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I'm thinking my firm, and oh so positive "HELL NO!!" would resound quite nicely on the gaping gully's walls!!!

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Welcome!! The amount of masturbation per person varies. Some people masturbate a few times a day, other's rarely at all. It all depends on several things: If you're on any medications, how physically and emotionally tired/awake you are, how hard/easy it is to orgasm, can your SO get you off, self-esteem, how much stress they're under, and....well, I'm sure there are more. Orgasms can also range in intensity. Some people feel that their 3rd or 4th orgasm is way more intense, others say it's the first one that knocks their sox off. I love having several orgasms in one session. It really on how you're in touch with your body, and how your orgasm feels. That does make sense that you "get tired of being horny". Being horny can go away, if enough time is given, though most people choose to scratch that itch instead. Saying that if your hubby pleasures you, why should you need to masturbate? Well darlin', I know that several member's spouses on here (including mine) know how to please each other, and they still masturbate. Why do men masturbate if they're in a fulfilling relationship? Cuz they can. Why do women? Cuz they can. Reasons for masturbating range in reasons, but the ultimate goal is for that orgasm! Now, if your hubby can't, for some reason, please you, then that needs to be addressed. If he hasn't learned how to please you, and, for this, you need to TEACH HIM TO DO SO, then that rests on you. Great lovers aren't born, they're made. And, what works with one lover, may not work for another one. Usually, self-pleasuring is to get that physical release a great O gives you. You take time to learn how your body feels, reacts, and how good something feels. So, it stands to reason that you can pleasure yourself faster and maybe better than your SO. If so, you can always TEACH him how to touch, lick, caress, and what sort of pressure you prefer. If he physically has issues, then that too needs to be addressed with your/his doctor. I hope that helps somewhat.

.....or there may be one helluva infection!! LOL

No worries Pappy, gotta take care of you first!! No, I don't believe that I am related to a Jim Ford. My father was adopted, but even thru that, I don't think so. It's hard tellin' who exactly I am related too.....kinda scares everyone doesn't it? LMAO

That's very cool Pappy. The great thing about Native American work, it's not "perfect" like you would get made by a machine. Personally, I would prefer hand made crafts anyday!! I paint ceramics, wooden plaques, and have done lots of these things for gifts, with much appreciation from their recipients! My father use to make stuff too. Even wrote a book called "Indian Double Curved Secrets" (Thomas Raven Ford), which has mostly hand drawn diagrams of symbols and their meanings for the North East Indians (mostly focusing on the Maine Native American Tribes). I was surprised to see that he found a local publisher that was willing to publish something such as that, since they like "neatness" too. I was very happy that he found someone though. I gave many of his books away after he died to friends & family. I still have a bunch more, but selling them, even at cost ($9) is hard down south, since nobody down here really cares about the Northeast tribes.

Hi! Well, there's probably several issues that's probably worrying her (from a woman's POV). Does she have a good "body image", meaning does she feel good about the way she looks? Yes, it's nice when your BF, DH, or SO tells you that you look good, but if you don't feel that you look good, then your self-esteem is going to hold you back from feeling overly comfortable in front of a camera. There's not a lot anyone else can do to change her mind on that one. She needs to work on that herself. If she's never done anything like this, she may feel awkward as to what she may look like on film. Just remind her that, if she forgets the camera is there, while you're making love, then she will just be looking like she normally does without the camera, so there'd only be the difference of an angle and the fact that you can watch each other too. If she is uncomfortable with watching porn (I dunno if she is), this may be a bit of a hard thing for her to let go. If watching strangers have sex is hard, imagine the self-critiquing that could happen while she's watching HERSELF!? If she has had any "naughty pics" taken of her before, it may be a trust issue. She may worry who you would show pics and videos too. That will be on you to reassure her that it won't happen. Please don't push her into something she really doesn't want to do. If she is willing and eager to do this, then have fun, but if she's hesitant, ask her why exactly is she nervous about this? If she says "I dunno", ask her to think on it, and you'll give her a day or 2 to think of reasons as to why, and then those specific issues can be addressed. Anyway, that's some of my insight. I hope it's helpful. Best wishes!

Welcome. Well, seeing that you're 29, you're still young. So, depending on your experience level, this is pretty normal. Withholding your own orgasm is a trick and skill that men need to learn and practice. Men go by this several different ways, and I hope the men here on the board will chime in as to how they do/did it. You can use desenstizing creams, that may help, but, that's a temporary fix, and, you want to be able to stay your ejaculation at will, not always with the use of creams. If it helps, the woman's clit is the most sensitive part on her body, and, her nerves inside only go about 4" in, so, anything after that can be felt, but not as much. What you could do is practice and make sure she gets a couple of oral orgasms under her belt while you're having your adult playtime. That way, you know she's gotten "her O on". Best wishes.

VERY PRETTY!!! What tribe influences your work?

I LOVE the 3rd one down.

This is so pretty!! Is it a loud toy? Lotsa rotating beads!! Love da beads! And it's a different color than many sex toys out there. Very nice.

Well, maybe if there's an electrical outlet around......and him not being totally aware......no, no, bad idea........a bullet up his ass? No, not unless he's into that sort of thing......vibrating bed? That sounds safer.....LOL Ok, I'm done being evil (for now)....

You know the movie with that name? Have you seen it? Would you want that sort of insight/power towards the opposite, or even same sex?

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten to make. I found the number and dialed it. A man answered, saying "Hello." I politely said, "This is Chris. Could I please speak with Robyn Carter?" Suddenly a manic voice yelled out in my ear "Get the right f***ing number!" and the phone was slammed down on me. I couldn't believe that anyone could be so rude. When I tracked down Robyn's correct number to call her, I found that I had accidentally transposed the last two digits. After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again. When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled "You're an ass hole!" and hung up. I wrote his number down with the word 'ass hole' next to it, and put it in my desk drawer. Every couple of weeks, when I was paying bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell, "You're an ass hole!" It always cheered me up. When Caller, ID was introduced, I thought my therapeutic 'ass hole' calling would have to stop. So, I called his number and said, "Hi, this is John Smith from the telephone company. I'm calling to see if you're familiar with our Caller, ID Program?" He yelled "NO!" and slammed down the phone. I quickly called him back and said, "That's because you're an ass hole!" and hung up. One day I was at the store, getting ready to pull into a parking spot. Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had patiently waited for. I hit the horn and yelled that I'd been waiting for that spot, but the idiot ignored me. I noticed a "For Sale " sign in his back window, so I wrote down his number. A couple of days later, right after calling the first ass hole (I had his number on speed dial), I thought that I'd better call the BMW ass hole, too. I said, "Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?" He said, "Yes, it is." I asked, "Can you tell me where I can see it?" He said, "Yes, I live at 34 Oak tree Blvd., in Fairfax . It's a yellow rambler, and the car's parked right out in front." I asked, "What's your name?" He said, "My name is Don Hansen," I asked, "When's a good time to catch you, Don?" He said, "I'm home every evening after five." I said, "Listen, Don, can I tell you something?" He said, "Yes?" I said, "Don, you're an ass hole!" and I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial, too. Now, when I had a problem, I had two ass holes to call. Then I came up with an idea. I called ass hole #1. He said, "Hello." I said, "You're an ass hole!" (But I didn't hang up.) "Are you still there?" he said. I said, "Yeah," He screamed, "Stop calling me," I said, "Make me." He asked, "Who are you?" I said, "My name is Don Hansen." He said, "Yeah? Where do you live?" I said, "Ass hole, I live at 34 Oak tree Blvd, in Fairfax . I have yellow Rambler and a black Beamer parked in front." He said, "I'm coming over right now, Don. And you had better start saying your prayers." I said, "Yeah, like I'm really scared, ass hole," and hung up. Then I called Ass hole #2. He said, "Hello?" I said, "Hello, ass hole," He yelled, "If I ever find out who you are..." I said, "You'll what?" He exclaimed, "I'll kick your ass," I answered, "Well, ass hole, here's your chance.. I'm coming over right now." Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived at 34 Oak tree Blvd, in Fairfax , and that I was on my way over there to kill my gay lover. Then I called Channel 9 News about the gang war going down in Oak tree Blvd. in Fairfax . I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax . I got there just in time to watch two ass holes beating the crap out of each other in front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded by a news crew. NOW I feel much better. Anger management really does work. Phyllis R. Shahin

I don't think I have a "normal" animal amoungst my "herd". We have 2 dogs, one rabbit, 5 cats (all but one go outside), and the 3 horses. Thanks Meg! I know, cats are suppose to be dignified, and aloof. I have yet to see that in ANY of my cats...

Well there!!! Thanks for the post!! It's very pretty! Interesting placement...... Question: If she farts, would she just say that that's her tiger growling?

I LOVE Kama Sutra products, so I was very happy to get one to try out. So, the other night, while hubby and I were trying to have some romantic moments, I break out the puff. Champagne Strawberry scent/flavor, this pink puff was going to be a fun treat, or so I thought. “Pat your boudoir puff generously and playfully all over the body” are the basic instructions on the screen-satchel it comes in. Open the bag, take off the sealed plastic bag containing the puff, to keep it fresh and clean, I noticed just a hint of a scent, but really couldn’t say that it was strawberry. Hmmm. So, I put my fingers in the satin ribbons at the top of the puff and tap my arm with it, to try to get the powder flowing a bit. Nothing. Ok. So tapping my arm a bit harder, still nothing, and still no real smell to it. I hit my arm relatively hard, and STILL nothing. Disappointed, that got tossed off to the side so we could resume our fun. Later on that night, I decide that this has GOT to work better than that, since I am familiar with KS products. I start kneading the puff firmly, pat, nothing. Ok, more kneading, and finally I get success!!! I pat my arm with the puff and lo & behold! I have scented powder!! It smelled very strawberrily nice, and I tasted it. Not as sweet as a pixy stick, but almost like licking flavored “Sweet N’ Low”, it was ok. I brought it out for hubby to try, and it was too sweet for his licking…I mean liking. So, this product was a definite let-down for the both of us. I see the potential for this love powder puff, but, for us, it was a powder pffft. I give it one paw for creativity, but that’s all. To Puff, or not to Puff.

What a lil' cutie!!

OMG!! LMAO!!!

I LOVE Mr. SP's response "because you can". That's pretty much it. I think that the KEY word here is CHOICE. I don't know of any woman that would give up making love with their SO so they could use a dildo/vibrator. Any sort of sex toys are made to ENHANCE, NOT replace human sexual contact. Like Mr.SP said, why do men masturbate even if they're in great relationships....cuz they can!! That's EXACTLY it! I have lots of dildos, and many men love to have a visual when their woman is being aroused, whether it's their mouth, fingers, or dildos. It's all about the enhancing!

Usually, there is little to no smell with that sort of ejaculation. However, if you do have a bit of urine in you, and your g-spot is right below your urethra, yes, you can accidently squirt a bit of urine in with it. I would suggest that you go to the bathroom before intercourse, especially if you know you're going to try for the g-spot orgasm. Congrats on reaching the G-O!!

Can you tell how HARD it is to be a cat here?

I LOVE the husky!!!