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Just to add, I shoot Boudoir occasionally. Its something that friends of friends have approached me with. And from a photog point of view, I would never even think of using someone else's camera. If you are hiring someone for their eye, wouldn't you want them to do their best work with what they are comfortable with? Do as much of a background check as you can. Be very clear of what your expectations are up front for privacy and deliverance. Gather magazine clippings and pics of shots and set ups you like. Its always good to give ideas of what your likes and dislikes are. Ask for digital files on a cd. I'd be surprised if a Boudoir photog shoots film. Most labs won't print anything naked (i.e. Target, Walmart). If they truly are professional, there should be an understanding that this is a private matter, not to be shared with anyone other than you and the photog. Otherwise, get a self timer and a tripod and keep shooting till you get what you want. They even have controls now that you can trigger the timer to go off again.

Wow! Lots going on in this thread. Just to comment on the maelstrom: Living in Cali can be quite intimidating with weight size. Barbie and Ken and oh yes Skipper they're all out here. But thats really not real women. This past fourth there was a load of crap in the entertainment gossip about Nicole Ritchie and Mischa Barton sending out invitations letting women invited know that if they were over 100 lbs, don't botter coming. So pathetic. I read an article stating that the average size of women in general in 14. Some more food for thought; Marilyn Monroe was a size 14 and that woman was incredible. To get back on subject para mi - In general, Brunettes over blondes and green eyes to boot. However I love Hazel eyes too. Men: The taller the better. I'm 5'2 so anything 6' and up really. I had a beau 6'4 - Damn that man was hot. Not too muscular, in fact it's really just arms I get wet for. And of course a great ass. I love a great ass. Women: I don't love large breasts. Between a B and C is just about perfect. I really tend to look at facial features for the most part. Eyes, cheekbones, lips, hair type. The more unique a woman looks, the more attractive.

I'm 5'2 and my beau is 6'1 or so. I know exactly what you mean. Can't offer you really many suggestions. Ya gotta work with what you are given. I will say that if your boyfriend can't hoist you up, a very sturdy shower bench might work wonders.

Haha. I've heard a couple jokes similar to that one. It's still funny every time. lqtm

hmmm. Reality porn? Interesting. Who would a thunk the trend would carry over. On a side note, how awesome would a Fear Factor Porn be!

Hahahaha. Tyger - I was laughing hard at Shania Twain and Def Leppard

Since you all know how much I loooove to play the Vagina Game, I thought I'd start a special edition Va Jay Jay version to tie into the Ohmibod Contest. Name a song title and replace one word with Vagina. Make sure to list the Artist afterwards so we can all laugh along! It's pretty fun when you start singing the song with the new words I wanna hold your vagina - The Beatles Vagina Thump - White Stripes I'm bringing Vagina Back - Justin Timberlake Achy Breaky Vagina - Billy Ray Cyrus

Welcome! Congrats on your new toy purchase. I think thats amazing that you've allowed yourself to dive into your wants finally! Looking forward to seeing your posts.

Ooh sounds like multiple facets of fun!

OOh Mikayla - my stomach hurts just seeing the word Everclear - Not a nice alcohal. I drink socially and love to do it. I don't drink in excess and do monitor my drinks. Generally now a days it's with a tight group of friends and we all monitor each other. I think as long as it's in moderation and you're being responsible and not hurting anyone, to each is own. When I was younger though, moderation was not on the top of my agenda. I can remember blacking out a couple times. Thirteen shots of Patron in 2 hours, maybe not a great idea in hind sight. It was fun at the time. But I've NEVER woken up with a stranger or something I didn't know about. Luckily I've always been with friends where someone was the designated driver/mother hen watching out for the pack.

So for any of you who have had a dual action vibe, you know how amazing they are; a necessity for any female wanting to get off properly. This vibrator is no exception to the rule. Not only do you get an unusual clit stimulator protruding from the base, but you get a light show too! Yes thats right! With the lights turned out this vibrator was brighter than candles lit around my room. All you need is some techno playing in the background and you've got yourself a party. In fact next time I have a party I'm skipping renting a light system. I'll just set this fire pistol out in the middle of the room, hit random and let the light show begin! There's no notes that this toy is waterproof, so I assumed it isn't. I cleaned it with hot water and soap, and let it completely dry to not short it out. These toys are great examples of where Antibacterial wipes are awesome. The battery compartment takes 4 AA's which you have to pop out after you get the top sliding case piece off. There's springs on the inside which lets it pop out easily. I turned it on (almost blinded by the lights) and noticed this an extremely loud toy. The vibe itself covered in glittery pink soft jelly material, perfect for any who like simple soft "pretty" material. At five and a half inches long and a one and a half inch diameter it's just right for getting "that" spot. There's four rows of giant beads that rotate in different directions which are spine-tingling as they swirl inside of you. The head is ribbed and slants for easy insertion (which it was very easy to put in). The clit stimulator looks like a flying saucer with little ridged bumps on it. This feature was really different than any stimulator I've used. Because of the flatness, it covered my entire clit area for maximum stimulation. The fluttering vibration was truly amazing with this feature! The controller at the base looks more like a VCR remote than a vibrator. I did have to take a minute to go over what all was available to my fingertips. No Stereo or IKEA instructions, but easy guides on the base. One side for the clit stimulator and one side for the vibrator which are controlled by pushing them up or down for desired increases in vibrations and pulsations. The bottom button turns off the whole vibe and light show which is great if you get a little carried away. And I did several times! However, the most important button and most exciting was the top button which is the random button. If you are really looking for some uncontrollable arousal HIT THAT BUTTON. I adored this vibrator; the nonsynchronous rotating beads, the shape of the shaft, the unusual saucered clit stimulator, and the rhythmic light show. It took me a matter of minutes to cum hard and shutter with this vivacious toy. I would not recommend this for beginners. So many buttons, so much to play with can be overwhelming. But if you are experienced and looking for a new toy for the arsenal of goodies, this is a must have. Or if you're too cheap to rent a light system for your next shindig, try this one. Too cheap to rent a light system? Try this one.

Texting can be an amazing flirtation tool. I love sending my boyfriend texts about what i'm thinking about doing to him/ body parts or comments on last nights actions. He loves it. We even have code names for certain actions. The best is when I can send him a text and he's so taken i get one dirty word sent back to me. Plus it does help break up the day and its so much easier than saying I love you on the work phone

Ok yes, this is in general one of my bachelorette necessity gifts. It is campy. But its also pretty amazing how so many people finally can start to fantasize/experiment with a little help from STICK FIGURES. It's worth a thumb through at least! Position Every Day Playbook: Sex Every Day in Every Way

hahaaha. good funny. lol

Smoking Aces

Is someone volunteering for a task?

I have a couple Ipod accessories that drain the battery life soooo fast. Looks like this one's a winner. Good to know! Thanks!

ahaha. Thats funny Mike but creative thinking. Mikayla - I know you mentioned the vibe itself takes batteries. But did you notice it drain the power on your nano?

Lights off with Candles - ooooh glowy Loud or Quiet? Definitely LOUD. For a second I questioned why my boyfriend bought a ball gag.........

oh that ain't right! i have to get on my man when he does that shit. damn it hurts. but i guess it's what ya'll love right? marking your territory

Wow. um interesting. It looks like something I'd find out in the shop rather.....

hahaa. 6 ha val?

It is pretty and looks like fun

Wow people coming from alot of directions here. Katprr's comments are just about spot on with what I think. It's a very mixed reaction. While not knowing the extent of the situation, it's hard to interpret what is appropriate for this particular girl. But, kids and yes I do say kids, are having sex at a much earlier age. What was common for ages 14-16 five years ago is common for ages 10-13 now. You can thank Brittany and Paris for that lovely endeavor. However, I do think that whether you expose them to it or their friends or their parent friends, it's going to happen. And I would hope to have some control over the situation then be in the dark all together. While a penetrating vibrator may not be appropriate, maybe a clit stimulator is. Masturbation is inevitable in teens. Something else to think about: What is everyone's views on the heated debate of sex education and handing out condoms in school? What happens when we restrict sex education in schools?