MystryKitten

OH MY- I DO!!! I good friend of mine has even told me "When I have sex...its the only time I feel worth anything." I think its because he has had shit luck with relationships, always down on himself about it. Also, he is 24 and still living at home so he feels trapped and useless I guess. I'm a good friend to him as much as I can be, there really is nothing I can do about it though.

I just cuddle

HAHA YES

I've seen the trojan pig one!!! The high fashion HIV ones were quite interesting as well. Whats with the spider and scorpion tho?? Referring to crabs and such?

Toys for patient health?? LOL LOVE IT!!!!! Yeah, I could never due the whole role playing thing :-/ then again ive never been with someone who was really into that. I think if I tried to role play and act as something else, I would laugh! Its hard for me to even talk dirty to someone, not that I would laugh but I feel a little shy about talking sexy lol. BDSM is fun though! So I would prefer that. Haven't gotten into it extremely, but do enjoy choking, spanking, scratching, biting,

Ive always wanted to do it behind the shed in my house maybe this summer i will!! ive had sex in my car 3x and in a parking garage once.

My current interest has a slight foot 'kink' as she calls it. I'm a very open person, and am always willing to try new things in the bedroom so it does not phase me at all. I tickle her feet and she squirms in delight We haven't done anything else yet tho, but I dont mind trying! I think the only people who would have a real problem with it are those you are afraid of feet.

I frequently dye my hair crazy colors, and I HATE when older creepy men have the fucking nerve to ask: "So does the carpet match the drapes?" Sheesh! It's only been a few times, and once I said a stern "NO" and walked away and another time I said rudely, "Excuse me??" And walked away. I was 17 and at Ozzfest with two male friends and an ex boyfriend at the time who was my first BF. An older man with beard and a beer in his hand started talking to me about my hair (of course, typical pick up line most times) then he asks, "So have you ever been with a man before?" I suddenly felt violated in someway, how dare he ask me that? And what did he mean? As a BF? Sex? I think all I did was give him a disgusted look and scooted in closer to my guy friends who were enjoying the show. I told them about it afterwards and my one male friend is like, "If that happens again I can pretend to be your BF, ok? Being 20 now, going to events or clubs, if suddenly approached by an unwanted flirt/drunk etc, my guy friends, AND my girl friends will all jump in to save each other and pretend to be together. I works quite well!!

The gyno said my changes of sleep schedule from working overtime on midnights, combined with the fact that i was abstinent for two months and recently started having sex again two weeks ago, is why i may have had this irregular period. If it happens again ill need to go back. but it should just be those stressful factors in which my body is like WHATTT YOU DOIG TO ME? haha and i think i finally stopped bleeding today, but what sucks is that I bleed for ten days and iam to take my ring out Sunday to have my normal peroid. AHHH SUCKS

Well my sleep sched has been off since im working midnight shift at work here and there, but this spotting has been going on for about a week or more now =/ i suppose its really nothing to worry about but its just really getting to me. wont bleed for hours then all of a sudden...oops i soiled another pair of panties thinking this irregular period wud be done! Going in Tuesday so ill ask the gyno yes thank you Leslie!!!!

I'm still having hormone changes at 20? I thought I was done already lol. There is no pain so thats good. Yeah the person I talked to was a clerk so thats prob why she couldn't tell me anything. And I thought I heard that you only regulary spotted with in the first year of getting on BC suppose i was misinformed! Why would your vagina feel the need to spot bleed when there is small trauma to it? And I know u can have spotting with increased stress, different sleep scheds etc, but why do our bodies freak out and decide to have a small period of all things?! Gahh. Sorry, it is just making me frustrated! I just feel that BC should be able to regulate your periods so you know when you'll be on it, but it guess BC isnt perfect all the way thru =/

It takes me a LONG time to get off with finger rubbing the clit. Vibrators are MUCH faster!!! Plus they do the work for you. Its easier to use a vibe on the clit while fucking or what not then to try to have you or your SO to do all finger work! Plus, my BEST orgasms have been while I'm being fucked with a vibe on my clit, cause then I get gspot and clit at the same time and OOoooo!!!!! To me, it usually has nothing to do with men not doing their job right. Vibrators are just easier, faster..they get the job done in a timely manner! I do enjoy I good hand job every now and then tho

I'm on the vaginal ring! I guess most woman aren't on that. Its 99.7% effective you know. You put it in for 3 weeks, and then its out for a week for your period and then a new one is put back in. You can't feel it either. I usually take it out during sex tho. If you take it out you are protected for up to four hours so after your play, don't forget to put it back in! I wouldn't recommend the shot, it only has the negative hormone in it, the one that causes weight gain and acne. Never considered pills, I would never remember to take one everyday! ~MK

Well in my experience, I've had one anal orgasm. An old boyfriend was fingering me down there while eating me out and I totally felt an orgasm coming from my ass!! It was pretty good, but I prefer vaginal over anal...anal just isn't my thing. I did not have a clit orgasm while having my anal O, so I can't relate to the "i got off quicker with anal fingering" I do however tend to get off a lot faster to clit orgasms when there is something in my pussy

Ok so I've been on birth control for over two years now, started out on the pacth for a couple months then moved to the ring. Right now I just scheduled an appointment at Planned Parenthood for next Tuesday for my yearly, and I asked them about my spotting but they couldnt tell me anything and told me I had to ask the gyno when I came in *pout* So heres my problem!! For about a week now I've been spotting, but my period wasn't supposed to start for another two weeks! I won't bleed for hourssssss but when I wake up or sometime randomly throughout the day I'll have a little blood come out, not really even enough for a tampon but enough for it to be uncomfortable! My mom and some of my roommates suggested miscarriage but I'm like noooooooo, impossible!! I've only had sex once in the last two months. The last time I had sex was about a week and a half ago, I had my ring in and my new interest wore a condom. Even two months ago when I was having sex with my boyfriend, we ALWAYS wore a condom and I make sure my BC is put in and taken out on the correct days. Its just not possible! Whats wrong with my vagina!! LOL Its not fair! And Planned Parenthood won't tell me anything Any ideas???

TRUST! like no other... and honesty!!

my first reaction would be to jump on top and RIDEEEEEE and pound a little fast for a long time damn im horny now ha!

LOL yeah I know best of both worlds, its very nice Good luck to your friend, Talyo Ame! I know I shouldnt worry about labels, its just that when someone asks idk what to say! Right now I'm just sticikng to "I dont know right now"

Since I can remember, I've always associated myself as being straight, but not narrow. Basically meaning that I know i like men, but if I ever had feelings for a girl I would accept them. I've never had any emotional or sexual desire to be with a woman, although I always had fun making out with some of my girl friends. And I have always been physically attracted to women, but only that. Recently, I found myself extremely interested in a woman, a transgender woman to be more exact. I find her very attractive! I'd always known she was naturally a man but didn't have feelings for her until now. She still has her past gender genitalia, but she also has AMAZING breasts!! (she knows I like her and we've fooled around a little) I had touched breasts before, but never in a sexual way, and I've come to find I think they are a fantastic addition to things, I fianlly understand why men like them so much, lol! Anyways I really like her a lot. And I like her for who she is. I find that I'm of course attracted the fact that she still has her past parts, but I'm also attracted to the fact that the rest of her is a woman. So, I'm not really sure what to call my orientation anymore. I find that yes, I do love breasts, but I know that I'm not attracted sexually to the pussy. If we end up dating, she'd be my girlfriend which I'm totally fine with, but I just don't know what my true sexual orientation is anymore! This is the first time I've seriously questioned this. Am I bi? I dont think so. If so, I'm like 90/10 And I guess on the kinsey scale or whatever its called I'm like a 1, but what am I? Is there a word for someone who likes men and transgender women? I cant be straight, I love breasts and other small aspects of a woman, but I'm not bi, I don't have an emotional/sexual desire to actually be with a natural woman. Can anyone help me out here? Thank you. ~MK

I havent logged on here since Nov 2008!!! Its been hard to go on this site when I didnt have my own private computer, but now I have my very own laptop !!! Will try to be on here more often now, TT has helped me out a lot and I even purchased my first toys here <3333 ~MK

UPDATE I woke up so mad this morning! So I was in his area yesterday and couldnt help but to leave a message and let him know that I was going to be there and that i thought it would be cool to hang out. I wasnt expecting to hear from him but HE CALLED BACK!! Said he would like to hang out to but that a friend was going to pick him up to get some stuff from his house, so he would call me back in an hour when he knew where he was going to be. He called at 6 and NEVER CALLED BACK. As I was leaving my friends I left him another message "Hey 'his name here' its 'my name here', its about midnight and Im going to be driving past 'insert city name here' in about 30min, if you can call me before then, great, if not i guess ill be seeing you around. take care, bye" I assume his friend picked him up and they went out partying late into the night and he forgot about me or whatever. But he had called, which was great, but I was so hoping to get laid! LOL hey but if he really just wanted to hang out that would have been fine to, be gee i wanted him to have called back and he just left me hanging!

No, this would be my second FWB situation, but first time actually having sex with someone casually. With the other FWB we just did oral sex. I understand that we can both see other people, and in my last FWB that lasted 5months, we were seeing other people. I even was in an open relationship with another boy for a short time as well (they both knew of each other) I really feel I should lay off calling and hanging up. I left one message two days after our last get-together, and the last time I called was the day before Halloween. I'm thinking give it a couple weeks and if i havent seen him at the club or if he hasnt called me, then leave a message, and leave it at that. I just wish i wasnt left so clueless. We never established anything and now i wish we had. I never knew how to bring it up though. Did he like me? Was i just a good hot fuck? What were his intentions? i didnt know how to ask or approach the suject i figured it would unwind for itself. And now I'm left hanging and frustrated...

....as far as getting saggy skin when older, im really trying not to get a tattoo on my tummy or maybe my lower hips as well as i want kids someday and i know the tatts are prone to stretch!

I find tattoos VERY sexy! I have two of my own, both very thought out and have meanings, and plan to get more. I even enjoy men with tattoos (the most attractive boy ive ever been involved with has a full arm sleeve, a stomach tattoo [both similar to Ville Vallo of HIM] as well as three neck tattoos (prob not the best placement for someone his age but sexy all the same) so most tattoos are a big turn on for me. Its your body and you have the right to place body art on it as much as you want to. I wouldnt want to be with a man if he had a problem with my tattoos or was turned off my them. I take great pride in my body artwork. It really just depends on the man wheather or not he will like tattoos or not. I really wouldnt worry about it too much. Your sleeve sounds so pretty, will you be posting a picture of the finished work?

So there is this boy. I've had an infatuation/lust for this boy for almost a year after we met and made out at the club back in Janurary. We would always have breif conversations and give each other hugs when we came across each other at the club, but never mentioned or iniated making out again. Then, a couple months ago he asked me to dance and we ended up making out the whole night. Two weeks later I hung out as his place and we had amazing sex. For the next two weekends I came over to his house and we hung out and ended up having more hot sex. I know that this boy is known to get around a little, so I expected this to be a casual thing, even though we never established wheater we were just going to be friends with benefits, or something. And its odd cause the first night I stayed at his house he seemed to have interest in me. He was calling me baby, and cuddling with me and even stroking my face, kissing me goodnight and holding me as we slept, moves i was not expecting from him! I played along a little, but not too much knowing he was probably just saying and doing those kind gestures to be sweet. He was the same way the next week. He even was talking about going to my place sometime after the club so we could hang out. (he lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so i was always going to his place. he gets rides from friends on occasion to go clubbing out in my city.) I told him he was invited to place anytime *wink wink* Now, the last time I went to his house, which was two weeks ago, he seemed a little distant. We hung out in his basement listening to music and having some shots when he told me about his ex girfriend possibly being pregnant. He was really pissed about the whole thing and so we talked about it a little more and went onto different subjects and then went back to his room, started watching tv, and then had sex. During the night he never tried to cuddle with me or anything and unfortunatly we didnt have sex in the morning either. He was nice the next day though and I hung out with him for a few hours and we played video games and just had a simple fun time. I left in the early afternoon, he gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye, told me to call him later, and left me on my way. Two days later I call him to see if he was able to get a ride out to the club. He was the one who told me to call him after all. I dont leave a message but let it ring 3 times (4th time answering machine comes on) he has caller ID that he checks so he'd mostly likly know i had called, and probably call me back. Nothing. A could more days later I decided to leave a message "Hey just seeing how you are doing, ill try and talk to you later, bye" Nothing. Ive called his house a coulple more times through out the last two weeks, always spacing my calls 2-3 days apart not wanting to seem nagging or something, never leaving messages btw. I'm thinking that because his ex is probably preg that he just doesnt want anything to do with anybody right now, one reason why i think he was distant, but im really trying to not make excuses. I'm trying to convince myself that i was probably just another hot friend of his that he got to fuck and since im old news, he is off to get fresh meat. I dont know. I just want some answers. I want to be able to tell him "Hey its ok if you just want to have no-strings-attched sex with me!!" cause maybe if he really did stood me up he did so cause thinks im going to get attched, but i wont. hes the SEXIEST MAN EVER , but i dont like him. Lust is not like. The sex was AMAZING and since im not with anybody and dont want to be with anybody, it would be great to have a casual thing. On a side note, this is the first time Ive had casual sex with a guy. Ive been sexual with one other guy casually, but didnt have sex with him, i just wanted you to know that this isnt something i usually do. and of course i made him wear a condom So what should I do?? Should a try to keep getting a hold of him, maybe even leave one more message? Or should I wait for him to come around and call me? He might never call though, i dont know! Who knows he might be at the club tomorrow night but i have no way of knowing. I might be going out to his area in the next week, would it be ok to show up at the club that he works at to see if he is there? Please, waht should I do? ~MK p.s. ive missed this site and all of you! not having access to a more private computer has made it hard for me to come on here