chickenmom

I think that your children will give you the cues. I have 3: 13 - girl, 12 - boy, 10 - girl. I just had the talk with the 13 girl. She googled "sex" on line. The 12 boy had the talk this past summer because of my finding a porno picture in his wallet. Each child is different and has their own requirements. I think when the time comes, you'll be okay. It's uncomfortable, but you'll get through it. Trust your instincts.

I bought the black label wedge/ramp combo. It has the restraint system. I also bought the cube and the stage. OMG! I love these things. It really is a high quality product. A little pricey, but so worth it! Thank you for everyone who recommended the site.

I had my silver bullet in my purse in my truck when my 10 year old daughter decided to go through it. She pulled the bullet out and asked what it was. I looked and was, needless to say, mortified. I told her to put it back, and reprimanded her for going through my purse completely ignoring what she found. She never did ask what it was thankfully.

Several toys actually. I apparently need a lot of clit stimulation, so I look for toys with that now. It seems as though every toy claims to be the best and have the strongest vibrations. It is obviously not the case. It is such a let down to get so excited about a new toy, only to be so disappointed. The fact that you had to spend money on it makes it even worse.

I have a friend whose hubby in in Iraq. She keeps herself really busy: school full time, work part time, errands for people, getting my children to spend the weekend with her, etc. It helps her not think of him as much. They also each have webcams, so that when he can get online, they can see each other. That seems to help. Her hubby is scheduled to be away for a year. She said to me yesterday that it's been xxx days already, and he's coming in January for 2 weeks. After that it's only xxx days until he's home. Breaking down the time frame keeps it manageable in her mind. Keep the faith.

Not a stupid question. I pretty much asked the same thing about the wetness. If it had not been for Howard's description, I would have thought that I was ready for some Depends. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Everyone here is so helpful.

I'm do gland you created the wish list. I am going right now to add to it.

I've never broken in a guy, nor am I the most experienced on this forum. I will say however that communication is the key with him. I have learned that you have to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't. If you are telling him what you want, you are educating him at the same time. Mikayla and Howard have written many posts about these issues. Take the time to go through the many, many, many forum topics and you will learn a lot. I know I have.

The hubby and I are new to anal having only done it twice now. It has taken me a long time to get to that point. What I have found is that I LIKE it! It's different feeling. We have tried on several occasions, but haven't been successful until recently. We didn't use condoms and he did cum in me. It was definitely the last thing we did. I have read the posts about not going from anal to vaginal because of the risk of infection. I don't forsee it as an every time thing, but it certainly will become more frequent. I don't think we'll discuss prior to sex. I think those things just happen.

Okay. That's definitely a challenge especially during the week. At least I have a few days. When did the countdown start Alan77?

Ours was a basic vibrator about 8 or 9 years ago that did nothing for me. Finally went to a local store this June and bought a vibrator that has rotaing beads and head with a bullet. Definitely much better than the first.

www.liberator.com They are expensive, but so worth it. I ordered on Monday. They shipped that same day. I received the first box on Friday and the other two on Saturday. It is a high quality product. I anticipate many years of use. They also sent a nice book with many positions to try. My hubby is an engineer so he really enjoyed having to determine how to use the restraint system. When I ordered, they had a few items on sale, so check the site carefully. It may not be the color you want, but if you can save some money, a compromise might be worth it.

Thank you Liberator! I purchased the wedge/ramo combo with the restraints. It arrived while I was away from the house. The hubby insisted that we open the boxes when I arrived home Saturday night after running some errands. He was flabbergasted with what I had bought. After many toy deliveries now, he gets excited when he sees the UPS or FedEx truck. In any case, we were supposed to go watch a friend sing with his band. I was willing to wait to try out the new pieces, but the hubby was so excited, we didn't go. Upon his close inspection of the pieces, he saw the restraints. I've been trying to get him to try anything bondage wise with me for months. After close inspection and reviewing the positions in the included booklet, he got with the program whole heartedly. WOW! I loved not having control and not knowing what would happen next (thanks to the included blindfold). He really got into it. He was like a kid in a candy store. Being restrained for me was almost freeing. I had to give up control, something I never do in everyday life. I bought the stage and cube as well, so we'll have lots of experimentation to do. To everyone who recommended the Liberator pieces: THANK YOU!

I have a thirteen year old daughter. I have had the sex talk with her recently, which included trying to get her to understand what feelings she might be having. I soooo did not want to have that talk. I did it because it was necessary. It was the right thing to do. BUT, I would not buy her porn or toys or anything of that nature. No matter how mature they think they are or we might think they are, they are still children. Some things are just better left alone in my opinion.

I'm finding that when I use lube, any kind, I don't have the orgasms I did without it. It is a problem especially on my clit area. I'm almost ready to give up on it.

Best I could do was a finger on him last night. Kind of shocked him actually. I don't think he was real happy, but I had a task to complete. He doesn't know he's playing. I'm just going to see how long I can keep his curiousity up as to why the different sex scenarios.

Actually completed this yesterday but didn't have time to post. We have this great chair in the bedroom that's about 100 years old. It's very sturdy and large. It was originally our living room chair, but when we moved to this house, we put it in our bedroom. We have discovered that it makes a perfect sex chair. Just the right height for blow jobs and straddling.

Most informative. I am still working on the multiple o. I finally came while having sex with the hubby for the first time yesterday. Since I've found this site, I learned to do it solo, but was having trouble with the hubby. I was surprised and pleased. I'll practice using your techniques. You are absolutely right about going solo in the beginning. It helped me know what would work with the two of us.

How about sex on a piece of furniture other than the bed?

I'm in. I like the new additions to the rules. Howard would be a great scorekeeper if he chooses to accept.

I'm still behind compared to y'all, but I had to use what was available. Do gum and mints count? I had to bj the hubby with what I had at the time. As far as the public place: parking lot of an office building. I started with a bj while he was driving (the gum/mints were another time) and then pulled into a 6 story building lot. I have no idea if any one was looking down. Didn't really matter though.

After rereading the posts, I will probably have to admit defeat. I can get the food thing done, but there is no way the hubby will let me use restraints on him. I've been trying to get him to use them on me, but he just can't do it. He keeps telling me that it's just too much for him. Sorry y'all. Best of luck to you all. I'll just do the tasks I can and watch in envy of the rest of you.

I completed 1 and two: on the balcony off our bedroom and on the way home from a football game in the car. I just logged on this morning to see the food task. I'll get it done and post. Alan77, you didn't reply and me jumping in, but I'm playing along anyway. Food, huh? I'll have to see what I have.

I received mine the other day. It's one powerful little bugger. I love it as a clit stimulator. Thanks!

It's Mikayla's one year anniversary of joining the Too Timid forum. Thanks for joining and all of your advice. Here's to another year! Sorry I missed yours, Howard. I apologize for missing it. Happy late anniversary to you.