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I'd check all of the Sex Toy Reviews and see if you find anything that grabs your interest. There are honest reviews from real people. Mikayla, me, and Valntyn all love strong vibes. We've all found some great toys here on the site! One of the most awesome thing here is that there is a full one year guarantee on everything that TT sells!! So, if for some reason, your toy dies within that year that you purchased from here, you get a replacement! I have found some people that, for some reason, have bad issues with batteries. Watches don't work for them (that have batteries), and all sorts of other battery operated things just don't work right, if at all, for them. If you have issues with other items, other than sex toys, then something that plugs into a wall, or doesn't vibrate at all, may be what you need.

Ditto to what everyone else said. Pretty much you'll have to put your foot down, and tell him how it's gonna be, what YOU need, and that you know he has desire! Tell him what you caught him doing. Then, make him make a move or at least a decision. It may be hard, but, life's too hard to sit around for some guy to just use you as a maid and bedwarmer!

That's too bad that that movie was disappointing. Those girls on the cover look really really young......or does that make me really really old? LMAO

It's very unfortunate that this happened to your friend. Of course, most people have to actually go thru something before they truly LEARN anything. When things were happening that she didn't like, she should've spoken up THEN, and not waited. Yes, heat of the moment, but there has to be a certain amount of respect and the rules of a Threesome have to be upheld/enforced. I'm not saying that it's ALL her fault, of course her BF should've respected the Rules set before hand. Now he's crossing a line (which was probably forseeable), and it needs to be stopped. If he wants the other girl, well, there's obviously not much your friend can do about that, besides break up with him. Live and Learn I guess.

I have a great friend who is extremely bipolar. She struggled for YEARS to find a medication that not only worked for her, but didn't make her feel like a Eunich (a genderless person). She hated the side-effects of the medications that made her feel almost "normal". She LOVED sex, when she got in the mood for it. But, with her disorder, she had a hard time functioning, dealing with a stressful state job, dealing with 2 young kids, being a single mother, living with her disabled grandmother, AND trying to be a GF too. That's a lot for a "normal" person to deal with.....I was shocked that she handled it as well as she did. She knew when she was off, or the meds weren't working anymore, and, after being around her for so many years, I was able to tell when the meds needed upping, or she was off them totally. She turned into a screaming banshee who went into mad rages over nothing at all, when she was off her meds. What she found that works for her, may not work for someone else. Medications work differently in different people (hence why some people get some of the side-effects, while others don't). Time, patients, and extreme open-communication with your doctor is extremely important. Plus, even though it may not feel like the one with the disorder wants you, or is screaming/crying at you, try to understand that it's NOT your fault, and it's NOT personal.

THAT HAS to be the TooTimid theme song!!! LMAO!!!

One saggy boob said to the other saggy boob: "If we don't get some support soon, people will think we're nuts."

Very interesting looking toy! Gotta love dual bullets!

Singing In Church A minister decided to do something a little different one Sunday morning. He said "Today, in church, I am going to say a single word and you are going to help me preach. Whatever single word I say, I want you to sing whatever hymn that comes to your mind. The pastor shouted out " CROSS " Immediately the congregation started singing in unison, "THE OLD RUGGED CROSS......." The pastor hollered out "GRACE " The congregation began to sing "AMAZING GRACE, how sweet the sound." The pastor said " POWER" The congregation sang "THERE IS POWER IN THE BLOOD " The Pastor said "SEX " The congregation fell into total silence. Everyone was in shock. They all nervously began to look around at each other afraid to say anything. Then all of a sudden, way from in the back of the church, a little old 87 year old grandmother stood up and began to sing "PRECIOUS MEMORIES"

WELCOME!!! And, of course, enjoy and learn!!!

I personally don't have a "preference", meaning, that if I was with a smaller penis-sized guy, I'd break up with him after I saw what little he was packin'. I do, however, LOVE a fuller feeling vaginally, so I put 7" plus.

Ditto ^ The key to that kind of compliment, is not only the source, but the sincerity. I've been told by many of my lovers that I was their "best". They loved how I did, directed, and recieved. It was a wonderful ego boost, and boosted my "sexual ego" too.

Different cultures believe different things, as far as puberty, reproduction, nudity, and pornography goes. And, that was over 20 yrs ago over there, with those beliefs. It's probably changed by now....but who knows! Very interesting! I still say that like the darkening of leg hair, armpit hair doesn't really "count" as pubic hair.

This awesome 7” purple womanly shaped vibe arrived, and I was intrigued to see what she could do. Being purple, my fav color, caught my eye first. Then, I read “designed for a woman, by a woman” on the packaging. Oh yeah! Women know what women like! It has a small bulbous head (there are no tell-tale features on it at all, like eyes, hair, or anything else, so it’s not creepy looking), breasts, a small belly, and a butt that sticks out a bit as well. It’s made of a double coated, hard, slick, seamless plastic for easy insertion and cleaning too. Grabbing 2 AA batteries from my refreshed stock, I put them in, and turned the dial at the base to see how strong the vibes were. I had to really press and twist the cap tight to make sure it didn’t pop off. Turned the dial, and color me purply-impressed! We have strong, graduating vibes! This vibe is NOT waterproof, and states it on the back of the toy’s insertion. “Do not get battery end of Massager wet. DO NOT IMMERSE IN WATER.” OK, gotcha! The vibes were strong enough to satisfy my clit’s needs and as well as my outer lips as well. Insertion was a breeze. I didn’t need any lube, since it’s slick and I was excited. I definitely felt the curves of my purple lady very well. They felt very, very good! I went slow at first, and worked my way up to a nice, sensual orgasm. I could even feel her curves as my vaginal muscles clenched down on her, but it wasn’t uncomfortable, it was very pleasurable! I loved this toy! I think it's a great toy for any level of toy user too. Simple, easy, and unintimidating, this lady will rock....or would that be vibe....your world! Go curvy!

Heart Vibe Pillow Who here has ever humped their stuffed animals, or, say a pillow? If you like to do so, or even if you just like some cute pillows, this cutie is a great find! The Heart Vibe Pillow has several great features! The pillow case is red, with white hearts, which is oh, so cute AND velvety soft. It unzips off of the pillow for easy washing. PLUS inside the case, is a nice little pocket to tuck the wonderous long bullet vibe included with this pillow/toy combo! Batteries for both the vibe and the remote ARE INCLUDED! That's a wonderful thing!! The vibe has some great settings, and the highest ones definitely please this pillow snuggler! And we all know how much I love my strong vibes!! The on/off switch for the vibe, is under a lid, so it can be ready and waiting to go, or shut off, so even if the remote or the function button is hit, it won’t turn on. The remote provides easy settings changes without having to keep taking it out of the pillow. The remote boasts of having a 15’ range. My bedroom is pretty small, but, it did reach from the bed, to the door, with no problem. The bullet also has a function button ON it as well, so you don’t always have to use the remote to activate/change the settings. Oh, and did I mention the bullet is waterproof? Great fun! When the vibe is in the pillow, is extremely quiet. It’s not overly loud outside of it either. Behind closed doors, I don’t think it could be heard. My hubby and I both enjoyed using the vibe all over our bodies, and getting off with its help. And, we also like using it as a massager for our necks, while laying on the pillow. What a great idea! This toy is perfect for a bridal shower gift, Valentine’s, birthdays, or whenever! Perfect for those people that are so hard to buy for and love excitement. It’s simple, easy to use, discreet, versatile, and cute! Rest your head on my pillow bzzzzzzzz

You didn't put your age, so I am assuming that you are young, as well as your BF. Probably not overly experienced either. You can read all the articles you want (no offense Mikayla, for the articles are extremely helpful and well-written), and watch all the porns you want (however NEVER think that porn movies are how sex really is~that's a common misconception!!!!), experience and a willingness to learn, is the only way to become a great lover. The first thing to do is to make him be patient! Of course YOU know where to touch yourself where it feels good, but how is he suppose to know how and where if you don't tell him? A great lover is made, not born. Just because one has a penis, doesn't make him a great lover, and niether does the owner of a clit, make her a great lover either. Teach and being teached, on how to please you and your lover....THAT'S what makes a great lover. Many people don't understand that. If he is unwilling, or too impatient, then he really doesn't understand the whole "sharing" thing, and he is too selfish, and just in it for his own Nut. That may sound harsh. I don't mean it to be. However, I don't think there are too many young guys out there that have been instant great lovers (sorry guys). Faking an orgasm not only cheats yourself, but him as well. Stop doing it! He probably has a hint that you're faking it, if he's getting frustrated. He voices his displeasure, and, as a woman, you want him to feel good, so you fake it so he feels like Da Man. STOP!!! How are you suppose to know to tell him to touch you in the right places if YOU yourself don't explore your own body first? There is NOTHING wrong with touching yourself where it feels good to be touched. You know that saying "If you don't love yourself, how can others truly love you."? Same goes with orgasms. Men can pretty much shut their minds up, and focus on the feelings, go with the flow, so to speak. Women have a harder time of doing so. You have to train yourself to shut your mind up, and go with the flow as well. It takes a lot of time, so don't expect it to happen all at once. And, most of the time, it's when you STOP thinking about "Oh, I want to orgasm....I want to orgasm.....I want to...is that a bug on the ceiling??", when you actually DO have an orgasm. There are different degrees of orgasms. Some are good, others are OMFG!!! Mostly, your muscles clench, you feel a "release" that is hard to explain, but it feels sssssssssooooooooooo gooooooooooooood, that, when it does happen, you won't have any doubt as to what happened. Relax, have fun, enjoy, and don't make it "work", make it fun!

I got a comment on my MySpace page the other day, which I found to be true. A quote from Sophia Lauren "Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful". Sophia Lauren was a sexy thing back in the 70's & 80's, and I still find her hot! Everyone has given some great advice here. Kris said what I normally tell people. Start focussing on a single good feature, whether it's just for the day (like if you had a GREAT hair day!), or something that you like. Don't worry about having the "normal" black woman's body! I live in Texas, and darlin', I'm surrounded by blacks and Mexicans, and I have yet to see similar body shapes!! I'm a tall white woman. Does this mean I should be scrawny and blonde? Of course not! Everyone is different. Celebrate your individuality! So what if you may not have a Junk In The Trunk Booty? I bet your hips can sway just as provocatively as any other gals! Wearing feel good clothes is a GREAT idea!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE it when I wear boots! I just LOOOOOVE boots! I'm tall, and even though I don't "do" heels (I'm a clutz), just seeing boots over my jeans makes me feel sexy for some reason! And, silly as it may sound, I LOVE wearing earrings! I love big hoops! Simple, basic, and oh, so feminine! Howard and Thurasis are correct. You can't just believe people when they say it. You have to truly truly ACCEPT AND BELIEVE IT!!! Own it, work it, and, most of all, have fun with it!!! Don't deny a compliment! Own it! Especially if it's one from someone who truly loves you for you!! Most men don't even think about complimenting a woman if it's not true (unless they're just trying to get laid). They don't bother. Is there something particular that you've been complimented on over the years constantly? Focus on that, and not your "flaws". Women are their worst judges! Most men don't even see the issues that you're worrying about, honest!

This item looks super fun! Thanks for the info!

The Good Head gels are great! If it bothers you that much, then I would suggest sneaking out of bed, rinsing with mouthwash or something quick (like while you're doing the morning pee), get back in bed, and go to town.

I totally agree with Thurasis, even if he did actually write "shebang"!!!

Welcome!! And enjoy!

Trust me when I tell you that, unless they're fresh out of medical school, GYNs see it all rather quickly! Not much shocks an OB/GYN. And, since your OB/GYN has seen the most inner secretive places in and on your body, then, really, what is there to hide?

Well this is a touchy subject. I don't think that when women shave themselves bald, one of the first thoughts of a guy is "I feel like I'm molesting a little girl". Especially if he voiced it, it may be a cause of concern. But, not being a guy, I'm not sure. I've ASKED a few guy friends about this over the years, and they don't normally feel that way. They just love the soft bare skin of a shaved pussy. It's a preference, pleasure, and shows them that their woman cares about how they look and feel *down there*. On the other hand, it's a fairly common fantasy to do it with a "school girl/Catholic study" kind of girl. Innocent, pigtails, even glasses. The men that have these sort of fantasies are usually satisfied with their lovers dressing the part, knowing that it's a fantasy, yet perfectly legal (as long as the participants are of consentual age of course). I know, not overly helpful. Ask you husband what exactly he meant by that. Look for signs of possible issues (kiddie porn and so on). I'm not going to say yes he's a risk, or no he's not. Because I've never met him, and not sure of how he voices things personally. He may have been just saying that cuz he didn't know how else to say he likes a bare pussy. So, I don't want to freak you out either way. Talk to him. This IS important, so I wouldn't brush it under the rug or leave it be.

If you're feeling like you can't get enough sex, and, having thoughts that are uncontrollable, then I would say that you may indeed becoming a sex addict. Most sex addicts are ones who not only can't get enough sex, even with a higher than normal sex life, but they also enjoy the thrill of the chase more so than normal people. First I would suggest that you go see your OB/GYN to have your hormone levels tested. Are you on birth control? If so, there could be huge amounts of testosterone in your system, causing your urges. Women do have low levels of testosterone, but too much can cause some odd and varying side-effects. Even after a baby, hormone levels can be out of whack for quite a while. So, it's really hard to tell. Your GYN can do hormonal checks on you to find out if everything there is fine. I'm also going to strongly suggest some counselling. Being honest about your feelings with hubby is very important, tell him that you need to go see someone, because you just don't feel "right" anymore. Since your husband has to work 2 jobs, I am assuming money is tight. There are clinics out there, everywhere, that offer free and reduced prices for sessions. You just have to do some research into it. Call a hotline, try, try, try. There are ways. *Best Wishes!*