I think you might need a better lubricant if playing with your clit hurts. It should feel wonderfully stimulating. So if it’s not, experiment with different lubes and toys. Good luck!
Wow, your girlfriend is adventurous. Do what you are comfortable with. If that’s a three way, fine. If you want to swap, have at it. Just decide how important this girl is. Are you willing to compromise for her or not. That is entirely your all.
Exactly, Sam. There is nothing wrong with a natural act that the parties want to participate in. There are extremely wide limits to sex and those that limit themselves may be missing out on a wonderful and loving time.
Good for you. My wife let’s me jack off on her lips, face or hair. She thinks it’s exciting and who am I to dispute that?! The idea that this gets you hot is nice too. If I follow you, would you be willing to chat? We’ll discuss whatever you want. Fingers crossed....
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I, too, shave both my hairs around my crotch as well as my balls. Once every 5 days or so I clean up. My wife loves it, especially when she gives me a blow job. She also shaves so we are skin on skin and love it!
That’s one we’ve not tried. But doggie style or her straddling me is our usual position. Sometimes my wife like me to use the rabbit on her while I kiss and rub her thighs and crotch. She’ll come three times usually.