froggystyle1977

I know how you feel having a gspot orgasm can be amazing but is sometimes not a possibility in my case due to scar tissue from being raped and having three kids, other then when I am preg I cannot have one... there is nothing wrong with not being able to have one, it is perfectly normal and you should not feel that something is wrong with you.. finding other ways to get pleasure can be alot of fun!! I have found that clitoral stimulation during sex is wonderful, the only way for me is deep penatration in a certain position where his pubic bone and my clit connect. exploring your own body and becoming aware of what makes you enjoy sex more will make it easier experiment and try new things.... just reember its normal and then you will be able to get over feeling so down about it.

I am curious have you held yourself back to wait for her, my husband has occasionally had this problem he waits as long as he can to get me off and then has trouble getting off himself, the best thing if this is the case is to make sure you have plenty of lube and to try to stimulate her in other ways so that she isn't dry and bored.

there are many great responses here some things I would have said myself, mostly I wanted to say you seem to be figureing this out on your own you don't seem ready for the relationship that you are in, finding yourself is more important than staying with someone good luck with anything you decide!!

Hey we haven't gone~~~~~~ I haven't been in a toy shop in ages!! not that there are any good ones around here anyway!! once with hubby. WOW!! ok I won't turn this into a poor me post I have no problem going with friends or family!!

I agree with tyger on this and have to say if my husband walked into our room with my lingerie on I would have a heart attack, I guess it would depend on the situation for me this would be a big turn off I would really rather not know but forothers it may be the opposite. good luck in your decision!!

Definetely agree with everyone above, it takes time for your body to adjust to sex, practice can change it all around good luck!!

I found this video to be quite frankly really boring I can't stand to listen to the girls answering questions and looking like deer in headlights!! while the settings were pretty good all the talking made it impossible to make up my own story line (something I enjoy doing with the sex scene type movies) I found some of the girls looked as if they didn't want to be there and that is a large turn off. definetely not something I would recommend!

Agree with Tyger on this one definetely not in my taste the first sex scene was pretty good I liked the ability to change the view, the others weren't all that great to me and I definetely did not care for the blood and gore at the ending

Spooning always worked best for us!!

When I first made the decision to try anal with my husband it didn't go well try as he might I was not relaxed enough, there was not enough lube, he was going way to fast!!!!!! until I talked to a good friend of mine who gave me the most wonderful advice take it slow and easy use lots of lube and be in charge!! the first time I woke him up so he was half asleep and didn't realize what was happening with him barely awake I was able to take hold and insert him without the pressure!! we enjoy it alot now but I always insert him at my own pace or we stop because going to fast hurts like hell!! take it slow and try to just enjoy each other I highly recommend finger play and taking charge!!!

ok I admit it Tyger is my best friend

HELL NO is right no way would I send my man anywhere and for advice I can get that from any movie, book, even some tv shows!! if your not satified with who your with then try something else if that don't work then leave!!!!!!!! I also think prostitution should be leagalized but that is more to monitor and make it a bit safer (taxes also come to mind)

Definetely a good topic!! I have to agree that something little to introduce Anal is a great idea!! my first experience was extremely painful and later (with another partner) the beginning was not to my liking when he began a ritual of finger teasing it became something I actually wanted to do Anal can be very hard at first and I found that rushing is the worst thing because then it becomes a huge turnoff!! toys can be a great way to start something that may become a favorite activity

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