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I've done it in a tent, in the woods , in the backseat of my car, in the backseat of my other car, in his truck(the cab), the back of his truck (left hellacious bruises on my back), on our patio late at night when the neighbors were asleep (or at least we hope), In the swimming pool,On a gravel road, In the front seat of my car, on the hood of my car, oh hell let's just say all over my car except on top, (which gives me a naughty idea lol). I love outside sex but I do have to say that since we have started a family (meaning children) all that has calmed down tremendously....but oh how good it was.

I agree with everyone else. Trust your gut. Don't accuse until you have evidence Have you actually gotten on the websites that he has been to and seen anything that he has been doing or found anyone he has been talking to? Most sights have a last login date or a posting date. Try looking for those. There is also a history in your computer of web pages visited. I don't know what kind of commitment the two of you have but with all do respect, you said you If you're upset about him being on there what exactly caused you to go there in the first place? Was it because of your suspicions, to check up on him, or simple curiousity? Also, if it says on the web page that he had been there within the last week, then he has. These people aren't going to go through the profiles and say hey let's say this guy logged on just for the hell of it. As far as the being married for 32 years. If you've recently divorced after that long...don't push to fall in love with someone or try to find the familiar feeling your obviously once happy marriage offered you. WOW.32 years is a very long time to be married. I admire you for that because I know it isn't easy. Don't take crap off of one guy when there are lots who would love you and love being with you. My husband has had affairs before and so I know how it hurts and how crazy it can make you. What I am trying to say is this: You decide on what you want. What you are willing to tolerate. And How far you are willing to go. But DON'T think that because you were with someone for 32 years that no one else out there is capable of making you happy or loving you. You only live once. Try what makes you happy. Once I read a book by Sir Francis Bacon. I've always remembered this comment. "The Secret to happiness in love is not finding the perfect man for one does not exsist. The secret is in finding one whose faults you can tolerate and loving him without end" Good luck with this. PM me if you'd like to talk.

Glad to hear things are looking up. Don't hit the brakes, don't tap the accelerator. Just go with the flow. Follow your heart. Sometimes a little space is good. If you feel that rut coming on again, think back to this time. Maybe it's just having someone she can talk to whom she trusts and who knows the both of you. I would suggest that if you want to continue the relationship in a productive manner, surround yourself with positive people. The last thing you need is your best buds constantly telling you to "get out". In the end, you make your choices. Keep your friends close to your heart as well, but take everything anyone says as a grain of salt and not as something that is carved in stone. Everyone here is rooting for you and wish you and your wife the most passioniate love filled nights of a lifetime! Happy Valentine's Day to the both of you!

I think it has more to do with the man's level of security in how he presents himself. Like once, A guy I dated for awhile was a first responder, EMT, part time cop in some little town with about 600 people, and also was in the National guard. First, I was SO attracted to him for the uniform, the power, for his attractiveness, etc...and he was very well endowed. But in the end, I had a hard time being sexually aroused with or by him because he was constanty going on and on and on about himself 23 hours a day. (I think he slept an hour a day minus the 45 seconds of sex). lol. Mechanics are good because they are not afraid to jump in there and tear that shit up only to put it back together again...part of a joke I heard once but all the same, very true. So to sum it up. Uniforms and self esteem are my biggest turn ons in a man. But without the tremendous ego. Firefighters- thier bravery turns me on. They are running in while everyone else is running out.

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No No No. I am NOT offended by any of the pics. I'm just saying that DB should not have taken her pic down but MAYBE she is saying "I don't want people to call me a hypocrite". That would be my reason for removing one in the way that she did because she had a really good pic. DB: IF you are listening, don't you see how much everyone MISSES your pic? Jackthetoolman: THIS IS WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY. IF YOU DON'T WANT to see the guy's pic stop looking for him! And I am Bi-curious but honey, I love dick too. (But yes GENE's DOES SCARE ME)What is all this fighting for? This site is SO not about this! Read other posts. Read articles. People come on'. You know Rob, maybe the best thing to do is to delete the thing before anyone else ends up getting hurt over it and let the guy know hey, we would appreciate it if you didn't do this here or like I said before set up a page for the hardcore porn. BUT PLEASE do something! This is like a bad wreck. You know you shouldn't look, but you can't help yourself. (I was referring to the conversational post and Gene's whopper cock.)

Try meeting someone online for the stranger part. There are websites specifically for this such as adultfriendfinder.com and another lady said she found someone on another online dating site. I know what you mean by wanting a stranger, but let me forewarn you as I have learned in a very short time that no one is going to be the stranger you envision. You will have to have a conversation with her at some point though not knowing you or her I cannot say to what extent that will be. As will your bf. But be careful of who you do invite into your home this day and age anything could happen. As for the STD's. Trust no one. Protect yourself fully and compassioniately as well as your bf. If you haven't read Mikayla's article on "Is a threesome really a good idea" I would strongly suggest it. Take some time to read up on others "aftermath" stories before you jump in is all I can say. Good luck!

Too many of the same shots true. The comments were not something I expected of the site. True. Question: Had it been a woman with a really big pussy, or really big breasts, or a really big clit, would you want them down? I know it sounds gross and entertaining to a point. When I read, "naked in my studio" and saw, pics of sexy naked men, I knew I was going to see someone naked when I clicked the link. The only true offense I see in this is comments that were mad and what he did to DB. And I don't think she should have removed her pics either but the thing is maybe she is making a statement to all of us NOT to be hypocrytes. Mikayla is so right when she says pics of women are more accepted. What I would like to see if any are real pics of real people. (Men and Women.) But even so, I think it needs it's own place as I said before.Because even though at times I may like to see it, I still don't want it thrown in my face. I do think his motives were wrong and without good taste (perhaps he was on the wrong site or on the wrong thread for sure. But think about this. Some men, when they come across a site like this, they immediately get horny and think they have found a "Great fuck site". I think had someone in authority PM'd him and said hey, not here. Then he could have stopped before it got that far.I think that eventually when they do learn more about the site and it's members if they don't get what they put out for, they leave. I have done lots of searching and I can tell everyone that you will not easily find another site such as this where you can learn comfortably. I have NEVER been SO impressed with a website before and I think a lot of people feel the same. I like to come here with my questions about threesomes and blowjobs and fantasies. I'm with Rob. Don't let one or two bad apples spoil the bunch.But in the same think about this: In a few weeks if not before, the "worm" will be the last thing on our minds...but I bet we all tell a friend, I saw the biggest cock on this website called Too Timid...So Rob, Chad, Whoever the owners here are, ask yourself if that's something you want to hear? Thus is your decision. I love your site and I think you have a great team here. Hard Core Porn is a wonderful thing for those who like it, as long as it is in it's own place.And not on pinned on someone else's personal thread.

Rachel McAdams from the notebook

This is Too Timid right? I don't know if hard core porn should be okay or not. I mean, would anyone have been offended if it was his ass instead of his really big Cock? Has the staff thought of creating a page for things like that where people who want to view it can but with guidelines of course such as no advertising or soliciting members for sex? The only two things I see really wrong here are 1. The way everyone was treating one another... 2. The thing never should have been pinned to dirtyblonde's thread. Did he actually intend to? I would hope not especially if he made her feel uncomfortable with the words and the pics. Just my opinion.

Sounds good to me. Your rules were a lot like mine. A lot. You should read some of the posts and comments I've gotten. Maybe it'll give you an idea of what you are in for. Mikayla wrote an article about this that is very good too if you haven't read it I would strongly suggest you do so and don't be afraid to ask any questions. You may not like some of the responses but at least it lets you view the Whole picture and not only your side. Also. I was shocked when I read that about the condoms. What if the girl coming poked a hole in one with a needle? It'll probably never happen but that's not to say it couldn't. This day and time it's better to be responsible and to take care of your own safety instead of leaving it up to someone else. Let us know how it goes if you want. I know I for one would love to hear because me and my hubby have been discussing one as well. Good luck and best of wishes.

First of all I don't know about everyone else but I have never seen a dick THAT big. I would be scared to suck it or fuck it for fear of choking. But it is yours nonetheless and men are preoccupied with size. But it's not the size of the equipment that counts (with me at least) it's knowing how to use it. I am new here too and I can't believe everyone is being so mean to eachother. (PLEASE DON"T START ON ME FOR SAYING THIS). We are all people and for me, this is the one place where we can come and express our desires. Hooking up...Have you tried myspace? Great place it is for that as well as many other things. I do believe in God and will not argue or debate anything about that. Only you should remember, that somewhere, somehow, someone or something did create that whopper of a dick you are advertising. As for the romancing. In a threesome, I don't look to fall in love. I look for a sexual experience but that is my opinion in the matter.My desires. My wants. Not all women (maybe the majority) are looking to be romanced for sex. I get that from my husband and don't want it from anyone but him. As adults I would hope that we would all have learned by now to be sensitive to others feelings but that's one of the online risks in forums. Sometimes you run up on people who get off on being mean to others. I am not on anyone's side. I saw his dick.Was shocked. Life moves on and I am doing just that. And ya know...this is an educational site right? Damn, I never knew such a huge cock exsisted until now. In the same, as I said...RESPECT. We all should try a little more. Then who knows how much sex we all could have!

It has been hard hearing some of the things everyone posted but I asked for it and I got it. Someone commented on why research it if you really wanna do it. Let me say after searching you would be suprised at exactly how many do. That is a small portion of the reason for this site in my opinion. In which I love the site btw. Yes, he cheated. Most if not all men do at some point and time. Example, maybe they don't cheat on you, but perhaps they cheated on someone before you came along. Does that then make them a cheater for life? NO. And I don't believe he is either though in all honesty yes, sometimes I do wonder IF it will EVER happen again. (Mostly when I am fantasizing) . If he's going to cheat he's going to cheat and if not, then not. I cannot control him nor do I want to. I am in love with him and he with me. We all have problems in our relationships but most of us choose not to flaunt our "dirty" little secrets to the public as I have. But I did that so that you would understand my fear of him wanting another woman just as much as my desire of wanting a threesome. And it's true, I couldn't handle him moaning a loud deep moan while his cock was stuck in her tight little pussy, or her ass for that matter and for that I am waiting to be sure it is what I want.(Another thing I learned by coming here thanks to all who gave feedback) He is supportive either way.There are many other things we can do and try but I was just curious as to if anyone had any experiences that brought about the same excitement as a threesome, and I did learn some things there too. (Thanks Mikayla) Everyone keeps saying, He's already cheated on you are you crazy? Don't you see the red flags? Well see, that's the thing, I threw the red flag up-not him. The threesome was totally my idea though yes we both are turned on by the idea. (And Tyger thanks for reminding me he is on my side because I had almost forgot with all the negative postings lol). The truth is, I don't know when or if it will happen. IF it does, it will happen because we all want it to, but there will be rules in play and boundaries. One more thing I want to clear up. I know I can't control who we like or don't like. Forgive me. I didn't mean to come across that way. I told him that IF we do it with a woman the only way that I could handle it is if he and she were not friends afterward or before. Acquaintances but nothing too close thus no emotional ties. And don't say that cannot be done because I do have a Very good friend who had a threesome years ago who had a FFM threesome and it went exactly like that. She (the third) went for a party among the three. They talked. Laughed. Cut up. But it was made clear that the girl was the one to be satisfied from the get go. Everything went fine. The couple did eventually split but not due to the threesome they had but another after where the third was actually a very good mutual friend of the couple. It was a mess. Another thing is "the familiar". That is things that are personal that should in MY opinion be shared between the couple such as kissing, slow heartfelt love making where much eye contact is made, cumming inside her, and yes on her though the latter didn't bother me too much only just enough. Protection would definately be a must. I like what Mikayla says in her article about not using the same hand on each woman. I want fun. Not death or doctor bills afterward. Come' on now.The only thing is that I don't want it to be someone I will have to face everyday or ever again for that matter. Which is why the local wasn't too appealing to me as well as fear of the aftermath. Much to my suprise he was okay with that and he also said after a talk about the postings that if I didn't want him to do anything he wouldn't but he wanted to watch. To me that seems more like a girl on girl thing but for now, it's only conversation, fantasy, lust, and desires. A good thing I realize. The team here is wonderful. I have never been so impressed with a website like this where you can get some REAL advice and so many opinions. There's an old saying, "Can a leapord change his spots? "IF I can do it, ANYONE can, my hubby included. I too had an affair once when I was married to my first husband but have never not once cheated on my hubby now and I would not. Yes I have fantasies but who doesn't at some time in life?(Okay so mine are a little freaky) I am a nurse at a local hospital and one night a young lady came in with pelvic pain. Upon the exam, the doctor pulled out M&M's. See, everyone has desires, but as you all have said, maybe some are better left as they were. lol. Thank you all so much. I'm still horny as hell but you've made me stretch my imagination just a little bit further. Mikayla, Tyger, your input was truly helpful and very informative. Everyone else, I took what you said serious and used it too to make my decision to hold off on this for a little while. I got lots of great tips and information through this. The only thing I didn't see was a lot of people sharing thier OWN experiences , (There were a couple and I GREATLY appreciated those, they were the most helpful). Anyhow, I've rambled on and on and I just wanted to say all that I said as well as Thanks to each and everyone who did take time to share even if it was very hard to hear at times. So that everyone knows, my decision is made. We are putting it on the back burner for now until a time when everything feels just right. If that time never comes then whatever, if it does, I'll let ya know how it went.... I wish passioniate love filled nights to each of you! P.S. Could you tell them not to sound the fourth alarm????lol just kidding. So many alarms went off I thought there was another Tornado on the way. And in a way I suppose there was but let's just say....it's taken a different path. See ya when the next one starts forming!

It has been hard hearing some of the things everyone posted but I asked for it and I got it. Someone commented on why research it if you really wanna do it. Let me say after searching you would be suprised at exactly how many do. That is a small portion of the reason for this site in my opinion. In which I love the site btw. Yes, he cheated. Most if not all men do at some point and time. Example, maybe they don't cheat on you, but perhaps they cheated on someone before you came along. Does that then make them a cheater for life? NO. And I don't believe he is either though in all honesty yes, sometimes I do wonder IF it will EVER happen again. (Mostly when I am fantasizing) . If he's going to cheat he's going to cheat and if not, then not. I cannot control him nor do I want to. I am in love with him and he with me. We all have problems in our relationships but most of us choose not to flaunt our "dirty" little secrets to the public as I have. But I did that so that you would understand my fear of him wanting another woman just as much as my desire of wanting a threesome. And it's true, I couldn't handle him moaning a loud deep moan while his cock was stuck in her tight little pussy, or her ass for that matter and for that I am waiting to be sure it is what I want.(Another thing I learned by coming here thanks to all who gave feedback) He is supportive either way.There are many other things we can do and try but I was just curious as to if anyone had any experiences that brought about the same excitement as a threesome, and I did learn some things there too. (Thanks Mikayla) Everyone keeps saying, He's already cheated on you are you crazy? Don't you see the red flags? Well see, that's the thing, I threw the red flag up-not him. The threesome was totally my idea though yes we both are turned on by the idea. (And Tyger thanks for reminding me he is on my side because I had almost forgot with all the negative postings lol). The truth is, I don't know when or if it will happen. IF it does, it will happen because we all want it to, but there will be rules in play and boundaries. One more thing I want to clear up. I know I can't control who we like or don't like. Forgive me. I didn't mean to come across that way. I told him that IF we do it with a woman the only way that I could handle it is if he and she were not friends afterward or before. Acquaintances but nothing too close thus no emotional ties. And don't say that cannot be done because I do have a Very good friend who had a threesome years ago who had a FFM threesome and it went exactly like that. She (the third) went for a party among the three. They talked. Laughed. Cut up. But it was made clear that the girl was the one to be satisfied from the get go. Everything went fine. The couple did eventually split but not due to the threesome they had but another after where the third was actually a very good mutual friend of the couple. It was a mess. Another thing is "the familiar". That is things that are personal that should in MY opinion be shared between the couple such as kissing, slow heartfelt love making where much eye contact is made, cumming inside her, and yes on her though the latter didn't bother me too much only just enough. Protection would definately be a must. I like what Mikayla says in her article about not using the same hand on each woman. I want fun. Not death or doctor bills afterward. Come' on now.The only thing is that I don't want it to be someone I will have to face everyday or ever again for that matter. Which is why the local wasn't too appealing to me as well as fear of the aftermath. Much to my suprise he was okay with that and he also said after a talk about the postings that if I didn't want him to do anything he wouldn't but he wanted to watch. To me that seems more like a girl on girl thing but for now, it's only conversation, fantasy, lust, and desires. A good thing I realize. The team here is wonderful. I have never been so impressed with a website like this where you can get some REAL advice and so many opinions. There's an old saying, "Can a leapord change his spots? "IF I can do it, ANYONE can, my hubby included. I too had an affair once when I was married to my first husband but have never not once cheated on my hubby now and I would not. Yes I have fantasies but who doesn't at some time in life?(Okay so mine are a little freaky) I am a nurse at a local hospital and one night a young lady came in with pelvic pain. Upon the exam, the doctor pulled out M&M's. See, everyone has desires, but as you all have said, maybe some are better left as they were. lol. Thank you all so much. I'm still horny as hell but you've made me stretch my imagination just a little bit further. Mikayla, Tyger, your input was truly helpful and very informative. Everyone else, I took what you said serious and used it too to make my decision to hold off on this for a little while. I got lots of great tips and information through this. The only thing I didn't see was a lot of people sharing thier OWN experiences , (There were a couple and I GREATLY appreciated those, they were the most helpful). Anyhow, I've rambled on and on and I just wanted to say all that I said as well as Thanks to each and everyone who did take time to share even if it was very hard to hear at times. So that everyone knows, my decision is made. We are putting it on the back burner for now until a time when everything feels just right. If that time never comes then whatever, if it does, I'll let ya know how it went.... I wish passioniate love filled nights to each of you! P.S. Could you tell them not to sound the fourth alarm????lol just kidding. So many alarms went off I thought there was another Tornado on the way. And in a way I suppose there was but let's just say....it's taken a different path. See ya when the next one starts forming!

It's like if I can live with the affairs he had alone and know some (though definately not all) of the details of those affairs, then why would it be so hard or different to live with a threesome that had boundaries and rules such as no kissing her, no cumming in or on her, and after a good talk with a friend, I even reconsider the degree of penetration if at all. I think I am definately going to re-think this whole thing.I want a new experience. Spice if you will But too much spice can ruin the whole pot. So Maybe a threesome isn't exactly the thing for now.

I read your article when I first came to the site and I absolutely loved it. I told my hubby to read it before we did this and it has made me think alot harder about it. Is there anywhere on the site where you give actual detail about one of your ffm threesomes? I would really like to read one from someone who has been there and knows everything about it. Also, what type of relationship should you have to be successful in a threesome based on your experience? After the first time, were you insecure? Just wondering. As I said in all other posts, we haven't done it yet and I am very curious. And thanks for the article and for taking the time to give so much input. I am so thankful you are here to talk to about this.THANK YOU!!!!!!

Well, I didn't put that much into it until I did a little research on people who have actually done it and now I am scared .lol. But I am thinking a lot more about taking it slowly if at all. Is it normal to feel this way your first time? I would feel more comfortable with a woman but question whether it should be a first timer like myself or someone experienced.

I know exactly what you mean.

Thanks. We'll give it a try this weekend.

We have not had one yet but are discussing it very seriously. He doesn't mind it with a girl but absolutely refuses a guy ever. He says that he cannot stand to see me with another man which I respect. He has had affairs in the past (about 1 1/2 years ago). I want a threesome. But I risk the chance of losing my relationship at the same time. That seems to be a huge issue surrounding this. The words aftermath scare me when put next to threesome. Really. Is there a responsible way to do this? Or is there some alternative to this scenario perhaps that I am overlooking? We are making a trip this weekend to the sex store to get some items. I suggested we try first with a pocket pussy or a blow up doll. He said it wouldn't be the same and refused. So I know he wants a real girl if we are to do this. I promise you I want him to satisfy her but in the same after reading about some people's experience I am scared that I too will feel insecure afterward. He says we don't have to do it if I am not comfortable and we do have trust now after ten years together. (I think after he cheated on me something in me changed and I realized that if he wasn't "in love" with her or "dating" her then it was only sex, right? I just don't know. The more I get into this, the more questions I have.

So you think this should remain fantasy? I can see your point very much so. I think if we do this then it will have to be with a girl who is like me, looking for the experience of a threesome but who has her own man or whatever to go home to. I know lots of friends who have had threesomes and lost thier marriage because of it. So for those of you who have done this then my question is How did you feel the first time? Were you scared? Had your relationship had problems or suffered any prior to and how did it affect it afterward? I know that each situation is different and I am doing my research on this before I just "Jump" in. I wish it were as easy as what I thought it were. I am very sexual and would like to try lots of things, this being one. At the same time, I don't want my fantasies to ruin the relationship as was suggested, not that it has been"perfect". We've been together a very long time and we do have kids. We have survived worse than this is my opinion. Still, that is why I made the original post. Are we crossing a bridge that's gonna crumble later or that's going to grow stronger over time? After reading your post, I am scared but in the same I really appreciate the honesty. What are other things we could try that would give us new pleasures such as this? As I said in the first post, this is also a desire of mine. But I also realize that some fantasies are better left unlived. As does he.

We go to bed and I begin caressing his cock which is semi hard. Within seconds it's up. To tease him, I move my hand to his upper leg barely touching his cock and his balls as I move my hand up and down along his inner thigh. He sucks my titties.I love the way he licks my nipples. I can't resist and begin stroking his cock with long, semi hard strokes. He sucks harder on my titties and bites my nipple just enough to call my attention. As the seconds pass they feel like hours. My pussy is hot and dripping. I can't take it anymore and I climb on top. I strattle him, opening my legs wide so he can see his big dick going in and out of my hot dripping wet pussy. He sees it and moans. It encourages me and I bare down just a little bit harder. He wants to cumm and so he throws me off and he begins to lick my pussy. He grabs my clit between his fingers in some way, gives them a mild twist and begins to finger me. This drives me crazy. He's licking and fingering. Then he sticks his dick up my ass and fingers me while I masterbate. Turn this way he says and the next thing you know he is banging me from behind. His big thick dick is going deep into my pussy. I feel when he pulls it out. I know. He's going to stick it up my ass. I wait. I feel when he puts a small mount of lube. Then I feel it thrusting me. It hurts. But it feels so damned good. I am screaming "Fuck me and harder and oh yeah" and moaning high pitched moans. Then we stop again. And this time he does me from the side. I massage my clit in a rapid manner. He's got his finger up my ass again. I'm calling his name as I cumm all over his dick. Now it's his turn. I give him a little nudge and he falls backward. I climb on top opening my legs again. My pussy is wetter now and still throbbing from the orgasm. He plays with my clit and I feel his cock growing harder and harder. I know he's about to cumm. I slow down. I want it to last. I turn around but stay on top and put my ass facing him. I begin to ride. Slow first. Then faster. Harder. Baring down more with each move. Then he sticks his finger up my ass again. I fuck his dick and his hand. It feels good. As he cumms his entire body stiffens up and he screams uncontrollably. I'm selfish. I want all the cumm. I keep pumping that dick until it's all out. Then I suck it and lick the cumm off as my hubby tries to calm down his rapid pulse. We cuddle. We caress eachother. And go to sleep in one another's arms.