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So, would you or have you, taken a FRIEND (same sex, or opposite) to a sex toy shop? I will raise my hand proudly, and proclaim that almost every friend I have, I have done so with!!

I thought this was a good topic to bump back up, especially since we've had some newbies sign up!

I have to agree with the suggestions from the other posters. And, I will also repeat a couple of them, cuz they bear repeating. How can she learn to please you if you don't tell her what you like? And, in turn, you should do the same with her. Maybe make a game of it. Ask her first what she's like you to do to her, and then take turns telling each other what you want done. If she's a type of person that is either a perfectionist, or a person with a hard time with critisism, then she will get upset with any direct comments, and feel inadequate, which can be rather insulting. The game option is a way around that. Or some light hearted conversation out of the bedroom may be nice. But, try and word it so it doesn't sound negative, or like an accusation. And, again, 85% of women need to have clit stimulation to "get off". Using a clit stimulating toy can help. Using one during vaginal sex can really add some spark. Best wishes!

Some medications he may be taking can also cause this problem as well. Best Wishes!!

Dick Dick Goose DVD Well, I just posted a review for this DVD. Where it wasn't exactly for ME, I will admit to being rather picky with my porn. I enjoy having some variety and girl on girl action in my porn. This just doesn't have it. Plus, I do like bustier women in the adult films I watch. But, that's just me. IMO, this film was definitely geared towards a man. Anyone else see it yet?

Are you into watching threesomes? Like a DVD that has no frills, fancy set ups, dialogue, or plots? Do you just like to see a girl get it on with 2 guys over and over again? Just want to watch some people really get down and dirty? Well, then have I got the DVD for you. The jist of this movie is just as the title suggests: 2 guys and a girl. Not hired for their acting skills, the stars of this movie know how to give a show for threesomes. 6 different scenes, with 6 different girls follow the same script: fellatio, fingering, and fucking. Now, I’m all for all that, but I would like a little more variety and creativity. The close-ups were great in this film, and the picture quality was also really good too. I'm very particular about those things as well. And, call me cliché, but I also like women in adult films to be a bit more on the busty side. 2 out of the 6 women were busty enough for me, and most of them shaved as well, which I also like. The guys were ok, but most were a bit on the plain side for my tastes. I will say that I loved the latina near the end of the film. She was simply gorgeous! And she gave some killer BJ’s too! But, if you just want to lay back, get comfy, and watch some people get down and nasty, then this is the DVD for you. Wanna Play?

I agree with Howard & Mikayla. Do NOT get your education from watching porn. Maybe some creative ideas, yes, but not sex ed! And, as far as overcoming a partner's lack of knowlege instantly, Hun, there is no such thing as doing that. It takes time to become a good lover, and a good teacher as far as pleasuring you. From what I understand, you are either a virgin, or inexperienced. If you want a lover that knows a lot of techniques and sexual tidbits, then, you need a woman that has had a few lovers before you. Does this mean that your woman that you have now won't please you? Absolutely not. But, it takes time for you and her to learn what pleases yourselves and each of you. There's no quick "fix" here. You have to be willing to try. And even some of us that have had more than a few lovers *ahem*, well, even now, we don't know everything, and I am sometimes shocked, surprised, and thrilled at some of the stuff that me & my hubby find we like, or want to try out. Having a true lover, not just a "Fuck" takes time, and the desire to learn and please. Change things up, try new things, voice when you like or dislike something that she does for/to you. And ask that she do the same. I don't want to sound like a broken record, but check out the Sex Education Tab at the top. Read some of the stuff, learn, and try the suggestions you feel comfortable with. Good luck!

Yes, you actually CAN!! This thing really DOES light up a room!! Imagine explaining that to the IL's during a black out!! "Well, I can't find my flashlight, but this thing works just as well!!" Oh, and for those of you that may be wondering, the package and/or dong did not say if it was waterproof or not, so I would go with NOT, just to be on the safe side.

Jenna’s Dream Dong Jenna Jameson, the famous adult film star, and Doc Johnson, 2 powerhouses in adult pleasure, team up to give you Jenna’s Dream Dong. This fantastic clear vibrating dong, is made from revolutionary material called UR3, which is a combo of materials, one of which is silicone (so no silicone lubes please), to give you a realistic feeling vibe. And, bonus! Fiber-optics lights are located in the tip of the dong! You know if Jenna Jameson puts her name on something, it’s gonna be good! I washed the dong, with antibacterial soap, and warm water, pat dry, got the 2 AA batteries out of my personal stock pile, twisted off the cap of the dong, and slid out the battery compartment, put the batteries in that, and then noticed that there is a clear piece of plastic rolled up in the tube where the batteries are suppose to slide in. I took that out, since it made it almost impossible to get the batteries back in. I put the cap back on and twist the controls. Wow! The twist-controller is easy to use, and has several varying speeds that will please the most demanding toy user. The lights in it are really pretty! Fiber-optics seem to be in everything, and in this, they're really cool. The red, blue, green, then purple lights do get slightly brighter when the vibes are turned up. Since the UR3 is clear on this toy, the gel-like material allows the lights to go all through the toy, very cool! The vibes don’t disappoint either. This item also comes with a neat little satiny red bag to go in. However, it's not overly discreet because it has "Doc Johnson" printed all over the bag! But still a nice idea. Easy to grab and know what's in it, that's for sure! We went in the bedroom and my hubby decided that that was the toy we were going to use that night, so, he brought it out for some playtime. We’d taken a shower before hand, and had some fun touching and laughing. He gave me some oral attention, and got the Dream Dong ready for play. At first he wasn’t sure about the lights, but once he teased me with it, turned up the vibes, seeing the lights, and feeling how wet I was, he thought the lights were “neat”, and had fun sliding the dong in and out of me, loving how it looked (and I was loving how it felt!). The dong is about 8” long, and pretty thick, and the UR3 feels almost as real as the real deal! Knowing how turned on my hubby was getting, the pleasurable vibes, and how full I was feeling with this dong, all culminated a wonderful orgasm for me, and even after that, my hubby just kept on going, thrusting it in and out of me, enjoying the light show, I was able to shiver and shake my way to a few more orgasms, then demanding my hubby to complete our lovemaking, which he was happy to oblige! This is a definite must-have in my book. I would say that this toy is probably more for an intermediate to experienced toy user, due to it’s realistic shape, and the material and care the material needs (soap, water, no silicone lubes, and some talc powder gently applied to it afterwards). Get the Dream

I hope you have a great anniversary!!! I really can't add anything else to the fellow posters have said.

The first time having sex is usually awkward, clumsy, and, short lived. But that's not always the case. However, very few people will tell you that it was the most "magical moment of their lives", the first time they have sex. Romantic, sure, sweet and caring, sure, but people need to be taught how to do it well, it just doesn't come naturally. After you start getting use to your body, and how to please your woman, things will get better. Just remember, a good lover is made, not born. Listening to her wants and desires are very important. As it is for her to do with you as well. The willingness to listen, learn, and teach, all at the same time is the key. But, it does take time. Best wishes to you.

Short but sweet, there is no "set time frame" for how long sex lasts. However, unless you're having a fun quickie, then there should be sufficient enough time for both of you to have an orgasm. A man that hasn't had sex at all, or has gone without for a long time, may "go off", and ejaculate a bit sooner than he wishes. It takes practice to control that. So, just take some time, pay attention to your lover, and allow her to teach you how to please her, and do the honor of doing the same to her. Good luck!

Blood Shot Eyes People with bloodshot eyes spend the shortest time in relationships except for the one with their current addiction. They are leg humping friendly to borderline sleazy. They always fall in love with anything that that has two legs, a pulse and a wet spot. They are great kissers----until they vomit all over you. They are very easy to please unless they haven't had their latest fix of alcohol, meth, cocaine, or prescription medicine. If you repost this and you have bloodshot eyes you will either O.D., spend the night in jail, or wake up next to some skank you’ve never seen before within the next 2 days. Blue Eyes People with blue eyes last the longest in relationships. They are kind, pretty or handsome,very good kissers and are really hot. They always fall in love with their closest friends and never understand why. They are very funny, outgoing and don't care what people think or say. They are very satisfying and love to please. Are straight up WARRIORS when necessary. Tends to like the ones that don't treat them right but can't get them out of their head. If you repost this and you have blue eyes you will have the best kiss sometime in the next 5 days. Green Eyes People with green eyes have the most passion put into relationships,honest and trust worthy, they have long lasting relationships. People with green eyes are also the most beautiful, are fun and outgoing, love to make people laugh, random as hell. They long for the touch of another. People with green eyes are very sexy and very attracted towards the opposite sex. tend to cover up true feelings, get scared over relationships.You will meet/stay with the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with if you repost this. Hazel Eyes People with hazel eyes are very loveable. They are really hot and are awesome to be around. They don't enjoy 'pet names'. They don't care what people think or say. They are lovers, not fighters. But if you mess around, they'll knock you out. They are very satisfying and they love to please. They can exceed your pleasure standards. They are very laid back, chilled and love to just be around. They like to party to love to have fun fight when they have to and there good kissers and good in bed if u r with a hazel u are lucky and out going trustworthy a very good friend and they are very funny and fun to be around. If you repost this and have hazel eyes then you will be happy soon with the person who is on your heart. Brown Eyes Either sexy as hell or are adorable. Loves to make new friends. Their relationship tends to be very honest because if they aren't truly in love, then the relationship won't work. They fall easily for their best friends. Will do anything for that special person. Kind and polite. Enjoys being with their guy/girl. LOVES to party. Can make ANYONE laugh or cheer them up. Loves to please the one they care for or love. Repost this if you have brown eyes and you will find the one that you are meant to be with within the next 7 min So, yes, I am a Hazel Eyes Gal!!!

That's awesome that it worked so well. Chaffing isn't a good thing. We may have to invest in those!!!!

OMG!! Another visual!! Sorry, I'm not really laughing at your pain.....well, maybe I am, but the wording was priceless! Clothespins!! Thanks guys, for the totally honest review!!

My hubby's first sex toy was a mastubator sleeve, and he loved it. It was basic, and easy to use and clean. They come in a variety of shapes, lengths, sizes, and colors! They can be fun solo, or, even used together. A fun idea, to get him use to it (and maybe you too), is a masturbation night, where the 2 of you either masturbate yourselves infront of each other, or masturbate each other. Trust me, it's LOTSA fun!!

Welcome my fellow Texan!! I see you have a great sense of humor, that's great! Welcome to the forum, and I hope you're able to delve in quickly!! And, yes, being able to write PENIS, and not feel "odd" about it, is great!! PENIS PENIS PENIS PENIS!!

Ok, be honest....where did you get your favorite sex toy? Even if it wasn't here......how much did you splurge on it?

I have on of those Memory Foam toppers too, and that thing rocks!!!

I guess it depends on how sexy you want the corset. I had one, and bought it at a lingerie/adult novelty store. I can't remember how much it was, but it was expensive. Maybe around $120 or so.... You may want to try a dress shop, like for bridal gowns, maybe JC Penny, or Sears as well. It's been a long time since I've even worn one! So, I'm not really sure where to go. You can also Google it, maybe some stores will pop up. Good luck. I think corsets are super sexy!

I don't have this pump, but my ex did have one (not battery powered though), and it was fairly easy to clean. I will try and answer this post as well. I see that there is some assembly required....this can be a good thing. As with most toys, the best way I've found to clean pretty much every toy can be cleaned with antibacterial soap (pre-battery insertion) and warm water. I use the liquid soap, for easier application, spreading, and rinsing. Nothing with cleaning beads, moisturizing beads, or the scrubbie beads you can get...just plain ole antibacterial soap. Allow the parts to thoroughly dry before putting batteries in. I would suggest a few hours at the very least. When cleaning it after use, disassemble the toy as best you can, take the batteries out, wash, again with the antibacterial soap, and allow to fully dry before storing. I'm sure Mikayla will be able to give you more specifics, but I've found this to be true for all of my toys (so far).

Welcome, and I hope you enjoy the forum.

I'm usually skeptical about these types of products too. Tried a few here and there, and have always been disappointed. It's great to know that there are a few of them out there that actually DO work! Thanks for the detailed review! It's always fun and informative to read them!

I will agree with Mikayla here. I feel the exact same way, so that's easy to do. I, personally, have never been to a strip club. But I would LOVE to go, either with friends, or with my hubby. I trust my hubby, and he trusts me. He's been to a few, since we've been together. I've never had an issue with it. I don't feel that this is a form of cheating, per say. Unless he's going to a less than reputable one, that allows more than just dancing. But I wouldn't worry too much. The ones that allow "extras" are not overly common. Most places have an either No Touching rule or only the dancer is allowed to touch, to a degree. And those rules are followed very closely. Trouble costs owners and dancers money, so they do tend to stick to the rules more. If he's going, even after you voice your displeasure with it, then, I would say that he's not cheating on you, but he IS being disrespectful of your wishes & feelings. There is a difference, though sometimes the lines there are slight. Like Mikayla asked, is it bothering you? Have you told him that you don't like it? Have you gone with him to one, and seen what goes on?

I'm sorry that this flower toy wilted for you.