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I absolutely love Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series. I hope she comes out with some more books soon. Addictive reading

I'm very bold and open when it comes to sex (I usually shock the shit out my partners ), so I'm happy to say that I've done all the little things (hand-jobs, blow-jobs, masturbating with fingers, toys, SO, sex in car, sex at movies, etc.) and most of the big ones also (sex in public, 3sums, tried anal, deep throat, etc.). I would say that the only things I haven't had the opportunity to try is mild S/M (being tied up or dominated) or using a strap-on on a man (I've always wanted to do that ).

Well, I did go to the doctor and it IS a hemroid.... Just my luck I guess, but anal sex will never happen again in my bed or his car . I just want to know, how the hell I'm going to expain this to any of my future partners?... That's not a story I look forward to telling anyone

I never had any rules, but after my most resent experience I would have to say NO DICK IN MY ASS.

Ok...A couple days ago I had anal sex with my man who's been begging for it for one year now. Now I have a hemroid!!!! And NO it's not a tiny one. I haven't told him yet and he hasn't seen it; I am mortified. I used to have such a cute ass hole, now I don't. How can I fix this? Do I need surgery?

I don't see how someone can be TOO stressed for sex, maybe its just me. Sex is the greatest stress reliever there is; when I'm stressed that's what I turn to for relief, relaxation, and fun. I've never bee too stressed or too tired, and if I do use those as an excuse I'm lying just NOT to have sex.

I Love what you wrote James. Such a turn on. By the way, there is nothing wrong with kissing a partner after thay have given you oral sex. It's perfectly natural and delicious.

Has anyone here ever heard of or used jade eggs? They are egged shaped pieces of jade used to strenghten the pelvic and vaginal muscles. Kind of like kegel exercises with weights. What was your experience with the eggs, and how long did it take for you or your lover to feel the results?

Are you kidding!!?? I LOVE that wet, sucking, slapping noise that region makes when there are no pubic hairs in the way and my pussy is dripping wet. Its a turn-on.

Now for the real question, do you women really like it that hard? Seriously... Yes, sometimes we do. Sometimes I like it so hard that the bed bangs against the wall and I have to put a hand on my lower abdomen cause he is pounding the shit out of my cervix. And I love when we are fucking and he grabs me, puts me in all these weird positions where he is stretching my limbs or bending me into some unusual position and fucks me with no apologies. After fucks like those I have a big ole cheesey grin on my face, I'm relaxed, sated, and my legs feel like jello, so I don't even atempt to stand up for at least 15 minutes Those fucks are some of the best

If I ever decide to have children, I will definitely have an open relationship with my children. Meaning that they can come to ME (or their father) and ask questions about ANYTHING including sex. I think that a lots of parents need to get rid of the 'I am the parent, you are the child; You don't ask question, you do as I say; And no talking about sex in this household' mentality. This is the 21st century, and kids are bombarded with sexual images and refrences everywhere they turn these days. It is a parent's responsibility to teach their children morals, teach them about self respect, how to think for themselves, and about sex. There is NOTHING wrong with teaching sex ed in schools. From my experience, a lot of kids don't pay attention to what is taught in those classes anyway. Its just like when they teach kids about drugs in school. Right after classes are over they go light up a cigarette, weed, meth, or do some other kind of drug; they don't pay attention or care. Same thing with sex, they are too busy listening to what their friends have to say about sex. A lot of girls that I went to school with were pregnant before high school graduation or got pregnant a couple months after graduation, and I sat through the same sex ed class that they did where the teacher taught us all about condoms and STDs. Now, don't get me wrong, not every kid ignores the teacher. For those students who do pay attention in class, they get very informative and useful information. BUT, it is not the school system's job to teach your children about sex, that should start at home. So that when they do teach it in school, what they are learning is supplemental to what their PARENTS taught them, NOT their friends or other sources. I see things this way, if parents teach their children morals and self respect, they won't have to worry about who, when, or where their children pick up info about sex. Because their children will know wrong from right, and hopefully if they have questions they will come to you for answers. It is never too early to talk to your children about sex. A lot of people think that kids are stupid, or that they are angels, or that they are just not ready for the sex talk, I'll wait till my son/daughter asks ME questions. To tell you the truth, if you are waiting till your kids come to you for info, you have passed the point of when you should have sat your kid down and have the SEX talk, NOT the 'birds and the bees' talk. If they are asking questions, they have already gotten info from friends and other sources. By 8 yrs. old I was VERY curious about boys, my body, and sex. I didn't get the sex talk until I was about 12 or 13, and the "if you ever get pregnant, I will kill you" speech (and no, I don't think they were joking when they gave me that speech .) My little brother got the 'birds and bees' talk when he was in Pre-K, cause his "girlfriend" used to kiss him on the lips everyday when he was leaving school. My little sister also got the 'birds and bees' talk around the same age, and every couple of years or so, my parents or I have another talk with them. They are now 12 and 16, and they know MOST of the basics about the male and female body, how babies are made, STDs, homosexuals, transexuals, transvestites, and about sex. I have not broached the subject of masturbation, cause I don't know how, and don't know if I should. I was hoping they could figure out that bit by themselves. Back to the subject; my sister (16 yrs old) tells me jokes about sex, and listens to songs about strippers and blowjobs, and she reads the men's magazines that I order, but she has no interest in boyfriends or having sex. And believe me, she is very educated in the subject of sex, some of the things that come out of her mouth shocks me sometimes. My brother (12 yrs old) comes to me to help him fill out those worksheets that he gets in health class with all the female reproductive parts and sex organs like the uterus, fallopian tubes, vulva, clitorus, and anus. Yes, I take them both to rated R movies, and I speak very frank about sex in my home. If parents spoke more to their children about sex, most would not have to worry about their children having sex too soon, teenage pregnancies, or STDS. Just because you talk to a child about sex, let them ready about sex, watch a Playboy video about sex, or even if they come across hard core porn on the internet, does not mean that they will want to run out and try it. So, Katprr, if I have children I hope that I will be as open and confident as you when it comes to educating them about sex. You are doing a great job.

I love your story and your first post. Welcome to Too Timid's forum.

I love that quote (and the song) "save a horse...ride that cowboy." It is so true!! Ride that cowboy till one of you pass out. Naudia, I totally understand where you are coming from. I am 5ft, and about 155lbs. When I first start a relationship with someone, I always feel so self conscious and fret about what is going to happen when we are suppose to have sex for the first time. But when that time comes, I say fuck it and go for it. First of all he knows what he signed up for, he can see that I am not a skiny chick and he can see my fat roll. So, when I take off my clothes he better not be expecting perfection. And when I start making love, I am not worried about what my body looks like because I am focused on pleasuring MYSELF and my lover. BESIDES, WHY THE FUCK AM I WORRIED ABOUT MY FAT ROLL, IF HE WASN'T PLEASED OR TURNED ON BY ME, HE WOULDN'T HAVE A FUCKING HARD COCK WAITING TO FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF ME!!!! So, I stop fretting about it, and when are finished making love, I don't cover myself up. I get up and walk to the bathroom buck naked. He has already seen EVERYTHING. But at times those insecurities do come back, and when that happens I exercise, pamper myself, and masturbate. Cause when I feel good about myself, I am more confident. As Mikayla said, many men love the extra weight. When I'm with someone and I am relaxed and not worried about what he thinks of my body, my partner picks up on that and he starts to feel comfortable and confident. My partners often tell me how great my body feels in bed, how beautiful I am, how soft my skin and hair feels, and how they have always wanted a girl like me. My point is that if you find ways to feel more comfortable and confident about yourself as a whole, not just your body, you won't be worried about what anyone thinks about your body in bed. You and your partner will be focused on pleasure. And remember that NO MATTER what size you are, confidence is ALWAYS sexy, and your partner will find you even sexier.

True. The person below me likes to be fucked hard.

That was hilarious you almost had me on the floor.

O.K., this is a very tricky question, because I am not really sure when I lost my virginity . No, I am not dumb, and don't look at me like I'm stupid (like you can actually see me, LOL ) I have always been very curious about sex and boys, since I was about 7 or 8. I loved to play doctor and house a lot (you know, I'll be the mommy, you be the daddy ) I remember when I was about 8 I tried to have sex with a friend, but I don't remember if He actually got it in, because we didn't know what the hell we were doing; and we fell asleep, we were outside hiding, and got found by his mother. We got caught in the act basicly, and his mother was not very pleased. She told my mom, and my mother almost killed me Anyway, when I reached around 11 or 12 years of age, I masturbated on a regular basis and I penetrated myself every chance I got. So, I'm not sure if i took my own virginity I had my first real sexual partner at 13, that night was also my first blow job. I was with that guy for many, many, many years. But besides him, I have had intercourse with 4 other men. Each of them only once, and out of the 4 only 1 knew what he was doing. With that guy, I initiated my first bit of S&M (and that was in high school ). I didn't want him to see me naked (I was very insecure) so I blindfolded him, tied his hands, and took charge. That was some good fucking Then there were two guys that ONLY performed oral sex on me. They were VERY talented Mixed in with all of that, has been many hand jobs over the years and when I was younger I did mutual masturbation with female friends at camp and with one cousin (no touching or kissing). I have always wanted to taste another woman, just haven't gotten the opportunity yet, and believe me, when it comes along it won't pass by me. So I'm not sure about the age of lost virginity, could be 8 or 13, you choose. Total (starting from 13 yrs. old): intercourse- 5 men oral sex only- 2 men females- 0 ------------------------ total 7 men- PRICELESS I am now 25. DISCLAIMER: For all who wonder why I started at such a young age, NO!, I was never sexually molested or anything like that. I was just one bold, nosey ass kid who read everthing I could get my hands on and was never afraid to try anything. I am a very proud TRYsexual

Whenever I'm being fucked doggy style, my partner HAS to pull my hair and spank my ass. It just feels so much better

I asked my Ex to trim because the hairs at the base of the shaft would make the opening of my vagina sore, so he trimed and contined to. I also noticed that when I also trimed my pubes, I could have sex for longer periods of time. There was no longer anything down there to scratch or irritate, and as long as I was lubricated we could fuck for HOURS. The first time that I got a brazilian wax, he couldn't wait to eat me. He licked and sucked EVERYTHING down under But I try to stick to just triming instead of shaving or waxing (if you're going to remove all of the hair, I think waxing is the best choice), because those ingrown hairs can be a motherf****r, and very painful if you get one in the wrong spot

It's called snowballing. I've done it many times with my previous partner and he loved it. If my memory serves me right, it started because he use to love eating my pussy and then share my juices with me. One day I asked him why he liked to do that and he replied that it was a turn on to see me taste myself, so I asked if he would drink his cum from my mouth and he said he wouldn't mind. So the next time he came in my mouth, I gave it all to him. From that point on it because common place in our love making. He would ask me to share his cum with him; or after he came inside of me, he would eat me out. You have got to love a man like that. I don't imagine many men would be willing to do that. God, I miss him!!

I LOVE to have my asshole licked, but I always sqirm away when my partner tries to stick his tongue up my ass. I just keep thinking about germs and shit on his tongue, and I really doubt that I would return that favor to him. So I just stick to licking only.

Can a hood be too small to be pierced? I would love to pierce mine, but compared to all the clits I have seen over the years, I think mine could be too small. Now, if it is just the hood we are talking about piercing, that might be impossible for me. But if they can pierce around my clit, through the hood and all, that might be possible. Now my major concerns: is there any nerve damage; can it be taken out and put back in whenever I like, like an earring, and if not, how long can I have it out before the hole starts to heal? Or better yet, can any of you ladies who has your hood or clit pierced give me the number of the professional who did it for you, so I can get some pro advice? Any info will help. Thanks

I love to masturbate, but when and how often I do it depends on my mood. So a poll type answer just won't do. Let me explain. When I am in a relationship with someone that I really like, I masturbate every day (with or without a partner) between sex sessions because I am always horney When I am not in a relationship, I will masturbate at least once a day. Sometimes it just doesn't do it for me so I will go days without masturbation. Then there are days that I masturbate for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I will do it all day, literally from the moment I wake up till I'm too exhausted or till someone else comes home in the evening. Sometimes it's just about needing to have and orgasm to relax, so I go strictly for clitoral stimulation. But on those full day sessions it is all about enjoying myself and finding new ways to pleasure myself, so I go for clitoral stimulation, penetration, and sometime anal. I usually masturbate at home with toys (rarely with my fingers) or if I'm bored I will try to use something else other than the typical sex toy to masturbate. When I'm not home (like I go to visit someone for a few days and I don't travel with my toys) and I am in desperate need of an orgasm I will use my fingers and anything else that will fit in my vagina.

O.K., I just meet this really hot guy and I am thinking about asking him out (a first for me). I don't know much about him. We've only seen each other a couple of times (he's a lifeguard at a friend's pool), had a nice conversation about just stuff, he seems very intelligent and nice. Now if he says 'yes' when I ask, where would I take a guy on a first date? I don't want to go to the movies (can't really talk in there) and I don't want it to take all evening (incase the date doesn't go well). I just want something short, sweet, and fun. Just a couple of hours. Ladies where would you take a guy, and men where you like a lady to take YOU on a first date? Please help!!

I have been reading everyone else's replies, and couldn't really think of much. But I have to agree that the number one turn on will always be confidence. As long as a woman has total confidence in herself, she will radiate sex appeal no matter what size she is or how pretty her face is. #2. low rider jeans or skirts with no panty lines or thong strings showing. It just makes me want to take her clothes off just to see what she is wearing under there, if anything at all. #3. stilleto heels. She HAS to know how to walk properly in them and make it seem effortless. #4. my new turn on, tattoos. Just got two myself.

I'm sorry, but I have to ask; Are you sure you are not gay? If you have been with six girls AND you had oral sex with all of them, I doubt that they all had the same hygiene problem (if there ever was a problem to begin with). Maybe women just don't appeal to you at all. Then again you are VERY young, and maybe for you oral sex will have to be an acquired taste. I suggest following Makyala and Howard's sugsestions, just leave out the one about perfume.