promiscuouseuphoria

Ah, snowballing. I haven't actually met too many guys who were interested in this. What about it do you think makes it such a turn on?

True. The person below me practices yoga for enhanced flexibility.

Well, I'm only twenty-six, so naturally my experience is not going to be as extensive as others who are older and have had more opportunity to explore. However, I was heavily into the scene for between four and five years. And you're right, being in the culture is significantly different from just the occasional play at home. I began as a sub, as my partner at the time was very dominant, but it's always flucuated for me. I actually left my local community because I was tired of people needing me to choose a side and stay there, and have spoken to other switches locally who've had the same problem.

You know, I'll have to respectfully disagree. While I don't think anyone can handle both sides all the time, I don't think that means they have one true preference. I've played both sides for years now, and it seems the side I "prefer" changes fairly steadily. There were points where the role I was willing to take changed simply because the partner I had was more submissive or dominant. Nothing in me truly cries out to submit, nor does anything within cry out to dominate, but I love either role and really enjoy my moments when them come, either as a sub or Domme.

False. The person below me crossdresses on the weekends.

I'm a solid switch. I can play either side, and in truth will get bored with one role if I'm thrust into it for too long.

Well, let me see... there's the bathroom, kitchen, dining room, living room, game room, all over various hotel rooms, Garden of the Gods, swimming pool (oh, I miss that house!), and the back of a Volkswagon. So, not a very impressive list, but I'm working on it! Some day I will rival Mikayla's list! *bows to Mikayla's awesomeness*

I would have to say vaginally. I've never experienced an orgasm with anal, and in truth have only done it a couple times, so I'll have to stick with vaginal and be content. Which I am. Very much so, in fact.

I usually have to wait until the dead of night. The good thing is, my children are very heavy sleepers (they were kind of conditioned that way early on). Mikayla, like you I have a tendency to be very loud, hence why my bedroom is in the basement. Locking the door, unfortunately, is not an option - my oldest is autistic, and panics if he can't get to me. So, for the time being, late night it is.

PVD is a special kind of awesome. I've seen a number of these guys live, and so far the two that no one has topped are PVD and Bt. I got close again when I saw Bt this past spring with his song Force of Gravity, but not quite. I've never managed it just thinking about sex. I've gotten intensely aroused just through thought and daydream, but never to the point of orgasm. I blame my lack of an attention span - unless something's got me occupied, I can't keep my mind on anything for very long.

I personally have not had this issue, but we went through something similar with my mother a short while back. Stress and hormones seem to be the cause. Of all things, Mom found that destressing and changing her diet did a lot to eleviate a number of her issues (her problem wasn't just vaginal cysts, but also fibro adnomas in her breasts). Seems silly and strange, I know, but there it is.

Well, I love sex (more than most men I know), and I have to say that the only time I've been quiet is when I didn't want to get caught. I've actually found that focusing on keeping quiet makes it less enjoyable, as your attention is diverted from just enjoying the stimulation. I tend to be pretty vocal. And actually, it's a good sign that I'm not enjoying myself if I don't make any sound. Heck, I can't even masturbate quietly (though I don't tend to get AS loud).

I've done that a few times, but none of my partners have ever been really into it, so it didn't happen often. I always thought that was a shame. I mean, I have a decent sized chest, so it's easy for me, and I thought it was fun, but oh well.

Hmm...Battleflag by Lo Fidelity Allstars...that might make me cum too. I had this happen once while "speaker tweaking" the first time I went to see Paul Van Dyke play The Church (local-ish night club). I was just dancing in front of the speakers with a few other people, largely cause there wasn't anywhere else to stand, and felt the bass vibrating up through me until...well, there we were.

Um, not to be a pain, but I don't think you should be too hard on bigdaddy for his response. While it may have been inappropriate, why else would you post evocative pictures of yourself if you weren't expecting or even hoping for something like that? You obviously look good, and know it, so...there it is.

Well, if we're specifically referring to accessories, I find something very appealing about a woman who can wear gloves well. As is, make it look like an appropriate part of her ensemble, not just thrown in. It adds a little touch of mystery - gloves are relatively uncommon as a fashion accessory these days.

I'm not always into spankings, but the times I've enjoyed them, they've been dealt out by hands or paddles. When you're in the right mood, there's something about having a guy just haul you over his lap and give you a sound spanking. How public would you be willing to go with sex? Just the fenced-in back yard, or in the middle of a park on July 4th?

Well then. I know I'm opening myself up to a lot of criticism by doing this, but we've had one side of the argument - I suppose it's time for the other. I was young when I wed (20), and it was a bit of a rushed marriage. My ex-husband and I had been engaged about a month when we discovered I was pregnant, and about 11 weeks along (I know, you're wondering how I didn't know sooner, but that's another story). So, we got married in December, since the baby was due in January. Four months after I gave birth, my husband lost his job. A month later, we were evicted and had to move back in with my mother (his parents offered no support). Time progressed, things got more miserable, and I began to slowly see that my ex was not the down-on-his-luck, decent fellow I had thought, but a manipulative sloth. He did finally find work again, but our relationship wasn't improving. He had no interest in sex. He had no interest in going out with me. We tried to talk about it, but all he ever did was say I had changed. Then, oh joy, I was pregnant again. Unplanned and unexpected. He was happy with me for about a month after we found out I was pregnant, then everything fell apart again. Miserable and desperate, I turned to a friend. At first, my infidelity was not physical, which in it's way was much worse. As time passed, however, things progressed. I felt trapped, with no way out, and the comfort my friend offered was the only thing that made me feel worth anything at the time. In the end, I found a way out. I've been divorced for three years now. He has disappeared completely from my life - no support, doesn't visit the kids, I don't even know if he's still in this state. He did find out about the affair, but not until after we were legally seperated, and the state I live in is "no fault" for lack of a better description. Would I ever do it again? No. Simply because I feel I would be wiser the second time through, and not find myself in that situation again. Addendum: As for the grass being greener...while I don't like the phrase, perhaps it's accurate. After time on both parts to adjust and process the situation, my friend and I did end up becoming something more than confidants and bedpartners. He gave me time through the divorce, and I gave him time afterwards, and we ended up coming to the conclusion that we had found something in each other that we wouldn't find anywhere else. While neither of us enjoy the situation that brought it about, we do our best to remember the past, not let it haunt us, and take things one day at a time.

I agree with Mikayla. In my experience men ejaculate faster when they're getting less, and there's more of a build up between sexual encounters. I know for my guy when we've been unable to get together for a week or so, I'd better go down on him first and get his initial ejaculation out of the way so that we can take more time with the rest of it. Otherwise it's a short evening for all involved.

Well, here's my take on the situation - there are both pros and cons to shaving. On one hand, it's completely smooth, you don't worry about pubic hair in the mouth while giving oral, and there's no hair to dampen the sensation. On the other hand, if you dont keep it up, it can get pretty prickly, and there's no hair to contain moisture so if you're like me - sopping wet once aroused - you can get some really interesting sloppy sounds going on down there. Over all, though, I enjoy being smooth, and it works for me when he is as well. You can always use music to cover the sound effects.

Um. Wow. I was gonna stay out of this one, but - okay. Kids? You can't even commit to one man for more than three months and you're ready to plan the next twenty years around a kid? All right, that's a bit harsh, and I'm sorry, but honey you need to really sit down and examine this one. I realize your biological clock may be ticking, but you're not even at a point where you should be talking about children. As for the other issue - it would probably help if you found a guy that might be interested in more than a fuck buddy and got to know them first before hopping into the sack. I know sex is a helluva lot of fun, and toys just don't quite compare to the real thing, but your current path isn't bringing you the results you want, so maybe it's time to adjust your approach. If what you're doing isn't working, it's not going to magically start working just because you want it to. And, ah, sorry that wasn't worded better.

Whimmy diddle? Oh god. Oh, I don't think I could ever have sex again if I ever called my boyfriend's dick a whimmy diddle. I'd fall over laughing and that would be it. No, no nick names here. The thought just doesn't appeal to me, and he's not the type to name it. At least, I don't think he is...

This question came up with a friend of mine recently. She has a boyfriend again after almost three years single and celibate, and so is very excited about doing things he finds arousing. She's still working on swallowing though - there's a mental block there she just can't get past. When she brought this up to her boyfriend, he asked her an odd (in my opinion) question - do you like orange juice with or without pulp? Now, she likes it without pulp. I like to feel like I'm drinking an orange. We asked a few other people, and intriguingly enough, all the girls who said they liked pulp in their orange juice also said they swallowed.

Well, let's see - I've had a number of threesomes, all with my current partner and one of three other women. It was always a "once in a great while" type thing, and has since dwindled off to nothing. I enjoyed my experiences, but frankly got very sick of passive women, and if I ever considered doing it again I would be far, far pickier in the choosing process. Also, my partner and I are more serious than we used to be, so I'm not certain how that would affect things.

Well, while I would certainly prefer that he did not, it's just cum. It washes out. So, yeah, I guess so. Though I have to agree with Tyger, I'd rather have him grab a handful and give it a good (not too hard) tug.