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My hubby would love that.....he is always trying to get my to do DP more ofter. I think that is something I am going to have to put on the list. Good review!!!

Bongos, There maybe a few reasons why your wife has no libido, considering her age have you considered that it could be menopause. If she is on any kind of hormone treatment that can make your libido drop to nothing. Now I am not talking from experience but I do know a few people that have suffered from this. You would also have to consider different medications that she may be on. These could explain the drop in libido. Now as for giving you a blow job, I have a sister in law who is like that and I have never understood the issue, I read that you have tried to talk to her about it and she gets defensive. The only thing I can tell you is maybe you should withhold giving it to her and see what happens. I know that is how it is in my marriage, if one doesn't give the other doesn't get it. I would still try and talk to her calmly, and keep communications open. Try communicating about other things first, make her feel comfortable. The very carefully approach the subject. Keep us informed and let us know how you are doing.

Have had road sex a couple of times....It is always fun. I have to think back to the last we were crazy in the car and that would be when my HB brought along a bullet vibe and we played with the remote all day. Needless to say by the time we got home clothes wre flying everywhere. The craziest thing lately would be having sex in new places, which is always fun. My HB loves to drive me crazy in public places, like Walmart and Target. He will just call my name from 10 feet away and be like " Hey Hon....I wanna fuck ya later" AWWWWWWW isn't he romantic...lmao The only thing it does is embarrass me and make me look to see if anybody heard. But he loves to do those kind of things....lol

Foreplay can last anywhere from about 20 minutes to hours, it all depends on if the kids are home and how late it is. The earlier in the night it is the longer the foreplay lasts, is usually how it goes. But I have to admit that usually we will have sex and forplay for an average of 1-2 hours. But then again there are times when we just want that quicky!!!

1. What drives you buck wild in the bedroom? --When my HB can't seem to get enough. 2. What totally turns you off in the bedroom? --When the kids start knocking or just walk on in to the bedroom. 3. What is your favorite type of sexual experience? (ex straight, doggie, oral, bondage, etc...) --Doggie or me on top, especially when he starts takling dirty. 4. What makes you hard (Men) or wet (Ladies)? --When HB kisses my neck that's it I am done. It can actually make have an orgasm sometimes. OK....He needs to come home, just thinking about it...lol 5. What is one tip or idea you'd like to pass on to everyone here? --ALWAYS be open and willing to explore your sexual side and nothing is more important that trust when it comes to sex.

You have received some great advice from everyone as usual. The only thing I can add is that I have been in your position, my first husband was the same way. I found it very hurtful and like I was doing something wrong or there was something wrong with me. You should try and talk to him about it, but make sure you talk when there are no distractions and keep calm and don't push the subject. I know this is upsetting and I really do feel for you. Like I have seen in a lot of replies, there is always the possibility that somewhere down the line that this may pull you apart. You always have a choice, maybe showing him this site might help him realize that you are trying to make your sex life better and are willing to try new things with him.. Maybe if you reassure him in some way that you want to become closer to him and by exploring sex is a way to become closer. But before you do anything just try and reassure him that you are happy with him and show him that in different ways ( not sexually). There is also nothing wrong with masterbation!!! My hubby is on the road 5-6 days a week and we still find a way to talk about sex and I even masterbate while on the phone with him. It is so HOT!!! It just wants him to come home sooner and have sex when he walks in the door...lol I hope this helps you in some way. If you have any questions or just want to chat about it you can PM me at anytime.

I like all kinds of porn, girl on girl, straight but I really don't like gay porn. It does nothing for me. But I have to admit I love to watch people really into it. That makes me really hot!!! Besides, my hubby loves to watch porn. My favorite porn is Camp Cuddly Pines Powertool Massacre, it is funny as hell and has some great scenes in it. It is sold on the site here. If you love horror movie spoofs then you will love this porn. Camp Cuddly Pines

I always use a water-based lube for all my toys, my favorite lube is the O'My brand right now. I just love this lube, it is great for everything from vaginal to anal, and comes in alot of different flavors. You can read the reviews on this product here is the link O'My Lubes Have fun with this toy, I have had it for a few years now and believe it or not it is still on the top of the toy box and I have never had a problem with it. Just remember it is Not returnable, so just be sure you realize how BIG it really is.

Tyger, Yes there are nubbies on the bottom of the massager, but like I said in the review they are made of a hard plastic. Not exactly something you would want to use on any kind of sensative areas. Yes, the massager vibrates as well that is where the batteries are located and you just plug the bullet into the massager. Truly, it is very powerful and someone wants just a very powerful bullet then this is great. I think I was just disappointed that the massager was such a hard piece of plastic and very loud. But like I said, If you don't care about noise then this is perfect. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough about the massager.

The purple massager Well when I first opened my box from Tootimid I was very curious about the massager. It looked very unusual, to say the least. I kept trying to figure out how besides sitting on my hubby’s back that this could work like I wanted it to. Let’s start with the specifics, this vibe is a bullet and connects by wire to a back massager. The problem I had with massager was that it is made of very hard plastic. Not really something you would want to use to massage any sensitive areas. The massager takes 4 AAA batteries and to be quite honest it is very loud, so if you have a roommates or guests, turn up the radio if you don’t want them to know what you are up to. But while the vibe makes a lot of noise, it is very powerful. Within seconds of placing this little bullet on my clit I was ready to have a powerful orgasm. Which if you look at it isn’t that what a really great toy is about. I would recommend this vibe to anyone who isn’t bothered by the noise, and who doesn’t intend to use the massager for any delicate parts of the body. It is very easy to use and is good for anyone who from beginner to experienced users. purple massager

Thank you, I really love the Karma Sutra Brand. Have you tried any of the other products from them? I have only tried a few and I recommend those to everyone I know.

Karma Sutra Love Essentials kit The Karma Sutra Love Essentials Kit is a wonderful. My hubby and I were curious about the Karma Sutra line since this was the first time using the oils and honeysuckle dust. Everything smells really nice and sexy, I couldn’t get over how everything had its own fragrance, and yet all of the smells didn’t make you feel like you were in stores perfume department. They both complimented each other. The oil is very nice and makes giving a massage even more pleasurable. As I massaged my hubby’s back we both became surrounded by the sweet smells of the oil. When I finished with his back I of course worked my way around the front and began to lightly dust the Honeysuckle dust on his chest. The dust plays tricks with your senses it smells like honeysuckle and yet tasted sweet. I just loved the combination and kept applying more with the feather and would lick off. The lube is great not to thick and just the right amount of consistency, it’s perfect for a slippery night between the sheets. I would recommend this product to anyone looking to inspire some romance or give someone the gift of romance. The Karma Sutra Love Essentials Kit makes you want to explore every part of your partner’s body, to enjoy the feeling of being massaged with just a hint of warmth, to be tickled with just a touch of a feather, and to be kissed with just a hint of sweetness. Now who wouldn't want that for a night of love making?

Katt, OMG!!! I have tattoo's and I would think that would hurt just a little too much for me. Then again, my next one is going on my fooot and I heard that hurts a good bit too. But I gotta say my hubby would love something like that...lol Very Sexy!!

You are quite welcome. Anytime you have a question feel free to ask the forum, there is always great advice on here. Coupleofmaniacs

Bullets are usually your best bet. However, if you are looking something without the wire then I would suggest some of the mini's that look like something different. There is one mini vibe that looks like a tube of lipstick, you can leave it in your purse and no one would be the wiser. It's on this site Incognito Lipstick Vibe. This is quiet and is great for a beginner.

Thanks Valntyn, I am still getting used to using Vista, what a change from regular windows I can't find anything yet.lol To answer your questions about anal usage, the bump at the bottom is a little bigger than the rest of the vibe but there is not really a stopper. What I can suggest is probably not inserting it all the way, I know when we used it we didn't. But no matter how you use it, I still say you can't go wrong with this of vibe. Hell....I used it last night...lol

O’My Flavored Lubricant At first glance this lube seemed to be different than others that I have tried. See I am the kind of person that is usually skeptical about lubes. They always seem to be sticky, or don’t work long enough. So when I looked at the packaging it looked like something you would buy at a nice boutique or high-end store. The bottle is very pretty and has a pump dispenser. You can definitely leave this bottle on the nightstand and no one would ever be the wiser. Now to get to the good stuff…. the flavor I got was Blueberry Cheesecake. From the first pump you can really smell the blueberries not much cheesecake. With that first taste I was hooked, I mean how many women would love to have cheesecake and never gain a pound. I couldn’t wait for that night just to see how great it worked as a lube. As soon as we were alone, my hubby just put a little drop of lube on me, and I couldn’t believe how great it felt. The lube is very smooth and slick, which is what you want in a good lube. Then we tried oral, I love the taste and my hubby loved how silky it felt. We tried anal with the lube as well, and I have to admit it worked wonderfully. This lube impressed me it took us from vaginal, oral, and anal all with one bottle of lube. This lube is not sticky, doesn’t stain, and has a great blueberry taste. The best part of the lube is that I didn’t have to worry about anything, with it being sugar free and water based, I could put the lube anywhere and everywhere. I would definitely recommend this lube to anyone looking for a little slippery fun under the covers. Blueberry

 O’My Flavored Lubricant At first glance this lube seemed to be different than others that I have tried. See I am the kind of person that is usually skeptical about lubes. They always seem to be sticky, or don’t work long enough. So when I looked at the packaging it looked like something you would buy at a nice boutique or high-end store. The bottle is very pretty and has a pump dispenser. You can definitely leave this bottle on the nightstand and no one would ever be the wiser. Now to get to the good stuff…. the flavor I got was Blueberry Cheesecake. From the first pump you can really smell the blueberries not much cheesecake. With that first taste I was hooked, I mean how many women would love to have cheesecake and never gain a pound. I couldn’t wait for that night just to see how great it worked as a lube. As soon as we were alone, my hubby just put a little drop of lube on me, and I couldn’t believe how great it felt. The lube is very smooth and slick, which is what you want in a good lube. Then we tried oral, I love the taste and my hubby loved how silky it felt. We tried anal with the lube as well, and I have to admit it worked wonderfully. This lube impressed me it took us from vaginal, oral, and anal all with one bottle of lube. This lube is not sticky, doesn’t stain, and has a great blueberry taste. The best part of the lube is that I didn’t have to worry about anything, with it being sugar free and water based, I could put the lube anywhere and everywhere. I would definitely recommend this lube to anyone looking for a little slippery fun under the covers. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5907

The Fun Factory “Baby Bug” Mini vibe This little “ Baby Bug” is very cute and tiny, you can take this vibe anywhere. It is only 3 ¾ inches in length and 1 ¼ inch in diameter. It takes only 2 AAA batteries, but don’t let the size of this mini vibe fool you, when it comes to power it delivers. This vibe is very quiet and small so you can hide it anywhere. The “Bug” has 8 different settings, 5 speeds and 3 pulse settings. The power button is a little hard to use sometimes, you really have to press on it. The only time I could see where it could become a little annoying is when your in the heat of the moment and you can’t find the button, or don’t press hard enough. The power buttons are enclosed just like the rest of the vibe. The only thing not made of silicone is the battery compartment, which has a very tight seal. My hubby and I just love using this vibe, it’s the perfect size for either anal or vaginal use. Personally we use it for either clit stimulation or vaginal, but I have to admit I love this vibe in the water. The “bumps” feel amazing when inserted; you can feel every one of them. I am sure the bumps would feel just as amazing when used anally, we just haven‘t done it yet. I love the fact that the size of this vibe fits perfect in my hubby’s palm. This way I can feel his hands all over my clit with strong vibrations at the same time. Which is one way for me to have a great orgasm, and I did over and over again. I have reviewed Fun Factory products before and let me say they have never disappointed me. This brand is very good quality and will last, I have Fun Factory vibes that have lasted for over a year. And I have to admit, those vibes are the first ones I go to when I am looking for some fun . The Fun Factory vibes that I do have are always on the top of my toy box. They are perfect for every kind of user from beginner to experienced. I know this “Baby Bug” will be on the top of my toy box for a long time. Now for you beginners, there are a few rules about using any silicone toy. You can only use water based lubes. Never use a silicone based lube it will destroy your toy. Washing these toys are very easy, just soap and water and they are hypoallergenic. Also I would like to apologize for not getting the pic of the vibe on this post. For some reason it is not letting me transfer the picture. Baby bug

I just opened my box from Tootimid and to my surprise and delight was a new Rabbit Vibe inside. I just love dual vibes; they are my favorite kind of toys. This rabbit has a little longer section of pearls that rotate in either direction with a push of a button. One of my favorite features is the tip of the vibe rotates as well as the pearls. The size of the vibe is 6 ½ inches long and is 1¼ inches in girth, so I think that it is the perfect size for a beginner, if you are more experienced you may want to go for something a little bit bigger in girth. I couldn’t wait to see what this vibe could do, so I didn’t wait for the hubby to get home, I wanted this toy all to myself. When I pulled it out of the box I was surprised at the quality of this vibe, it is very smooth and feels really nice when you touch it. The controls are all made of the same material and are very nice they don’t feel like plastic. There really wasn’t a smell to this toy, which sometimes happens and it is very easy to put the batteries in. Once the batteries were in I put lube on the toy and slowly began to insert the vibe. It is very smooth and like I said the girth is not overbearing, I turned on the rotations and felt the pearls and tip swirling around inside and I almost came right then. I knew I had to turn on the vibrations to put me over the edge, I started with them on slow and the little rabbit ears were tickling that perfect spot. I was surprised how powerful the vibrations were and couldn’t wait to see what high was like. I turned it on high and within a few seconds I could feel my orgasm building until I had an incredible orgasm. The controls are very easy to use on this vibe and perfect for a beginner. All in all I would recommend this vibe to anyone that is in need of a new dual or for the beginner to experience what dual vibrators have to offer. rabbit

Kama Sutra Cooling Gel Usually I am up for anything, and most of the time skeptical of things that claim to enhance sensual pleasures for either a man or woman. So I opened up my box from Tootimid to see the Kama Sutra Cooling Gel that is made to enhance female sensual pleasure. My hubby was quite anxious to see if this really worked, patiently he had to wait until that evening when everything was quiet. He ripped open the box and laid me down on the bed, after a little foreplay he applied the gel. Now first things first, it is really not a gel it is thinner than most gels, and is not sticky and doesn’t stain, which is great. When he first applied the cooling gel, you can really feel the cooling effect and at the same time I could feel my clit become engorged and very sensitive. I could not believe how great this felt, the more he played with me the better and more intense the sensations became. He pulled out one of my favorite toys just to see how I would react; he turned the vibrations on low and slowly began to rub my clit. I couldn’t believe how incredible it felt and how fast I was able to have an orgasm. As he began to turn up the vibrations I could feel myself building up to have another orgasm, which turned into 2 and then into 3. Yes ladies, with this gel I finally had a multiple orgasm it was unbelievable. Now I am not saying that you are guaranteed to have multiple orgasms, but what I am saying is that you will not regret giving yourself a little added pleasure. Just remember a few things, you don’t need a lot of this to do the job, a few drops will do. The sensations will last for about 5 minutes so if you will have to apply more if you want to make the feelings last longer. And the last thing is the more you apply at one time the stronger the sensations become. This product is latex safe, and edible, so yes you can have oral with this. I would recommend this to anyone who wants to experience a heightened sense of arousal. Karma Sutra Gel

Sorry about the double posts Katrina

Tyger, To answer your questions, No there really wasn't an after taste at least not that I can remember. Once we started with the oil everything seemed to blur a little bit. This product really has the heat factor which usually drives me crazy...lol As for the sticky film my hubby said he felt a little sticky but nothing like he had to jump in the shower two minutes after we were done. Now I did read another review for the Cherry flavored and this person said they didn't like how sticky it was. So I guess it's all up to the individual, it didn't bother either of us. I hope this answers your questions. Katrina

Tyger, To answer your questions, No there really wasn't an after taste at least not that I can remember. Once we started with the oil everything seemed to blur a little bit. This product really has the heat factor which usually drives me crazy...lol As for the sticky film my hubby said he felt a little sticky but nothing like he had to jump in the shower two minutes after we were done. Now I did read another review for the Cherry flavored and this person said they didn't like how sticky it was. So I guess it's all up to the individual, it didn't bother either of us. I hope this answers your questions. Katrina