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Separating sex and love can be difficult for some people. It gets more complicated when there is a close relationship or a relationship where the two people have been close and are now separated. Old feelings arise and take hold. For others sex is sex, is sex. And love is something very different. Each person has their own journey to discover what is right for them. Sex as play can be fun. Sex with connection can be warm. Sex with love can be comforting. Of course there is so much more in can be in each case. Personally I prefer sex with a connection. It feels more satisfying for me. Does this mean love? Not necessarily. It also isn’t sex for the sake of sex. I would love to be in love. Until then....

Welcome to the forum. Enjoy, have fun.

Welcome. I hope you enjoy.

Take a look at Wickedtemptations.com, yandy.com both have some fun pieces. There are hundreds of sites that have fun clothing. If you want something without spending a lot look at cheapundies.com. The stock there is ever changing and when it’s gone it’s gone.

I would begin with a water based lube. Stakpy away from anything that says warming. Until you know how a lube reacts to you. Astroglide is popular and not bad. Uberlube is a good brand. KY is the most well known and promoted. Flavored lubes can have some adverse effects for some people. Again I would avoid flavored lube to begin with. Silicone based labs will last a bit longer but are not recommended for use with toys or condom for the most part. Personally I like uberlube. It is smooth, silky and seems to be well tolerated by most people.

Being shy is common. At the same time if you wish to be with another woman then you will need to put yourself in places where you have a likelihood of meeting like minded people. Now having said this I know that there are gay women who would be offended that you only want them for an experience or occasion sex. I have a few friends that have that stance. Other women that are bi/gay/flexible may be open to this experience with you. Those who participate in the Lifestyle can be more open to a same sex encounter. The other thing to try is casually turning a conversation to sexual things and gage responses. Sometimes that is a a great way to find someone to play with.

Trauma can have a powerfully bad effect on the connection to orgasm. For all of you that have had trauma, my deepest compassion and empathy I have for you. Orgasm is something that is dependent on your connection to your body. Having a partner that is focused on your pleasure and creates an environment of trust, warmth, eroticism, and comfort is helpful for many. Being connect to your arousal and having a partner connected to your arousal is helpful. It helps to lead into orgasm with forplay that begins days before sex not minutes before. Tap the connection to lust and desire. Be playful and tease with sensuous touches. Allow your mind to focus on the sexy. There is no one way to achieve orgasm.

Sex without oral would be a shame. I love performing oral sex on my partner. I love her response to my tongue, my lips, my breath. I adore the taste and texture of her. I am there to worship her, to please her and to be her lover. For her to perform oral on me is a gift that I receive with honor and lust.

First a weekend in the city. I’d begin with an elegant dinner at a restaurant. Then a play or live show would follow. I’d have planned a hotel with a room with a view, balcony and some wonderful wine. We would enjoy each other on the balcony before moving to the bed for continued play. I would have set up the room prior to arriving, so toys, honey dust and other things to touch the erotic would be waiting as we arrive. The next weekend would be a cabin in the woods on a clear lake where we could swim naked, make love under the sun or the stars. We could cuddle up in big quilts to ward off the cold as we fulfill our sexiest desires.

Ahh Yes! Drink it in, seek more, let it linger and fill every sense...

I like cream! I can swirl it on my tongue. 😃😈😃😈😃😈

Dinner will be ready as soon as you get home. Pie, yum! Hot, hot hot.... 😃😃😃😃

Thank you. 😀😀😀😀

I heard her drive up. As she walked in the door she kicked off her shoes and wandered barefoot to the kitchen. Earlier we had talked and I knew it was a rough day for her. I was finishing the last touches of her favorite comfort food, lasagna, before popping it in the oven. She rounded the corner just in time to see me bend over as I slid the dish onto the top rack of the oven. “Well that is a sight!” She exclaimed, seeing my ass up in the air. Before I could slide the dish fully into the oven she ran over and smacked my bare buns, laughing. You guessed it I was cooking naked again. She spun and took a seat on the bar stool at the island and smiled at the sight. My hands in oven mits and everything else open to the wind. “Continue on.” She laughed. I walked up to her and brushed a loose strand of hair from her face before kissing her with all the liar and desire I had. She pulled me close. Her hands racked down my back. I felt her nails scratching my skin. I knew there would be marks. Our embrace had my arousal growing and it was evident in front of me. “Come here!” She whispered as sexy as could ever be as she grabbed my ass with one hand and wrapped her other hand around my now hard shaft. Stroking me she kissed my neck and chest on her way to licking my left nipple. There was an instant response in her hand. The throbbing told her she was into something. Releasing me for a moment she pulled her skirt up, tossed her panties aside and opened her blouse reveling her ample breasts. “Fill me NOW!” She commanded as she guided my hot shaft to her opening. She was wet with desire and it was seeping onto the bar stool. Slowly I filled her. She raised her right leg for me to go deeper. The angle was just right for an upward thrust, hitting the Spot to make her scream and moan. She dug her nails into my ass and back as she directed each thrust. “Harder, fuck me harder.” She wasn’t begging. Her commands drive me to the brink. Each thrust rocked the barstool back on two legs, threatening to slide out from under us. “More, fuck me deep. I want to....I need to cum!” Grabbing her ass I lifted her to me. Her juices were flowing down my leg and creating a puddle on the floor. She began to scream. I felt her climax. My shaft was held tight in her as she rode wave after wave. Just then the timer began to beep. Dinner was ready. She pushed me away. “You better get that!” She said as she removed the rest of her clothes. The look in her eye told me the rest of dinner was going to be very interesting. My heavy cock bounced as I carefully removed the hot dish from the oven. Taking a quick glance over my shoulder I nearly dropped the dish. She positioned herself, legs spread wide and two finger thrust deep in to her soft folds. “This will be dessert.” She said holding her dripping wet fingers in front of my face. “Now go set the table so we can eat.” She commanded. I knew as she enjoyed her lasagna I would be seated on the floor between her legs enjoying something very different.....

I understand the feeling. I have to agree with michelledd, tell him what you need, desire, and want. Sometimes that’s all it takes. If he doesn’t know it already, give your self to him as a gift. Maybe write a little fantasy of what you are so he has an idea of how to treat you.

Smoking tobacco, or anything else lack of humor lack of kindness My 3 turnoffs.

There is much to learn and much good from many people here. Welcome

Having been here for a very long time, I have seen many people post once and never again. Others are active for a month or two and never again. Some of us long timers are here for many reasons that go far beyond sex. But, I agree the one and done crowd does seem a bit strange.

Greeting, welcome to the fold. That is a nice set of plugs. It is good to have a place of like minded people, sexy positive people, and dip in people.

I will tell you that you are just right! Beautiful body.

Hello and welcome aboard. If you are willing to do more with your wife then do bothbod you a favor and start talking about your interests, desires and pleasure. Your last statement is a bit confusing, “that I am even gay.” If you are not gay then she will know that clearly. Be you, be bold and assertive. You may be very surprised at the pleasure you find.

Thanks for the story. It’s great to see someone with imagination, fantasy and willing to arouse us readers.

Welcome to the forum. It sounds like you are on a new adventure. I hope it bring you all the pleasure you seek.

Beautiful! I love the tan lines.

It’s football Saturday! She came into my houses decked out in the team colors, sexy as could be, Pom pons in her hands and her hair in a ponytail swinging back and forth. I couldn’t help but laugh with joy. One thing I loved about here was her willingness to be silly and play dress up. She bounced over to me and kissed my cheek whispering “more later.” I grabbed her and threw her on the couch next to me. She giggled. “We are watching the game today, right?” She said as I straddled her hips and leaned in for a kiss. As much as I would like to watch the game I more liked playing the Pamela with her. She pushed mo off and told me to “be good, and you’ll get more later.” I playfully pouted and took her hand as she searched the TV channels for the game. Finding the station she jumped from the couch and skipped to the kitchen. What was she up to I thought and went to follow her. Turning the corner I was given the look of if you know what is good for you you better not come in here. I know enough to leave her be when that occurs. i left her be and went back to the living room. The game always starting and I called out to her. She tells me she will be there in a minute. I settle in for kick off. Two minutes later she rounds the corner with a tray of food, but now only dressed in a football jersey. Turning to set the tray down she reveals a similar color thong. She spies me looking and gives her hips a little shake. “You drive me crazy.” I tell her. She laughs and tells me to watch the game. Our team scores! She kisses me and asks: “Would you like to score?” She kneels befor me and pulls my pants off. She slides up between my legs, kissing my thighs as she does so. I have lost interest in the game. She reaches in to my briefs and frees me. In one swift move she has me trapped between her lips. A roar emits from the TV, another score for our team. She sucks and lick, another score for me. As she sucks and licks I note she has her hand between her legs, stroking her jewel. I can hear how wet she is. She begins to feed me her nectar off Her fingers. As I feel a climax nearing she releases me and straddles my hips taking me deep in her. A roar emits again on TV, a new score for them and for me. She writhes on me, thrashing back and forth. She grinds down hard, bouncing on the shaft of mine filling her. I reach up to play with her nipples. She responds with moans and cries of intense pleasure. “I’m cuming, i’m cuming.” She begins to yell. We thrust harder. Climax takes her. A roar from the TV emits again. We just scored!