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I have heard from friends that have been on the shot, that they're sex drive has gone down. Not really a good side effect for birth control, but effective. I would ask her doctor/GYN what they would recommend. I always had great results with BC Pills. The only time I had a problem with Pills, is when I was on a certain type, and I'd been on it for about 5 yrs, and I had a build up of testosterone in my system, causing headaches & migraines (something I never get). So I got switched to a different type of Pill, and was fine. In matters such as birth control, hormones, or anything medical, we usually give the same advice (talk to your doctor). That's what your doctor is there for. Always be open and honest with what's going on with your body with your doctor and GYN, cuz they're there to help you and make sure that the medicines you're on are working the best they can. Good luck!

Driving around, I noticed that some of you don't have a pumpkin out yet, so, I thought I'd get you one. Here it is:

My Private Part Died Today An old man, Mr. Wallace, was living the last of his life in a nursing Home. One day he appeared to be very sad and depressed. Nurse Tracy asked if there was anything wrong. "Yes, Nurse Tracy," said Mr. Wallace, "My Private Part died today and I am very sad." Knowing her patients were forgetful and sometimes a little crazy, she replied, "Oh, I'm so sorry, Mr. Wallace, please accept my condolences." The following day, Mr. Wallace was walking down the hall with his Private Part hanging out his pajamas, when he met Nurse Tracy. "Mr. Wallace," she said, "You shouldn't be walking down t he hall like that. Please put your Private Part back inside your pajamas." "But, Nurse Tracy," replied Mr. Wallace, "I told you yesterday that my Private Part died." "Yes, you did tell me that, but why is it hanging out of your pajamas?" "Well," he replied, "Today's the viewing."

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Welcome brownsexylady! Hope you enjoy it here.

OK, I've held off long enough........I just can't help myself...... A horse or a motorcycle (the more vibes from the muffler, the better). I'm sorry, it was just BIGGER than me!!

Yes, I believe I started a thread similar to this a long time ago. But, I will answer again! My step-brother decided to wish me and my BF a HAPPY NEW YEAR! while we were um, engaged in some oral fun (me down on him to be exact). My step-brother opens the bedroom door, and yells "HAPPY NEW YEAR!" and shuts the door. Thankfully, there was a light behind him, and I was under the covers. His glasses darkened up enough so he couldn't see us. Then, about 5 minutes later, and me and my BF had gotten over the initial shock of what he'd done with a chuckle or 2, the fool did it AGAIN!!! We were able to get past that, but afterwards, I went downstairs and gave him hell for doing that. My step-brother is an admitted PIG, but I made the bastard blush! It was great!!

I have 5 cats, and 4 dogs, the youngest dog is about a year old. I can't even pee alone. I have this parade follow me into the bathroom for crying out loud. I just want SOME peace!! LMAO Oh well, that's what happens when you have furry roommates.

Makes me wanna go work for Dominos!! LOL

OMG!! Too funny!!

Last year I replaced all the windows in my house with that expensive double-pane energy efficient kind, and today, I got a call from the contractor who installed them. He was complaining that the work had been completed a whole year ago and I still hadn't paid for them. Hellloooo,...........just because I'm blonde doesn't mean that I am automatically stupid. So, I told him just what his fast talking sales guy had told me last year,..... that in ONE YEAR these windows would pay for themselves! Helllooooo? It's been a year, I told him. There was only silence at the other end of the line, so I finally just hung up.... He never called back. Guess I won that stupid argument. I bet he felt like an idiot!

Great review, just add a link and pic, and it'll be even greater!!! I would strongly caution against using rubbing alchohol on any sex toy (although hard plastic should be fine), just because if it IS porous-which you said this wasn't, then it can dry the toy out, and that can cause damage to a favorite friend. Love the descriptions and how it worked for you! Great job!

Although this has not happened to me, I have heard of this happening. I would contact your GYN and talk with him/her about it. You may have low hormones, or too high testosterone in your system, or maybe some scarring from your birthing. I'm not sure, since I am not a medical professional. Contact your GYN, set up an appointment, and be totally honest with your doctor. They're there to help you.

The All American Vibrating Dildo is a great great great dildo!! To look at the suction cup base, it doesn't look all that strong, but I have this one, and trust me, it is!

Ditto to what Thurisas said. Clitoral stimulation is very important. Again, about 85% of women (such as myself) need clitoral stimulation to get off. This doesn't mean anything's wrong with you or that your man does not excite you, it just means that you're fairly normal that way! If your husband concentrates more on your labia when giving your oral, why not pull his head up ever so slightly and have him tease, nibble, and flick your clit with his tongue?

I love my 5 cats, 4 dogs, and assorted critters, don't get me wrong here. We have a very very small house, and I have to leave the bedroom door open for a few reasons (daughter, I don't like having a closed door when hubby's on the work week shift, pets scratching the heck out of the door). Last night I'm feelin' a little "randy", so I start having some solo fun, and POP!! Here pounces a kitten, right on my, um...kitty? NOT nice!!! And, may I mention, a mood killer. I toss it (gently) off the bed, try again. POP, up he bounces again.....with claws this time. Toss, there he goes again, and Tyger's mood has been shot. Tyger upset, Tyger frustrated, Tyger growwwwwwllllllsssss!!! Sorry, I just had to have a slight rant. Hope you enjoyed it. It IS rather funny after the fact.

Madonna's had SO many incidents, it's kinda hard to pinpoint!! LOL I'm curious as to which one you're talking about, and if I missed it!

Do you like pain? If so, what kind of pain gets you off, or at least, excited? I like firm, yet not overly pinching nibbles and bites. I also love giving and recieiving hickies. I know, I'm "old" LMAO, but it's what I like!!!

Call Meaghan at the 888# at the top there, during their business hours, or send her a private message/e-mail.she'll be able to tell you what's going on.

It sounds as if this man has got a lot of issues. I have to agree, it sounds as if he is full of BS. Getting distracted? Why? Is he not fully into you? And, he makes that sound as if it's YOUR fault? What???? It can be frustrating when one partner does more than the other in the bedroom, and all around. Unfortuanatly, he has some issues that need addressing, and he's making excuses for his problems, and trying to blame them on you, instead of where the blame truly rests on. It sounds like you've really tried telling him what's bothering you, and he's just not listening. How are you talking to him? Do you sound like you're blaming him, or do you sound concerned? Something like, "I've noticed that sometimes our libido is off, what do you think that we can do about it?" That works much better than "Why is it you can't seem to focus on ME when we're making love?" Or even worse, the infamous "what IS your problem???" That never really gets anyone anywhere. Is there a lot of stress at work/home for him? Does he have health issues? Do you think he may have ED, and not want to admit it? Is he bored of the same old stuff? Maybe just coming out and asking him why he seems so distracted & angry, may be the most direct route, if you've tried everything else. I would highly suggest not just blurting it out. Maybe during a nice dinner, light talk, away from the bedroom, and concerned tones, but not blaming either. Be concerned, let him know that you're willing to help in any way you can. If you've tried being concerned, I would highly suggest counselling. Although, from what you've said, and, this is just what I've gotten from what you've told me, it doesn't sound like he'd be overly willing to go to counselling. But, I've been wrong before, and I'd love to be wrong now too. Best wishes!!

You're very welcome! Here are some links to items that may be fun for dual pleasuring anal play! Purple Feeldoe Feeldoe Stout This is the one I have, and use this link to also read the review on the product page: Double Delight Vibrating Dildo Harness The link to my review here on the forum: Double Delight Forum Review And here's one that I would LOVE to test too!!! Taylor's Double G Pleasurer

Welcome Pilgrim, and I hope you're able to gain alot of insight from this site. As far as your issue, there are several possibilities, and there are many posts just like yours all over the place. Usually found in Everything Else & Ask a Sexpert. Things like ED, stress, medical issues (diabetes, blood pressure problems), injuries, weight, diet, activity levels, boredom in the bedroom, all can be factors. MY personal best advise to you woud be to talk to your doctor. That's what (s)he is there for. They've heard it all, and are there to help you! They can run tests, verbal and bloodwork, to figure out why this is happening. Again, welcome fellow Texan! Best wishes!

Mikayla has some very good points. If you really like this guy, tell him straight up how you feel AWAY From the bedroom. Tell him how YOU feel. Then, the ultimatum. Usually ultimatums are viewed as a bad thing, but not when you're standing up for yourself. Lay it out on the table. If he says "I don't know" or chooses his GF, that's when you need to cut off ties with him. If he says he needs to think about it, give him a time frame. If he can't give you a decision by then, again, cut off ties, no more bootie calls, texts, IMs, or phone calls, and move on. Don't go with a guy that can't make up his mind who he wants to be with. Shybear made another good point. Do you think you'd be able to trust him if he chose you? Do you think he'd run back and forth between you and his current GF, or someone else? At least, if you lay it all on the table, and are willing to risk it, then you can say you tried. That's what relationships are all about, risk, trust, friendship. Lust is a powerful thing. HOwever, especially with women, it can quickly turn into much much more than simple lust. Also, don't "use" a guy to get over him. If you know this other guy has feelings for you, and you're just going with him to prove you're still attractive, well, the ego boost is nice, but if you give a guy false hope, use him, then dump him, that's where the bad rep comes in. If you tell this other guy that you're not looking to be serious right now, but are all good for a little fun, dates, and get togethers, then at least you're being honest with him & yourself too. But, again, you have to be careful how you handle it, cuz if he feels burned in anyway, he can really make your social life hell afterwards. Normally, I tell people that they really shouldn't care about what people think. However, if you're in a small town, or go to the same places with the same people, word gets out, and your social life goes down the tubes, your reputation goes bad, and things go to hell. I never cared about what people thought of me, I handled myself fairly responsibly, kept my personal business to myself, and came across exactly as I wanted too. As long as you can look at yourself in the mirror, without thinking "OMG, what in the hell have I done and become?", then you're good! Be happy with who you are, what you do, and think things thru. Best wishes!!

My hubby was actually an anal-phobe for the longest time. I had gotten a dual pleasure strap on harness, and lemme tell ya, there's NO better way to do anal, IMO!! There are several things to try, Feeldoes (Have one of those too, and that is awesome!!!), the strap ons, anal toys, and you can also use toys on yourself seperatetly. Dual pleasurers are best, IMO, cuz they're mostly hands-free, and you don't have to worry too much about who's doing what, where. Always remember a couple of things: Use LOTSA LOTSA LOTSA lube!! Never have too little lube!!!! Have a towel ready to wipe the lube off your hands, make sure he has a bowel movement before having anal sex (less mess & discomfort too), never mix silicone toys with silicone lubes. Silicone lubes eat away at silicone toys, and break them down. Go figure, but that's what happens. I suggest reading the rest of this forum, and get an idea of what others have experienced and tried. Best wishes and good luck!!

It sounds as if this man wants his cake and eat it too. You are right, you should avoid him, avoid everything about him, go to another bar/restaurant. He hasn't changed course with his girlfriend, and is planning on moving in with her, so there is an obvious attraction and feelings between those 2 as well. I think that there is a stronger emotional attatchment there that he isn't going to let go. Yes, all is fair and love & war. However, he isn't just dating someone, he's starting a life with someone. Moving in with someone is a very big step. Not one to be taken lightly, and you should respect the fact that he is doing that with SOMEONE ELSE. Would you want a woman to do that to you and your man? Probably not. Lust is a reality. It's strong, powerful, and hard to resist. You will find that there are others out there that you are attracted too, however, you need to just stay away from him, stay single for a while, have fun, and go to another bar to have fun with. Block his number, and delete it from your phone. You will be stronger without the added temptation. Best wishes.