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I have figured out that it is the hair stubble growing in that is hurting (errr, itching... whatever) I just need to go buy so Extra Sensitive Shaving Gel, I can see that one! It is gonna take some practice getting the hair away from the base of the penis! That is where it is REALLY prickly! When shaved smooth, I love the feeling, I am just trying to drop hints to her, trying to get her to do it too... It looks and feels cleaner being shaved to me... Hopefully she'll feel the same way!

Word to the wise from a man who's screwed up enough to know!!! SEX STARTS IN THE KITCHEN! While the dishes are still dirty, the table still needs to be cleared, the floor still needs to be swept, the garbage still needs to be taken out, the kids still need baths, homework still isn't done, dirty clothes are still on the floor, and YOU take care of it without her having to ask! Sex is Mental, people! SHOW her that she is appreciated, and that you realize how much she does to help keep your home in order! Make love to her ALL DAY LONG, long BEFORE you EVER take a single article of clothing off, or before you EVER touch her E-zones!

Grrr.... Is this gonna be an everyday event? I have already been 'itching' with the "5 o'cock shadow" I hope not, I tried to reshave yesterday, after shaving the first time the day before, and NOW it hurts! YEOWWWWWWWW!!!! I assume it is like shaving your face after awhile, the area gets used to it, and doesn't hurt so badly? and yes, I took a trimmer and shortened the hair before "bic"ing it...

Amanda, You'll be glad to know that we can't do much in the shower/tub either... We've tried, but as far as we can get is a good hand job, we just don't fit in there, either. BUT, a hot tub on the other hand!!!!!!! WOO HOO!!! Hot stuff, baby! They're great! Can't wait to put one in the house!

My wife and I just invested in a Bendi-Beaver... it was a signficantly more powerful clit stim than we've had before, and the rotation inside the shaft of the vaginal stim is almost more than she could handle. The bulging area where the beads rotate were a lot to handle! I wasn't sure if she was gonna pass out, or die as she started breathing really hard! I am suprised she didn't hyperventilate, at least! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4954

First of all, anyone who's honest will tell you that calling something out as a "great toy" is a subjective rating. To some, the ultra powerful "super vibration" that Mikayla just raved about, others will say "is crazy, and way too powerful." To others, that same toy may be dull and boring, not powerful enough. Yet, to another group who agree with Mikayla's desires and affections, a given toy is PERFECT, and "EVERYONE" will just HAS to get one. So, keep that in mind. For instance, my wife and I just bought a Bendi-Beaver. Which is a version like the "Rabbit" that was made infamous by the TV Series, "Sex in the City". That toy was powerful to us, and about rolled my wife out of bed when I turned on the rotating feature. There are rotating beads inside the shaft of the toy that created a mindblowing sensation for her. Yet, at the same time, I had to be careful, because I almost ruined the experience, because the toy was a bit bigger than "my boy" and she wasn't used to the shear size was ingesting into her vagina. I could see that she was having a lot of sensation from it, so I naturally began to push it in more, just like I do when I am inside her... That was not good... She asked me to stop, and only use it externally. Which is fine with me, but I know she was not sure what to do with herself initially, when the rotation first started. I have gone out of my way to buy things that are as close to my natural length as possible (I have an ego, you know!!! I don't want to play second fiddle to a TOY!!! WINK WINK), but the girth is an issue... Things we have gotten so far, are either thicker or much thinner than my nature girth. Things that are thinner are OK, when trying to pinpoint the G spot, or the clit, but don't ful"fill" her her it comes to thrusting it "in and out" simulating natural insertion. Toys feel different than the "real members" do, that can be good or not so good. K has stated to me that she likes the toys, but they are stretching her, and she's not used to that. Hopefully, her body will adjust, and she will really begin to become more aggressive with her desire for insertion. Watching a toy going in and out of her is a HUGE turn on for me, especially when I can clearly see that she's getting a lot out of it, and it seems that her feet and legs are about to go NUMB!

Mikayla, (or anyone else for that matter) How do dongs compare to vibrators for women? I have given her three vibes, but no dongs... Initially, when I first started using vibrators on her, she absolutely INSISTED that I only use them ON her, and not IN her... That is, until a week or two ago, when I turned it on HIGH, and had it pushed up against her, just below the clit when she intentionally slid her bottom down the bed, providing full insertion of the vibrator for the first time, and I thought she was gonna either pass out or die from the way she was breathing. So, now that she's allowing insertion of the toys, I am thinking about investing in a dong for her... HELP!!!!!!!!!!

My wife has commented on the new toys we have just invested in. She says that they can hurt abit sometimes... I have intentionally tried to buy things as close to my length as possible. It seems that most everything is either much thicker or much thinner than me. The thicker ones are a bit of a "stretch" for her... Here's a question I think I know the answer to, but am not sure... As we continue to use these, will they "stretch" her out, and become more comfortable for her? I love seeing these in her, and watching her squirm. I just don't want to continue to put these in her, if her body won't adjust to them, and continue to be painful... ...just for the record, we use a LOT of lube on them... so I doubt (although it is possible) that we are not using enough... Also, just for the record.... She used to live and die by the statement: "I want the REAL thing, or NO-thing." Not anymore, she still loves the "real thing", but the "meat substitutes" are giving her a WILD new adventure that we're BOTH enjoying...

Many moons ago, about 10 years or so to be precise, we were still living in Minneapolis, MN., my wife admitted to me that she had fantasized about a FMF threesome with her and I. In my mind, her and I being touched by another woman at the same time, turns me on, BIG TIME. I can still see the room, the bed, light shining through the window on her naked body as she sheepishly admitted, "I have always wondered what it'd be like to have another woman with us." I don't remember how we ever got to that conversation! I only remember that we had just finished a steamy rendevous in front of the fireplace on a cold Minnesota winter's night, and were in the bedroom about to get dressed again. For whatever reason, MFM just does NOTHING for either of us. I think we would run the risk of jealousy if we tried the FMF, though. I enjoy oral, she does not. I can easily see where another woman who'd give me oral would pull me away from my wife, even if only temporarily... That is not a good risk to take. We believe that marriage is about trust, honor and respect. So, even though her perception is a horrible injustice to the act, Her thoughts are based on her observation that while she was in high school, "only the sluts" gave and received oral sex. So, since she has negative perceptions, then I won't force her into it, because just like the rest of us, her perception of herself effects her performance and confidence. Most of us are well aware that sex is extremely mental, and not just a mindless fuckfest, when done right and in its most effective and meaningful levels.

Not 100% certain what they gave you... Need to see a picture to be sure... As far as lube, make sure what you buy is WATER based... The silicone and other lubes can destroy toys.... We just bought the "JO H20" lube, and it is GREAT! My wife has a lot of toys, but I don't have any! I'd like some suggestions, for ME, now! Next toy we buy should be for ME! I have spent about $300.00 on her, do I have anyone's permission to buy something for me, now?

We have the ramp/wedge combo. The fabric is fabulous... The positioning assistance is great... The only drawback we've experienced is that they don't "adjust well" if you need to move them at all during sex. We had them running the lengthway of the bed, and we love to have me standing beside the bed while I am in her. They grab the sheets really well, and are hard to move... We wanted to move them so that they were parallel to the headboard... Of course "drawback", that is a good thing, too... Just know where you want them, so you don't have to move them! They stick to each other fairly well, too... The wedge stays on the ramp quite well, to maintain elevation... Finally, my sex goddess has her deserved throne to lay on while I am taking care of her!!!! They provide great support... Even for us, as people who are "not so skinny"....

Yes, we all make mistakes! While I was in college, I worked as a security officer. Part of the training was in use of pepper spray. I had the training, it sucked... I had bloodshot eyes and a red face for quite awhile! Anyway, that night, my wife initiated some "hot" sex. (Pardon the pun, as you will see)... When I had gotten sprayed (a requirement of the training), I put my hands up, to rub my face and eyes... Not a good idea, made it worse! Uh hmmm...... Anyway, I didn't wash them well enough... I thought that the sting was over... I didn't feel anything.... Until that is... I started giving her a "hand job".... Her "juices" reactivated the pepper!!!!!!!!!!! that is when the sex got REALLY hot..... OOOOOOOPS!!!!!!!!!!! We can laugh about it today, but back then.... wow.... it was NOT funny!

The hot shower and conditioner worked great! No razor burn... Did it myself, this time... Smooth as a baby's butt!!! Just one question: What's the best way to get rid of the hairs under the penis and above the sack? That is a REALLY tricky spot!

That last quiz page: J is: 119 IQ - Super Genius - When it comes to sex, you are a super genius. You have had a lot of experience, and sex interests you so you know a lot about it. You pride yourself on being a source of information and guidance to all of your friends Porno title of my life "Three's Company" Sexual Nickname = "master of ceremonies" 82% Fuckable Seduction style = I am "sauve" "I am attractive both psyically and mentally. I use my abilities to attract anyone I desire." (Physically? maybe, but probably not too much... mentally, oh yes...) My sexual nickname is "Throbbing Python of Love" My hidden talent = "Your sexual hidden talent is your ability to use your hands. You are damn good with them, and know how to make your lover feel incredibly sexy with just one caress." (RIGHT ON, Baby!) Most likely to go to jail for the following sexual activity= "Resisting arrest, while having sex." 26% Ghetto ... Kinda Ghetto. You are kinda Ghetto. You are not the coolest or most suave person in the world. But you are not that ghetto either. You are only ghetto in the most extreme of circumstances. How would I be defined in a sexual dictionary? "100% kinky" My sexual zodiac? "You are so full of energy, you constantly attract hotties, and you are always the dominant one in the sack. It is very easy for you approach people because you have so much confidence and you are very forward about your feelings. You are very likely to have lots of sexual partners, (sometimes all at once), and be the most sexually experienced of any of your friends. Sex matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius"

My wife and I have had many encounters while driving! We weren't going slowly, either! Try 65-70 down the highway. Handjobs, tit sucking fests, finger frenzies... everything but insertion. (We're not skinny enough for that.) Let me tell you.. It is HARD to maintain a constant and LEGAL speed while driving a car without cruise control, while getting a handjob! I can NOT believe that we haven't gotten pulled over for erratic driving during one of these times!!! I've tantalized her while she's been driving, and she's done it to me, too. It adds an element of excitement and danger to the scene! ----------------- Places we've had sex: Pool, shower, Hot tub, city park in middle of tennis court @ 1am in Minneapolis during the month of November ( B B B B Brrrr!), bed, lazy boy, couch, living room, kitchen, bathroom, car.

I am about 5 inches. Two things to think about: 1. Not long ago, we tried an "extender". I thought, "HEY, why not? Bigger is better, right?" This was NOT a good idea for us. She told me it was too much for her, and was physically painful for her. Not to mention that it made a suction cup like seal, and made a "popping" noise when I withdrew from her that was a turn off for us. Think about it, take something about 5 inches long and that is pretty "deep" when you think about the body! Imagine a nurse or doctor giving you a shot with a 5 inch needle!!!! You'd think that they were insane! Learn what to do, with what you got. 2. Don't get me wrong with this one, she loves toys, and the vibrators are now a valuable asset to us. However, it has taken time for her to get used to the different feel of girth that the toys provide. Pardon the pun, but getting started using toys has been a "stretch" for her! Another thing I just thought of... Look at vibrators such as the various Rabbits, and Beavers. The ones with the rotating shafts: Where are the rotating internal beads? Most of them are NOT by the tip, they provide the rotation basically around the vaginal opening, and maybe 2 inches in, where the G spot is at, and not deep inside her!

We are new to the toy world, so maybe we still start out the old fashioned way. The toys have NOT been the first thing we use when we're 'getting started' at night, so one thing I have already done, is lay down on the vibrator while I am "manually starting her engine". It takes a few minutes before she's ready for a toy to be used ON and/or IN her. Just enough time for my body heat to warm the toy before usage!

I couldn't have said it better, myself!!! We like to say that mindless sex is meaningless sex. My wife and I just don't like the cheesy garbage either. We've seen a couple of good steamy flicks, that actually had a story line, but they are so few and far between, that I couldn't even tell you the titles, or anything! It has been awhile. They were on PPV on TV. We dumped Dish Network, and don't have digital cable, so we don't get PPV's anymore. Sex is too valuable to us, to watch it be mindless, raunchy, nasty stuff like what it seems that 99% of the skin flicks out there are.

We don't have a lot, 3 vibrators, a blindfold, a tickler, and couple of other little things is all. We use a little travel bag that can be zipped, and locked with a small padlock. You can pick one up from virtually any department store or drug store for $5 or so. The only problem is, that the liberator wedge/ramp combo, does not fit in there. Then, what to do once the collection grows, as I am sure it will! Being only a month or so into our new venture with toys, we were concerned about our kids finding them and being curious. We didn't want the kids to walk out of the bedroom while we had company over, and ask, "Hey Mom, what's this?" Well, we weren't as careful as we should have been. About a week or so ago, our 11 year old was digging in the nightstand next to the bed looking for something. Who knows what he was actually looking for. None the less, he didn't find what he was looking for, but came out of our bedroom with a vibrator and said, "Hey Mom, what's this? All I know is that it vibrates!" She told him, "It's your father's go put it back where you found it!" Thank GOD, we didn't have any company that night! I was at work, so I wasn't a part of this, but she called and told me about it right away! Needless to say, that is when we made sure that the toy bag IS always locked now.

J is 61% pure. K won't take it..

Hmmmm... We'll have to seriously think about this. I like the idea of easier access: I am just not sure she'll be willing. If she is, she is! If she isn't, then she isn't. If nothing else, I'd at least like to try it.

Anal is scary to me! I hear, though, that men have a G spot of sorts "down under"?!?!?! Although it is scary to me, I have had dreams about my wife using a strap on, and using it on me. I wake up thinking, "EWWWWWWW, what was I thinking?" But, I sure enjoyed it in my dreams!

I have shaved myself a couple of times and my wife thinks its crazy. Not to mention that I was inexperienced and naive, and left the "bristles" down there, which poked her, and irritated her. She never has shaved herself, nor has she allowed herself to be shaved around the genitals. Because I was pretty dumb the times I tried it, I have to ask, "Is it worth it, really?" I have heard (read) that it heightens the sensation between two people, and makes him feel "bigger" to her. Is this true? Should I suggest both of us shaving, and making sure not to leave any "stubble"??? I would love to have her shave me! What trust that takes!

A long long time ago, I recall a very intense round of foreplay when I am certain that she squirted, because as I recall, there was a LOT of liquid, but no pee smell. She FREAKED, and ran to the bathroom apologizing to me. At that time, I had never heard of "squirting", and I too thought she'd peed, but I distinctively remember wondering "why in the world" it did not smell. ---- Hmmm.... Maybe she needs to hear more about this! I don't know if she even remembers!?! --J (of J and K)

My advice would be to consider being VERY careful with bringing up the past! That has been a tough area for my wife and I. There are a lot of reasons this can be a "not so good" idea. Could have been abuse back there, someone could have been better than you, and it could bring up skeletons of all sorts that are just best left in the closet, locked away forever! For us, this was a tough issue because I was not a virgin when we got married, and she was! This has made her admit that she has been concerned about how my experiences with her, compared with my previous experiences. Her Dad left her when she was 5. She feared that if she didn't "measure up" in bed, I'd find someone else and leave her, too. So, I'd suggest asking her to tell you stories and fantasies, but NOT true stories about her past. Especially since she's shown you that she isn't really comfortable with that sometimes. Just my two cents worth, --The J (of J and K)