I love strap on play. Nice for me because the fabric belt thingie is very soft and nice, I like to humilate my hubby, I like to see how much he is afraid and yet will submit to me, I like to see how naughty he can be, it's just a total turn on for me. For him, he likes it cause it stimulates his prostrate gland and he likes to please me. Not an everyday type of thing but a once in a while fun night thing.