As far as who initiates between me and my wife, it’s a toss up
I would initiate by offering her a booty-rub which puts her in the mood; so if she’s receptive to the massage, she knows by now it leads to further endeavors. She’ll even proactively say “no strings” if it’s just strictly a massage lol even then she knows it’s a risk since you can’t help if arousal arises.
Secondly, I’m really vibing and enjoying these responses, especially Sunday’s! Sex with your significant other goes far beyond the act itself. We men are visual creatures by nature, but can’t lose sight that women can be in the mood and much more attracted to you, by knowing you’re there for them and make them feel valuable, beautiful, and the most important part in your life.