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I will second the glass vote. I suggest playing with temperature, hot and cold. It is quite the sensation.

It is never to late to seek help. There are some very skilled professionals working in sexuality that can help. I can empathize with the plight of being in a relationship where your partner doesn’t want sex or has turned off that part of life. I have been there. The relationship ended after a couple years. Masturbation became my only release during that time. I don’t think I could have done that for 11 years. I am too sexual of a person. But, obviously you have a bond with your partner that goes beyond sex. Maybe it is time to have a talk about what other options are open for both of you. I will offer a word of caution. Even within your own home, I’d you are in sight of others as you self pleasure you can be arrested and possibly convicted of a crime if someone sees you and is offended by your action. All it takes is a simple call to police. Almost every state in America has a charge on the book of indecent exposure and “lude behavior.” I get the excitement of possibly being caught, but it is not worth the consequences.

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You are not the first woman or last woman to find pleasure from a breast pump. Body’s have their own sensations and desires. Stimulating a typically sensitive spot can and will have effects. The guilt you may experience is only that which you carry. It doesn’t have to be that way. You can have pleasure and atnother times be completely focused on being a mother. If you can separate the two good for you. Like any other device (tens unit, clothespins, spatula, etc) there can be multiple uses for the item at hand. The only thing that I would suggest is that you pay attention to your own comfort level and then use the pump or not as fits with you and your comfort.

I couldn’t agree more! Having someone that knows you and your fantasies and whom you trust is wonderful. That can be supercharged sex!

Too big or too small depends on your body and preference. For some people 1.5 is too big, while others it is too small. There is only one real way to know what is too big. Try it out and see how you feel. Enjoy yourself. I’ve also known some people were there are times when a particular size is too big and other time where it is just right and still other time when it is not big enough. It may depend on arousal level.

Personally, I need connection to have mind blowing sex. I know many that have sex without connection and have much fun. That is great for them. But if I want a Real intense mind blowing time, I require connection.

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Biggest turn on intelligence, confidence and joy. Then the physical aspects come next. For physical aspects I have to say a nice firm ass is great, long black hair is always a turn on, and tiny tan lines complete the package.

I see yourdelema and your pain. The disturbing part is you not feeling respected. If that is the case then I would also suggest you do the best thing for yourself, move on away from him. Trust yourself and know that you are worth the respect you are asking for.

Just because you enjoy anal play and like to be pegged, that doesn’t mean you are bi or gay. It means you like the pleasurable feelings from that activity. For some women, pegging is something that they have not been exposed to. That may make it more difficult for them to understand why you find it so enjoyable. Usually with some talk and comfort, if you have a partner who wants to pleasure you, the woman in your life is likely to at the very least give pegging a go.

Given your history it makes sense that your view and experience of pornography is objectionable. I am glad to see that your husband is respectful of you and your feelings. May you continue to grow within yourself and become the person you wish to be.

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While reducing masturbation may help your partner’s ability to reach orgasm, it may not solve the puzzle. For some men age has a component to the ability to achieve orgasm. I would suggest you both focus on pleasure and enjoyment. If he is focused on orgasm it may have a negative impact for achieving the grand climax. While edging play is fun, if you are playing this way he may experience the inability to achieve climax, in the traditional manner. There may be a need for more foreplay, or dirty talk, or seduction. Taking about what feels good, what you both would like and about how to excite each other may be a great path to getting what you both desire.

The right time is a matter of personal perspective. There is no magic age to get married. Rather the magic is in how the two of you feel and fit together. I’ve seen couples marry at 18 yrs old and have 50+ year marriages and other couples marry in there 20’s, 30’s and 40’s and only stay together a few years. If you love without limits this other person and she loves without limits, it is the right time.

Not being able to achieve orgasm without additional stimulation is a fairly common experience for many women. Intercourse alone may not provide you with enough stimulation to allow you the release you desire. You can try positions that provide for more clitoral stimulation’s, such as being on top I’d a prone or somewhat prone position. You may want to possibly use a vibrating cocking during intercourse for additional stimulation. Maybe it would be easier to achieve orgasm during intercourse if you experienced an orgasm prior to penetrative sex. Finding a position that you both enjoy and achieves orgasm without the use of vibration or additional stimulation can be an exploration. However it sounds like it will, for you, need to involve more direct contact and manipulation of pelvic to pelvic contact.

Yes, an over abundance of stress can decrease the pleasure of even prevent orgasm for some people.

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Sorry. I help here, there are other things to consider. As long as you are drugged, in many places that voids consent and the person you are interacting with could be violating the law. While fantasy is great, sometacting out a particular fantasy may be not as great or have other consequences. Just be careful and take all into consideration before moving to fast.

I like a good booty in net. Thanks for the view.

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Very nice!

Being shaved or trimmed is indeed a personal preference. I started shaving when I was racing. I've kept it up since then. I like the feel and the look. I have gotten many positive remarks over the years about my smooth legs and more.

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