chloegirl

PERFECTION!!!

Hairy back....sorry, just can't handle the caveman thing. And yes I'm gonna say it although I will probably be stoned for it....a miniscule penis! Not saying we need huge, but it's hard to work up that hot hunger for a little "finger". Also....a guy who acts like your body and fluids are "dirty".....they want YOU to get them off fast but make you feel like they are literally forcing themselves and doing a big favor to dirty thier hands. Like ReadytoMoveOne said, biggest turn-off is someone who can't get into it, show enthusiam, passion, and total open-mindedness to experiencing and enjoying every moment and sensation.

The best thing about nipple clamps is the arousal you get from the taboo nature of wearing them as well as how hot they look. If you get some connected with a chain, http://www.tootimid.com/alligator-nipple-clamps.html that little tug by your partner having control is incredibly arousing! I always worry about keeping them on too long as they turn your nipples blue lol. But the best part is when you remove them and have them soothed! I've tried this set that Tootimid sells as well. http://www.tootimid.com/vibrating-triple-super-suck-hers.html They have little vibrators attached and the cups are held on by a small hand pump (one for your clit too). Have to admit, the first time I tried that one I almost jumped off the bed as I pumped it up too much too fast and I was NOT ready for that intense vacuum suction! Play around with it though and it's interesting sensation play. All good occasional fun but nothing beats plain old human contact and stimulation!

mmmmm leather! corsets, ball stretchers, and crops oh my!

Hi Ladylove! Yes it's been awhile and I see there have been alot of changes in alot of people's lives I need to catch up on. It's good to see you still active here and keeping things interesting!

Boy am I out of the loop! What happened to your website? They've taken your page and turned it into a shopping site!

So how hot does the idea of sexual play or actual full on sexual encounters outdoors like hiking trails, picnic tables, scenic overlooks, outdoor pools or hot tubs and decks/patios, actually driving down the road, doing each other by hand under the table in a remote corner of a dark public place, etc. get you? Would you? (hell yeah!!!) Have you? (I'm not dead yet! )

Ok I'm going to ask a couple of tough questions and please don't get offended.. I am in no way insinuating that this is you but I'm just throwing this out there because I know that sometimes these issues may be present and can be one of the reasons for what's going on. 1. You said you are working a couple of part time jobs but that you are a stay at home dad. Are you having financial difficulties? With the economy as bad as it is alot of people have been hit hard and if she's feeling a pinch there, maybe she is feeling ambivilant about you not working full time. Not to be offensive, but if things are really strained this might be causing her to feel alot of unexpressed anger and resentment towards you, lack of respect, etc. She knows that you are doing alot at home but in tough times she may feel that you're not pulling as much as she is and be holding that against you...that will kill desire for sure. 2. How has the sex been in the past truthfully? Was it hot and fulfilling, sensual and erotic for BOTH of you? Not to assume anything but there are alot of cases where the guy gets his rocks off and as long as she wasn't complaining just assumed that she was thrilled with the encounter as well, when guess what....it may not have even gotten her to the halfway mark. (no this is not necessarily the guy's fault - there are other issues there that would have to be worked out) But for whatever reason if she was not able to express the disatisfaction and just kept on with the status flo as time goes on you guessed it.....she doesn't see any point or have any desire for sex with you because she's not getting anything out of it. Now I'm not trying to start any blame games or man bashing here....I'm just trying to point out another couple of reasons that might be the culprit if not in your case, then is someone else's. Whatever happens I wish you the best of luck

honey I hate to break it to you but some of them just never will get it! There's just some kind of mental block there or something and all the love, all the communication, all the whatever anyone tells you to try just isn't going to make any difference. They either are into it or they're not. And don't blame yourself....these kinds of guys could be with the hottest porn star or model on earth and their response and ability would still be the same. It's their issue not yours. Now I'm not saying not to try all these things...you guys are still young so never say never....but if you've given it all you've got and he still doesn't come around I strongly advise you to Run Forrest Run!!!! A lifetime of that shit will break you!

Good answer Sunday! After many years you can feel more sure about it but even when you know that they do.....when you hear the words several times everyday or they do their little daily routines to help out or you know where they are and what they are doing and who they are with every day, when you know you can count on them, when you "love" and care about their welfare too, when you don't want to hurt the other one...but if that "in love" spark is not there, if there is no passion, if there is never any physical heat between you, no mutual pleasure, if it's all one sided...well you can have that same type of "love" for friends and aquaintances as well....that is NOT enough to sustain a healthy marriage....That's when each individual has to decide if they are willing to live and settle for that comfortable platonic love or if they have to have more. And no it does NOT make you selfish to want and expect it all!!! Without it what's the point?

AMEN!!! Everything in Mikayla's response in spot on! Don't let time go by without working this out to your satisfaction.

Hey I'm up for anything but for this to be hot it has to be done the right way....... sexy stupid _________________________________________ Would you let a same sex as you friend watch your partner masturbate (with you there of course)?

In addition to everything else posted above I suggest you also explore, read, and expose yourself to all sorts of websites, forums, stories, videos, etc. to let yourself become more attuned to the fact that everyone has the same thoughts, fantasies, and desires that you have and not only is it ok and normal but it is healthy, positive, and hot and will keep you young and empower you in ways you never would have imagined. Reading, seeing, hearing about their thoughts and experiences will slowly help to open you up and let that wall of toxic past indoctrination crumble. You're on your way! Just make up your mind to leave that repression behind and don't worry about being judged! Good luck!

In many cases the testosterone blood levels show up as normal...heart and blood pressure meds and any damage that may have built up from those problems is often the culprit for ED and maybe longterm anxiety over that type of performance problem leads to the loss of libido. I personally believe that 90% of it is your personal mental attitude. I mean you can get around the erection difficulties IF you don't let the worry of that interfere with your desire and open-ness to fully explore and enjoy all the other ways to enjoy, give, and experience erotic pleasure. If you're not careful you can unconsciously short- circuit and kill your sexuality. Same thing with women who have body image hang-ups....it's that mental spectatoring and negative image that is your enemy. Then again, some people just do NOT have a high sex drive regardless of age, gender or health....alas for their partners who do!

Don't you just love the way you feel after a good hard "O"?.....all limp and boneless and relaxed....laying there in that dimension halfway between concious and unconciousness, nothing but the feel and thoughts of total of bliss for that little space of time!

very cute Suzy! Dazzle 'em!

lol! True, but it depends on the service!

add cost to that list....at around $10 a pop if he's got a lifetime habit of get it once and be done is it really worth it?

hehe....can't argue with that....my favorite toy is red!

Don't let too much time go by. You have both got to put 100% into working to resolve this. If you're not careful it will become the norm for you and you don't want to live your life like that. I wonder what the statistics are of how many people stay in marriages with unsatisfying sex lives?

It's very cute! Harness your inner dominatrix and have a blast!

LMAO!!!! That is soooo true! And while I agree with you guys about the upkeep, fake glamour, etc...I will also admit that I can't get into watching any of it, especially the amature clips with unattractive (for the sake of political correctness I will refrain from listing all the other negative physical aspects that I don't want to see) people in them. I will admit that if I'm going to look at any of this stuff (and it's all just fantasy anyway) I want a halfway pretty picture or else I'll just use my own imagination thank you.

It's not a problem with his driving....it's his total lack of patience....he gets so bent out of shape over the traffic that any trip is just stressed and unpleasant....granted I despise the idiots who get in the left lane and don't move fast enough to keep it open too but getting all riled up is NOT going to change anything. chill!

When the women use those fake high pitched baby voices....it makes them sound so f-ing stupid and I can't stand stupid and helpless women...it automatically cancels any eroticism that might have been invoked because it grosses me out that bad...usually end up turning the volume off.

See that's how I am....I think they look so cute on the tiny, tight-assed models you see but when I wear them I feel like too much of my booty is hanging out and they feel like they are riding up....If my ass is going to be hanging out I just like the way it looks and feels better in the thongs though I do have quiet a collection of the lacy boy shorts too and am always buying some other cute pair, they mostly just stay in the drawer. Matter of fact it has come to my attention that my lingerie collection has reached ridiculous proportions - I mean how many bra/panty sets, nighties, corsets and garters can you possibly wear? ...I could open my own store! This addiction has GOT to stop!