton, Janet Reno, and Helen Thomas.

OK, fellow forumites, I need some help. My wife wants more anal play and to eventually work up to anal intercourse. She has specifically expressed an interest in butt plugs. For those who have the Juli Ashton Anal Beginner's Kit, do you like it? Would you recommend it? Would you recommend a different toy? Which one? Thanks in advance!

I really enjoy it when my wife shaves. She's never done the landing strip, which is fine with me. I love the look and feel of her pussy when it's smooth. Now, don't get me wrong ... I'll play with her pussy whether or not it's shaved, it's just that I prefer it shaved.

It's actually this dual bullet vibe. I checked out the cord length, and I think it'll work.

I got to thinking today, "hey... the wife and I could share that dual bullet vibe... I could use one of the bullets with a condom to stimulate my prostate while she uses the other one." Anybody else do this? I've got a feeling this isn't a new idea.

We've been married 13 years, and have probably averaged 5 out of 7 days (if you don't count her period). Not too bad...

I would try it, but the Wyf isn't too keen on it. Or, that's my impression at least. I've asked her to a couple times, but she always gives up prematurely. She's also said she would like to try anal, but very little effort is made. Maybe someday.

ZOOT: What is your name, handsome knight? GALAHAD: 'Sir Galahad... the Chaste'. ZOOT: Mine is 'Zoot'. Just 'Zoot'. ZOOT: Oh, I am afraid our life must seem very dull and quiet compared to yours. We are but eight score young blondes and brunettes, all between sixteen and nineteen- and- a- half, cut off in this castle with no one to protect us. Oooh. It is a lonely life: bathing, dressing, undressing, making exciting underwear. We are just not used to handsome knights. Nay. Nay. Come. Come. You may lie here. Oh, but you are wounded! DINGO: Oh, wicked, wicked Zoot. Oh, she is a naughty person and she must pay the penalty, and here in Castle Anthrax, we have but one punishment for setting alight the grail-shaped beacon: you must tie her down on a bed and spank her. GIRLS: A spanking! A spanking! DINGO: You must spank her well, and after you have spanked her, you may deal with her as you like, and then, spank me. AMAZING: And spank me. STUNNER: And me. LOVELY: And me. DINGO: Yes. Yes, you must give us all a good spanking! GIRLS: A spanking! A spanking! There is going to be a spanking tonight! DINGO: And after the spanking, the oral sex. GIRLS: The oral sex! The oral sex! GALAHAD: Well, I could stay a bit longer. --------------------------------- I love those silky clingy robe thingies the girls in Castle Anthrax were wearing. YUMMY!! There's nothing like hard nipples draped in silky fabric... I've seen Holy Grail almost 40 times, and I almost always see something I've missed before.

You might consider the Oyster from ButtonToys.com. It's got about a 50ft range, and is guaranteed (money back) to be totally silent. They also have the Oyster Duo (dual vibrator heads), as well as the Octopus and Octopus Commander (both for men). Disclaimer: I have not used any of these products, nor do I have any financial interest in ButtonToys.com Mods: I wasn't sure of the rules about hotlinking to another site, please remove if this violates any rules.

Ditto to much of what has been said. Not to say there aren't any good schools or any good teachers, but they're a frighteningly small minority. We are homeschooling our kids. We tell them that they need to do their very best and expect that they will, but at the same time we explain that sometimes their best won't be good enough. They won't always win. Sometimes someone else will get the prize, the job, the whatever. In that case, they need to be good sports about it. Our oldest took a test when she was 5 to see if she could skip a grade. She missed doing so by 2 points (needed a 90), despite the fact that she'd not had one day of instruction in the first grade. Now how assbackwards is that?!? You can sit through an entire school year and pass with a 70%, yet you have to make a 90% if you want to skip the grade. It's a good example of low expectations. All that to say, I agree; the public school system is badly broken.