thurisas

I have never been with someone who enjoyed giving head, then again I have never been one to be able to release from oral stimulation either so it my be frustration on the part of my partner too. I personally just don't get off on the oral experience though I love performing it on my partner. randy.

Walk

I figured you meant sole as in one and only. Nodnod. Randy.

Welcome to the forums, there are plenty of anal play toys on the site for all levels. I know there are a couple of inflatable that you pump up after insertion to enlarge them. I would warn you about some things going in, though. Mainstream market Produce is generally irradiated but typically can have trace pesticides and what not. No matter what you use, ensure you are washing thoroughly. I know there are others here who can answer your anal questions far better than I, but I did wish to say welcome. Randy

Cheese

Meh. Would it make you hot if I went down on you immediately after you climaxed?

Comfort comes with confidence. Confidence comes with knowledge. You've come to the right place as there are many here who can help you. My suggestion is that where he wants you to be in control, be in control. He doesn't get to pick and choose where and when he submits. He is yours. If he doesn't perform as you ask, even when answering a question, he deserves punishment. That doesn't mean harm necessarily. You are going to have to experiment. Remember to have safe words in case things get too far. Something out of the norm like "broomstick". When gagging, be sure you have a safety gesture. Randy.

Wow, yeah it would. Would it make you hot if I soaked a glass toy in frigid water and slowly inserted it into you?

Sexy is the sound of an unseen woman coming down a tiled floor in high heels. Randy.

Heading down to boston next week for work...forced adventure. Tpbm would like to be the person below someone right now.

Nope.

Glides

Go you. Congrats.

Sensually

Whisper

Suspense

The experience you describe is called plateauing. This isn't at all uncommon but can be self-perpetuating. You get yourself so worked up and stressed about getting off that you set yourself mental blocks to allowing it to happen. Also you say you have only recently started pleasuring yourself, in my experience that often means strict or religious upbringing to sex. Does your upbringing get in the way? Guilt can be an O-killer. Randy

Hot and a might bit relaxed to be sure. Would it make you hot to be served, fed, bathed, and serviced by a handful of hand-picked individuals?

Not really confused, no. tpbm has a ton on their plate at work over the next couple days.

Content

Sure...why not hit the reset button.. Will it make you hot if I caressed every inch of your naked skin with light, almost ticklish touches?

One of my personal favorite sayings is that the only stupid question is one that is important to you and left unasked. That being said, not all women have the same feelings in their sexual organs as other women. Its funny because my wife also wanted to feel the cum but the fact of the matter is that most of the nerves are down around the entry point, the clit and the labia. After we've had unprotected sex my wife always complains that I'm leaking out of her for days. The fact of the matter is, though, that we have a very beautiful little girl and this is always the way it went and the end result speaks for itself. Keep in mind that letting it happen when it happens means a few things as well. 1. You aren't trying to time it for when you are ovulating and as such you decrease your chances. (Your body lets you know when you're ovulating by emitting vaginal secretions). 2. The longer you wait, the more troubles you might have in later life. Remember that while men regenerate their sperm every few days, women develop their eggs early in life and those eggs are constantly getting older as well. 3. The up side is that by letting it happen when it happens, sex will never become a chore. Hope this helps. Randy.

Afterglow

Psychology

Oh, no doubt. I was actually more interested in the actual pressure motion rather than the glide and slide.