Hi I am not sure if this has been posted i have look around to see but didnt find so i thought i would give it a try we know that we love our spouses and they love us but what are some of the simple things we do that really flutters their hearts and make them realizes how blessed ,lucky fortunate they are to married to us or even things that they do that make us feel that way or even our children. The reason i ask is because i was sitting in my kitchen looking out the patio doors and a red bird flew by i was so surprise i got up to look outside for it and there was a yellow and blue bird i have never seen all three together and i remember how when i was in my late teens and twenties i would daydream about being in the park with my boyfriend or husband having a picnic talking about nature and reading to each other & really enjoying each other company sharing our dreams and what we wanted to accomplish in life and then i walk back inside to hear about the shooting in Virginia it made get to thinking about some things and when Howard posted the question "flirting with your spouse" it made me think about the little things like a simple smile across the room to each other, helping clean the kitchen once dinner is over walking in front of my husband and he say things like; "DAM SHE SO FINE OR SHE SO BEAUTIFUL" or even me watching him shave or wash the truck doing the yard just little things caressing his face while hes sleeping you know. So i ask of all you to share some things also thank you! and keep all the families in your prayers well maybe the topic should have been THE SIMPLE THINGS