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This is an interesting feat which I have originally thought of performing myself at once. That said, you need to be a talented frontbender. I am not flexible enough right now, I know this. I would not call it impossible, just rare. There are 'selfsuck' males who are able to suck their own, so I don't see why they could not also suck something on top of it. That said... look at this theoretical act from a LADY's perspective... you're going to look really ridiculous doing it. Since sex is very mental for many women, this might be a turnoff. As a guy, I'm real fascinated iwth the idea, but from the pics I have looked up, the guys are real scrunched up while they hyperflex their spines, it just looks awkward and doglike. We don't look at ourselves while we beat off so it's fine for that, but unless a lady has her eyes closed, she's going to fet a big view of your spine joints jutting out of your back and it might be quite appalling.

That looks pretty cool. I wonder if guys could use it too... but anyway, I wouldn't order anything like this until I'm living alone, lol. It'd be too embarassing if it were found.

They're flirting 'at' you. No one can control that short of a restraining order, and nothing has occured to give precidence for that. 'With' requires you to respond flirtatiously, and you didn't mention doing anything at all. Tell your husband that yeah, they're probably attracted to you, but you're attracted to him, or whatever. Or maybe play it in reverse and tell him women are looking at him, and that you don't appreciate his infidelity for remaining opaque

Ha, I intend to have your "problem" some day, great attentiveness!

Funny you mentioned, I met a girl I really like at my church too, and I'm an atheist! Still I'd like to attend churches for such a reason... not really wrong I think. Anyway, I don't really go anywhere to meet people, I go where I go and there's people of the opposite sex pretty much everywhere, so I don't know what the hassle's about. It's just, some areas are more comfortable to approach people because you know they're more likely to be there to get asked or asked people out, like bars or singles clubs. Basically anywhere else, assume they're there for that, and why not relate to them about that and make friends before trying to date them? Oy...

Stop dating him until you speak to his wife and know she consents to this relationship, or he divorces her. It's not right to do that in relationships.

God yes Even alone... haven't really gotten that earlobe thing, maybe I'll try it sometime, but really... ears kinda suck. Then again, I probably would like someone to whisper in them, or blow on them, but even then that's more the viscinity to someone's face that's arousing, not my ear being touched... heh.

I'd recommend the word Promiscuous when describing yourself as opposed to 'Slut' or 'Slutty'. You used slut. Right off the bat, you made yourself that noun, as if it's all you were. Promiscuous is only an adjective, one attribute. An apple might be red, but it's also sweet inside and high in fibre. Anyway, are you upset with your promiscuity? If you are, perhaps you want more indepth relationships. You can't have that dating a large variety of people, because there's simply time constraints. Weigh what you want and do it.

Crying's fine, long as you're certain it's one of happiness or beauty or sympathy or bond or whatever, and not fear or anything. Like... the good kind of crying, is if you cry watching someone sacrifice themself to save someone else, or when Bruce Willis gets smashed up against the walls at the end of Unbreakable, or when Powder touches the deer and the hunter.

Don't put up with this crap, it's okay to be a little selfish sometimes, especially since it's better for her in the long run too. What's she running off to do? Ask if you can come? Ask her to stay and talk? If not, don't stay in it for just the sex, and if you love her, don't be afraid of losing her for being pushy, that's wussy.

Eh, don't assume guys don't think about their own anatomy when masturbating. I mean yes, we use the female form to become stimulated, and visualize intercourse, but essentially, it's still us in the end we need to be touching to reach the end. Probably other guys moreso than myself as they do it by hand rather than floor friction.