Meg

Let's not forget that there are male prostitutes as well. Is it still considered "exploiting" if a woman or a man chooses this as their desired profession? Who are we to say what's o.k and not o.k for someone else? In my opinion prostitution is MUCH different than slavery and the two can not be compared. People couldn't choose to be or not to be slaves. humm... interesting topic. -Meg

I think it's called "sploshing" - but you're right... it's when people apply liquids (mud, whipped cream, juice, oil) to the skin or clothes for arousal. Feces, urine, semen are NOT included in this fetish. I think there is even a magazine devoted to the exploration of this strange fetish!

Ya know, I haven't met a person who doesn't like the Coochy Cream! With summer coming, I think this product is a must have! We even have a fragrance free kind for people with sensitive skin (such as myself!) I've even heard of people using it as hair conditioner and men using it to shave their faces (and other parts - I would imagine!) -Meg

We're SO glad that everyone is enjoying the items from the "goodie bag" I guess it's true what they say: Little things can make a BIG difference! -Meg

Just thought I'd share. How many perverts does it take to put in a light bulb? Just one, but it takes the entire emergency room to get it out! What's the definition of a teenager? God's punishment for enjoying sex. Hear the slogan for the Stealth Condom? They'll never see you coming. What do you call kinky sex with chocolate? S&M&M. What does Kodak film have in common with condoms? Both capture the moment. Define Transvestite: A guy who likes to eat, drink, and be Mary! Why is being in the military like a blow job? The closer you get to discharge, the better you feel. What do you call twelve naked men sitting on each other's shoulders? A scrotum pole! What's the ultimate in rejection? When you're masturbating and your hand falls asleep. Why don't debutantes go to orgies? There'd be too many thank-you notes to write. What did the Indian say when the white man tied his penis in a knot? ''How come?'' What is every Amish woman's private fantasy? Two Mennonite! Why is sex like a game of bridge? If you have a good hand, you don't need a partner. Can you say three two-letter words that denote small? Is it in? What has a whole bunch of little balls and screws old ladies? A bingo machine. How many men does it take to screw in a light bulb? One... Men will screw anything.

If you're looking into purchasing a DVD, but aren't sure WHAT you're looking for (or aren't sure which titles offer what you ARE looking for) you really should ask Emily for a suggestion or two, she is, afterall, our DVD GURU. <3 Meg

Welcome to the forum! I'm sure you'll find everyone VERY helpful. -Meg

Hello, I'm not sure about build-your-own VIBE kits, but, we sell a make-your-own dildo kit! Clone-A-Willy Penis Mold Kit (PRODUCTID: CBD02) Hope that helps! -Meg

Tyger – you mentioned that you had your navel and tongue pierced… I, personally, think it's interesting to hear what piercings people have/had. The reactions and stereotypes that people have to the idea of different body parts being pierced are fascinating to me. I'm a BIG fan of piercings. (Rob even jokes "No more facial piercings!”) I find them sexy – on myself and on others. I have several (facial and otherwise) – some that I’ve had since I turned 18 and some that I’ve taken out over the years. Some people definitely treat me differently because my lip is pierced – older women follow me through stores, I even have a family member who told me that I was not only disrespecting myself, but HER as well because SHE had to look at it. Everyone has their own opinion. For me, my piercings are a form of self-expression. I like the way they look, I like the adrenaline rush of getting something pierced. Do I feel that I’m too old to be walking around with holes in my face? Nope! Not yet! When I was young (14 or 15) my mom took my best friend and I to a fair and they were selling “fake” nose rings – I bought one and wore it only a short time because when my mom saw it she practically ripped it out of my nostril and told me that if I EVER pierced ANYTHING I better be out of the house, of course, that didn’t happen. I turned 18 and immediately went and got a tattoo and my nose and eyebrow done! I feel that anyone who wants to do it – should! Never do it because your significant other thinks it would be sexy. Piercings are removable – but they require a lot of work to keep. Of course, you ALWAYS want to go to a licensed professional – not your best friend who has a fetish with putting sharp things through perfectly good body parts! Just my off-topic 2 cents. -Meg

4-17-07 - Sorry! This Contest has ended! In the past, we’ve had people ask us: “How much is TOO much when it comes to using my new toy?” Well – we’re curious to! We want to know what your favorite toy is, how often and where you like to use it! Take a few minutes, and get some FREE goodies for your input! Example: I’m a woman and I usually use my favorite toy, The Impulse Jack Rabbit, about 3 to 4 times a week. I prefer to use my toy in the evening, and my favorite place to use my toy is in my bed! EVERYONE IS A WINNER! Just by entering, you will receive: a FREE sample of Khepra massage oil/lotion, a 1oz. sample of Coochy Shave Crème and a sample of WET Brand lubricant (scents and flavors will be sent at random.) When the contest ends* we will tell you how to submit your shipping information to receive your freebies! Absolutely NO shipping and handling rates apply - simply give us your feedback and the goodies are on us! *CONTEST ENDS: TUESDAY, APRIL 17th 2007 -Meg Ok, everyone - I expect lots of replies! PLEASE REMEMBER: DO NOT POST YOUR REPLY HERE. MAKE YOUR OWN POST BY CLICKING HERE AND THEN ON THE NEW POST TAB. THANKS!

The "Too Timid" baby boom, perhaps?

Congratulations and Best Wishes! ...I keep telling Rob we should invest in little "Too Timid" onesies! -Meg

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!

Teenage pregnancy is something that I feel VERY strongly about. It’s also a very touchy subject for many. Having said that… While I agree that it sounds as if your daughter might not be ready to take on the trials and tribulations of parenthood at 19, I question what exactly you're trying to teach her by telling her that if she makes the decision to keep her child that you will disown and put her out on the streets - would you really do that to your own child – your flesh and blood, or are you simply saying that to force her into a decision that you think is right? With all due respect, it sounds as if you need to talk to her as her father (a man who should love and support her regardless) and not as some guy who doesn't want to take care of a baby because it will cause stress between him and his girlfriend. I understand where you’re coming from – your point is that you feel she isn’t ready or stable enough to care for a child – and you may be right, but she is 19 and you, or your family can not make this decision for her, nor should you try. What you should do is give her information on ALL of her options and talk them over with her – as an adult. People make mistakes. Perhaps she needs guidance, support, and love and not ultimatums. I am not a parent, at 25 I recognize that I am NOT ready, or able to take care of another life. I've never had to make the decision to have an abortion, or give a child up for adoption, but I know many women who have, and let me tell you, it is the HARDEST decision they have ever had to make and I respect each and every woman who has had to make a decision such as the one that you daughter is facing and I would never, not for one second, think that your daughter doesn’t know how serious this is. In my opinion, your daughter needs you to step up and be a parent to her, and talk to her about what’s going on, without threats, or anger, or disappointment, because I guarantee you – she needs it right now. Good Luck, Meg

Aw. I'm SO sorry. It's so hard to loose a pet that you love. Meg.

Hiya WMS, This toy is -not- waterproof, and if you're looking for a standard "no sparks and fireworks" lube, I would just use a good water-based lube, like our TooTimid Pleasure Gel. You could even Astroglide (which is our most popular lube, AND it even comes in Strawberry!) If you're looking for a waterproof G-Spot vibe try the H2O Glitter G-Spot Vibe or, Jessica's Strobing Probe or the Silicone G-Spot Vibe. Hope that helps! Meg

Did you say that you actually found a place to get (and took) the morning after pill? That can cause bleeding. I would think that It's like taking a large amount of birthcontrol - it can cause spot bleeding and cramping. What the "morning after pill" does is bascially prevent your ovaries from releasing an egg, and it affects the uterus lining, so that a fertilized egg can't (or shouldn't be able to) attach itself there. Thats a lot of chemicals messing with the normal ebb and flow of your body - so I'd imagine that there would be some discomfort. Your period can (and I think should) come earlier (maybe to flush everything out?) Maybe that's the cause. You should make a doctors appointment to make sure you didn't have any complications - especially if the bleeding isn't your normal period-type-bleeding, or if you have lower tummy pain. I think the chances of actually having a negative response to the pill are pretty slim, but you DO NOT want to take any chances. If it were me, I'd get to a doctor pretty quickly. Also, keep in mind that this pill does not protect you for the rest of your cycle - so even if you have just taken the pill make sure you use protection!! Good luck. Meg

Welcome to TooTimid and congrats on your first purchase! To clean your new toy, I'd use a mild antibacterial soap (like dial hand soap) and a little bit of warm water! Make sure you don't get the battery pack wet. Take your time and have fun. There is no wrong way or right way to use a toy - just as long as it feels good. I'm sure the others will have more advice for you. Meg

You could try oral sex lubes/gels. They come in all sorts of yummy flavors - which are sure to mask the taste. Try our Sex Tarts Sampler or fruity mixed drink flavored lubes called Intoxicating Body Gels. Alternatively, you could try dildos made of silicone, they might not have as much of a taste as cyberskin or rubber, however, they aren't as realistic as the cyberskin products tend to be. Meg

HA! I won't lie - I don't think that the majority of my roommates would even bat an eye to a dildo or three in the dishwasher; however, I'm not sure how *I* would feel drinking out of a glass that was washed next to a dildo. And yes, no putting battery packs OR non-waterproof toys through the DW.

Mikayla is correct. This toy is not made out of silicone. Silicone toys are on the rise, mostly because they are easy to clean and sterilize (you can boil them, and even throw them in the dishwasher, although, I wouldn't recommend this if you have roommates, they might not be thrilled to open the door for a nice, clean glass only to find your newest dong just hanging out.) The box doesn't state whether it is, in fact, jelly, or a mixture of jelly and rubber, so I emailed the company. Good Ole’ Doc Johnson (The makers of this fabulous toy) state that it is made out of Jelly. Now, jelly is ideal if you don’t plan on sharing the toy: just keep in mind to ALWAYS clean your toy VERY thoroughly before and after use (Too Timid sells a few great products just for this: Before & After Spray and Antibacterial Wipes.) If you and your wife want a good toy, this is arguably the best "dual action" vibe out there. Granted, it may be a little on the expensive side, but worth every penny. It does everything you could ask for - and more! Now, if you just gotta have silicone check out the Ch'i Jade Vibe or Paul and Paulina or for something a little smaller you can check out The Royal Silicone Rabbit Vibrator .

This was posted a while ago, but, I wanted to reply and let you know that I think the antifungal treatments CAN break down a condom, and I think it even says on the box NOT to use a condom for this reason. I suspect though that you aren't using the condom as a means of BC, just to protect him from NOT getting a YI, right? In any case, as a woman who gets yeast infections, I say - OUCH! I can't imagine even wanting sex while being treated for a YI, I tell my partner that there is no penetration until I'm completely better (you're a trooper!) I think it can also make it worse!! Good luck! Meg

I’m not a doctor (although I have been known to play one on the internet. lol) but, I think it's a good possibility that your thyroid is giving you issues. Of course the weight gain is a pretty big sign, especially if it's a significant amount over a short amount of time, as well as feeling sluggish. If you have a family history, I would get it checked out immediately, so that if you do have an issue, you can get on medication and back to normal ASAP! When I read this post, I asked my roommate who was diagnosed with Hyperthyroidism when she was young (she’s 30 now;) she said that it sounds as though it could be the answer, as she said she has some of the same symptoms when she doesn't take her medication regularly. I hope this helps. Meg

Birth Control doesn't guarantee 100% that you won't get pregnant-in fact it isn't unheard of for a woman to get pregnant while having been on the pill for years-while it isn't extremely common, stranger things have happened... okokok, I know that isn't helping but, there are other options-the morning after pill (assuming it's been less than 72 hours) or take a home pregnancy test (I think there are some that can tell you almost immediately?!?) If you're really worried, contact your doctor, he or she can give you all the options you need!! If you are pregnant (which is a pretty slim to none chance-by the way) if you keep taking your BC I'm pretty sure that the results won't be good (especially if you *want* to be pregnant!) AND, in case you didn't know, BC DOES NOT protect against ANY STD’s. If an unwanted pregnancy doesn’t ruin your day-certainly an STD will. We ALL do stupid things, but you're the only one who can protect yourself...

you're welcome! enjoy!