MystryKitten

With what Mikayla and Tygur said, get a piercing only for YOU. It wont feel as specal if you just get it for someone else. I would NOT recommend the clit piercing. I heard its really painful, and there is a possiblity that you can loose your sensitivity/feeling. I have a navel piercing, and i love it. Although Iam thin, the lady that did mine was heavy set and her navel ring looked GREAT on her! Also, dont just go with any random piercing place you happen to find in a book. Research the places, (yahoo local has reviews) and call them up and talk to someone. Professional is KEY! I called up this one plae to ask how much nose piercings are. Who ever the heck answered was awful!! ME: "Hi, I was just wondering how much your nose piercings cost?" her: "Huh?" Me; "(repeat my question)" her: "hold on" me: (waits 3 min) her: "50" MAJOR SUCKAGE and UNPROFESSIONAL. Hope this helps!

Maybe only right after sex, lol. I always wear panties. I always have a flow of vag secretions and have to wear pantiliners everyday or else they would just end up all over my legs. blah!

KY WARMING sucks ass!!! During sex I sometimes have to apply more, and because of all the 'friction' the KY warming BURNEDDDD my coochy to hell and we usually had to stop

yes yes yes. im going to try all these tips soon, AND try swallowing for the first time to. maybe this will all make me enjoy giving oral. my SO definatly needs it.

LOL i know, sounds silly... but its the only solution i can think of ! >< no i dont have wireless, but i can think of a few positions where it wouldnt get it the way so much.

thank you!!! i think i have a better understanding now.

What defines a sexual person? I always thought I was a sexual person because I love to watch people kissing, and have dozens of photos/ads of them. I even get really turned on by it, espically two guys kissing. I enjoy masturbating, and I think the human body is a beautiful thing, male or female. I like to dress up sexy and I think going to adult stores are fun and exciting. BUT I recently think that I might not be so 'sexual' because I cant get off by someone just licking my tits or kissing my neck. I don't really like day time sex because I feel it has no privacy. I dont care about being naked in front of my SO, I guess i just feel overexposed. I dont get turned on by giving a blow job, and so on. Does any of this really matter? Or is it to each their own??

I have no idea. He just said he has to have music on low, and it has to be no words, and such. I will definatly have to talk to him more about it though, cause I hate the silence! My idea of the iPod would seem to solve the problem, but I'd much rather he enjoy it to.

Last night i was talking with my SO and I told him we should play some good music while having sex. I've masturbated very well to some good beat music, thusting whatever I was using to get me off onto my clit, along with the beats of the music. I LOVE IT! Since I've started having sex less then a year ago, I really wanted to try putting on some tunes while having sex. I have a few songs that I want to compose into a "Sex Mix" like Beyonce's 'Hip Hop Star' ooooo that song makes me wanna mooooove with the BEAT! BUT as I was talking about my mix, he told me he cant have any words in the music, and it cant be strong music or else he'll get distracted from sex. WHAT??!! Noooooooooo! So I suppose there is no changing his mind. (I was thinking of just using my Ipod while having sex, so I can have what I want, and he can have silence) But what I really wanted to know is what most couples prefer. No music? Slow music? Music with sounds? ~MK

well i suppose they do but anyways since ive read almost all of these entries and talked to a friend. ..... im thinking about giving it a shot soon...

Im afraid to swallow. Its just SUPRISING! It gushes into your mouth. I dont really mind the taste, but its also werid to think of swallowing cum. Doenst seem natural. I dont ask him to swallow my vaginal jucies! (which i know he doesnt) So when he cums, i let it fall onto him.

Do the ben-wa balls, or any sex toy ball, work if you've never been able to have a g-spot orgasm?

I had recently introduced to him my new vibrator the other day and we were laughing and fooling around and I go, "Ooooo better watch out or I'll use one of my vibrators on you!" "Huh, I thought only girls could use vibrators..." "What? Hell no, guys can definatly use them to! I've herd so many good stories on my adult site (too timid of course!) about guys who loveeeee vibrators like on their balls for example when they are geting a blowjob!" "I mean I knew some guys liked getting it up their ass, but I'm not doing that! But I guess the balls thing would work." So I really want to try a vibrator on him! Any tips?? I have the basic silver vibrator from here so I was thinking of using that. Do guys prefer faster or slower vibrations on their balls? And I'm sure a guy can get off using a vibrator on his penis right?...but maybe they just prefer a bj with the vibe on their balls? What about the rhythum...rubbing it or going in circles...? Let me know what works the BEST! I want to do something naughty and new for my S.O.! ~MK

OMG I just got this toy last week at a local sex shop, lol! Mine was purple, and it works GREAT! Its more powerful then you all think, and it is QUIET, my boyfriend even agress =] I did get an orgasm, and tried to get another one about 2minutes later, but it was working, so I think I didnt wait long enough between the first and second as sometimes your clit gets numb from the constant vibrations, just as a tip. And I didnt know the top could come off, YAY new vibrations to try soon! The size is great because you can carry it around decretly and it doesnt turn on easily either. Recommended for a first time toy and to add some clit rubbing during sex! ~MK

the lotion is what probably set off the razor burn! I would put it on right after drying off in the shower I didnt put it on all the time though, so maybe the fact that im not using aloe strip razors plays a part to! i supose i wasnt paying attention to the little details. thanks for the help guys and girls! ill let you know if the tips improve it. ~MK

So I've been happily shaving down there for about two months. I never liked shaving down there, but my bf told me it would be sexy if I did, and I've liked it ever since! (deff makes oral better!) ANYWAYS no matter what, Im always getting razor burn, or the pores bleed a little bit. I've read the shaving article, and I dont see what I'm doing wrong. I never use a dull razor, I shave about every 2-4 days, I use either Choohcy shave creme, shave gel, or conditionor all depending whats in the shower at the time. I stroke with the hair to trim it down a bit, and then shave against it to make it smooth. I know this is what causes the burn because it slightly 'burns' as I shave up, but I have to shave against the hair in order to make it silky smoooooth. My bf says that my skin just needs to get used to shaving down there, but I think its been long enough! I haven't tried waxing yet, I suppose this would be best, but I know it can be pricy. I would try a home wax kit but I know that its not really recommended. Any suggestions?? thanks! ~MK

You'll know when your ready to have sex. You can FEEL it...you WANT it. Your nervous, but you know that who ever you are losing it to will go SLOW, go at YOUR pace, and be very GENTLE, make you feel SAFE. Also, NOT pressure you EVER. If he doesnt not match these, I really suggest you dont do it. Its so much better to get 'sexual' with someone who LOVES YOUR BODY and YOU because it boosts your confidence and makes you feel secure. I'm not saying you have to be in love with someone to have sex or get sexual, but for you firsts times especially it best to do it with someone you love and who loves you. ~MK

FurtureET: It took me about a good month and a half to learn to relax my vagina muscles in order to enjoy sex. Tensing up not only hurt me, but it also hurt my mans manhood. Practise trying to relax those muscles completely. A lot of times I would take deep breaths and think I was relaxed, but my vagina was still tight! You might want to practise with a basic insertatble sex toy. Another thing that helped me learn to relax is when my man and I made love, sometimes he would slip out, and when he put his penis back it, it just SLID right back in! I was simply afraid of the first inital insertion, but if his penis fell out, it could easily go back in. Also, as far as lube goes, dont use warming lube! We did, and when it ran out I got really dry (sometimes I wouldnt notice for a minute or so) and the friction of sex tore a bit at my skin and we'd apply more lube and it BURNED so bad we had to stop having sex....try 'Wet original' lube, its a gel, non warming, and lasts a good amount of time. I really hope this helps! ~MK

FurtureET: It took me about a good month and a half to learn to relax my vagina muscles in order to enjoy sex. Tensing up not only hurt me, but it also hurt my mans manhood. Practise trying to relax those muscles completely. A lot of times I would take deep breaths and think I was relaxed, but my vagina was still tight! You might want to practise with a basic insertatble sex toy. Another thing that helped me learn to relax is when my man and I made love, sometimes he would slip out, and when he put his penis back it, it just SLID right back in! I was simply afraid of the first inital insertion, but if his penis fell out, it could easily go back in. Also, as far as lube goes, dont use warming lube! We did, and when it ran out I got really dry (sometimes I wouldnt notice for a minute or so) and the friction of sex tore a bit at my skin and we'd apply more lube and it BURNED so bad we had to stop having sex....try 'Wet original' lube, its a gel, non warming, and lasts a good amount of time.

I never liked shaving everything off because I felt childess, but my SO told me a few weeks ago he thinks its sexy when there is no hair down there so I've been shaving ever since. (deff improves oral!) I still get razor burn though, even though I use coochy, but I think its because I havent gotten the technique down correctly. I shave one area too much to get it 100% smooth and then bumps appear I think it just takes your body a little while to get used to shaving it *shrugs* About the hair in between the butt cheaks, I recommend trimming the hair if its really long, then apply shaving cream, and squat in the shower to allow your cheaks to open and shave away! This works best for me

Check out the 'Dual Bullet' Its waterproof, purple, multispeed, and lights up! There are lots of reviews on it to.

Try not to consentrate too hard! Relax, take deep breaths, and just let the orgasm come to you! I find that if I consentrate too hard to reach orgasm, it just wont happen. It takes me a while to orgasm to, sometimes its just takes longer then we would like. Make sure your hubby does the best he can to get you to orgam, tease you, give you oral, maybe you can even tell him to rub you 'faster' or 'slower' while he is giving you a hand job. As what Keith said, toys do help and can help you reach orgasm faster! I've been able to reach orgasm in under 5min with a toy! On the nights when it is taking me forever to orgasm, my SO will start out with a hand job and end with oral which really gets me going! Relax, take your time, and explore the possiblilies. Have fun =] ~MK

I went on eBay and entered in 'clit' just to see what came up and there was really cheap good looking clit jewerly on there =]

This guy is NO GOOD! What kind of boyfriend is he to treat you like that? My boyfriend has NEVER put me down by comparing me to other lovers, thats just mean! A man who does this is shelfish and rude! You deserve better! Like krazikris said, FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU, AND LOVES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. good luck, and you CAN find someone better. please give us an update if anything new happens. ~MK

It really depends on the person weather or not they gain weight. Although I've never personaly been on the pill, I've been on the patch and now Im on the ring and have never gained weight, and I've been on BC since February. Another side effect for birth conrtol is also loosing a few pounds as well. But once again, it really depends on the person. I suggest you visit this link, they really give good information on the pill.... http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-con...ol/the-pill.htm hope this helps a little!