sun_flower969

I like the funny story idea, I guess because I have a great one! Also the oddest place you've "done it" is a good one...

What do you GUYS think?????

I think sexiness comes from within and eminates from you naturally if you have it. Showing a little, hiding a little, leaving something to the imagination. A raised eyebrow, a knowing look. A secret smile you know what I mean? Being fun and or making people laugh. Being sexy cant be forced or fake. The sexiest people walk around without even knowing it or trying! Oh yeah and a hot pair of stilettos helps... LOL

Mine is 4 years younger also... He always teases me about being older... He loves it. Little shit! He is also jealous of this male multiple orgasm thing... maybe we will get workin' on it!!!

UP HIS! Seriously... sorry a sore subject

Wow... do you have it right now??? LOL just kidding!!!

WHEW!!! HOT HOT HOT and a little scary... But mostly hot! Scary hot, the kind of hot that makes you go, "no way" But I know it's true. Does your Husband get bothered at all by your reminiscing? Mine would DIE!

Yeah, back in the day. I had sex with 2 brothers. (not at the same time...) They had very different technique but very similar large uncircumcised penises... I dont know what else to say, I was a bad girl.

What do you SO's think? It is an avenue that you don't like to travel or is it cool with you? I wonder what the general consensus is... I have mixed feelings. My husband is reluctant but there have been times that we just cant help ourselves. We used a towel and limited what we did in particular. We have definitely learned how to make it work if we are in the mood but there have been times that I was so grossed out afterward I swore I wouldn't do it again and then we do... Check out the song "Down to the Old Pub Instead" on this Stephen Lynch page. I almost peed myself laughing! http://www.myspace.com/stephenlynchsongs C'mon you HAVE to listen to the song!

yes I have one too obsessed with it also! it is http://www.myspace.com/sun_flower969

I read that and my blood started boiling... Yes My H cheated. about a year ago and for about 5-6 months.We are still recovering. There is NO WAY in hell it was my fault. We are so active it is crazy. It was all him. She came on to him, offered him sexual favors and "no strings attached". He had never had anyone pursue him like this so he was really drawn to her. Then she turned psycho and all he wanted was to get away from her. He thought I would never take him back if I knew the truth. The truth is, he was insecure about his lack of sexual conquests. (he had only been with one other girl before me, he was 21 when we got married). He thought he would experience something he hadn't. (He sure did... Heart wrenching pain and sadness over what he did to me and our family and can never take it back) I could go on with endless details but that's enough I think. It is a sad sad thing, I am actually crying thinking about it... Although our sex life has never been better. I guess the affair made us both realize what we have and how much we love and can't live without each other. MY fault? NO fucking way!!!

sorry I guess I posted 2X I dont know how to delete it!

UGH!! don't ya hate that! It's like starting over! makes for a great build up though. Giving: I LOVE LOVE LOVE to give him oral I have gotten really good at it I must say after all these years. I love hearing him moan and groan. How he tells me he loves my lips, tongue how deep it is etc mmm. He loses control. Afterward he tells me how great it was and a couple times he said he couldn't catch his breath because it was so good. Weird because I didn't really have a lot of experience with this before we were married. I just wish I could swallow, that is the only thing. He says he doesn't care at all but what a pain in the ass. Having to run and get a tissue or whatever while trying not to gag. Getting: OK I have to be very aroused or I also (like eminatic) am sensitive and can't handle it if it's "too soon". Sucking the clit, also if it is too soon OUCH! Right at the end though OOOOOHHHHH BABY! I love when he goes slow, uses his tongue and fingers and most recently my new vibe . In the past, I would get bugged if he got "off track" you know like lost the spot. Now I just help him get back there.

My husband has indicated throughout our marriage that he wants to video us... especially recently. He will say see honey if we videoed this we could watch it tomorrow, how awesome would that be! I am mixed about it though for these reasons: 1. What if someone finds and watches it! 2. I am insecure about my body, I am afraid that I will see myself (facial expressions, fat etc) and be horrified, never wanting to have sex again. 3. What if someone finds and watches it! LOL Any thoughts?

LMFAO! I just pictured his penis with like a puff of smoke HA HA HA firing dust... That's good...

My sentiments exactly... I mean I love my husband and God forbid if something were to happen to him I would stick by him no matter what. I believe my love is stronger than that. That is the only reason for me though. I have friends who only have sex like monthly, give or take. I see them as miserable, bickering all the time, lacking affection and not in love, in some ways, like they used to be. It's like something inside of them died. My H and I always hold hands, in Public and just sitting on the couch etc... It isn't about being "dirty or perverted" it is about intimacy and love. Enjoy each other! It is vital for a relationship. I refuse to let mine die!!!

My Husband had a vasectomy. Yesterday marked 7 days since he had it done. He has been VERY nervous about his genitals since. Any pain or discomfort would freak him out. I, on the other hand have been chewing my arm off wanting him to hurry up and heal so we can get BUSY! So anyway after 7 days he was saying how he was feeling better but still not 100%. I said look, I know you are afraid but you have to try it out and see how it goes. We don't have to have intercourse but I could treat you to some very slow and gentle attention. Just think of it as physical therapy (LMAO, I love my joke) He laughed and said OK. So we started out on the couch. it got hot and heavy very quickly he still seemed nervous to grind into me but I was so aroused I was almost beyond control. We went into the bedroom and I proceeded to give him oral, very slowly, very gently. He was so hard! I was perfectly willing to finish him off but he said, honey, I want to watch you... Now this is something new. He has always had a fantasy of watching me pleasure myself but I was too self conscious. Lately though I have been really letting go. I had mentioned a couple days before how I had masturbated using 2 toys. One vaginally one externally on and around my clit. This is what he wanted to see. I guess he had been thinking about it... So I said well how 'bout you help me out first. So he obliged by kissing me, my breasts and then thrusted 3 fingers in my pussy. I was surprised how aroused I was because I came within minutes and like 3 times. Then I said, hey I didn't expect that. so then came the toys. I have a jelly one and a g spot one that is a little too long. So I slid the jelly vibe in and started stroking myself with the other. WHOA! He was so turned on, Baby you are so sexy, he said, then I could feel his very hard penis against my inner thigh. He was stroking himself too. I told him I could feel him. then I said I want you to cum on me. I was completely GONE. He was like oh yeah is that what you want you naughty girl? I will cum all over you. Yeah, I said, cum on me. Then he did, I felt it on my thigh then I felt it trickle down toward my ass and I lost control. I came like 3-4 more times like a freakin' rocket! I had NEVER been this turned on in my life! It was awesome and he felt the same way! And then the next day (today) my 4 year old had a 104 degree temp, YIKES! She ended up with pneumonia. I was trying to keep it sexy for later tonight but life sure is crazy with 3 kids! We just roll with whatever and try every chance we can to make time for us! This is my crazy reality.

Funny I was wondering about this myself! Any info would be appreciated! Also check out this place... I am going for my birthday in Sept. http://www.adventuresuites.com/jacuzzi-adv...uites.php?uid=7 That is a king sized round swing bed! Should be interesting!!! I cant wait!

Is it possible that you may be a little post partum? However, trust your instincts! I know sometimes you may feel like you are going crazy but 9 times out of 10 our women's intuition is right. Do whatever you have to to find out the facts. Yeah and the porn thing.... I totally agree! You do need to talk to him though and tell him all you are feeling. Don't feel bad and don't let him patronize you. Talk until you feel better...

I have to say that I have a different view of porn than most that I have read here. I think you have to be careful that it doesn't become an addiction. This is a very real epidemic!!! Which is the case is some individuals. I do not think anyone NEEDS to have it. I think you can be more than satisfied with just each other. Porn can complicate a relationship and bring up all kinds of insecurities. There is also the issue of objectifying women. In some it can also lead to acting out and infidelity. (I know this from experience ) I do know some couples who watch together and enjoy it. I guess if you are in a relationship where you enjoy it together and it is something that doesn't creep into your everyday life it's OK. My personal experience is that I do find it very erotic, arousing etc but I rarely view any because I have a lot of resentment toward it. NO judgment to all of you who love it though!!! Sorry to be a downer. I am not a prude or anything TRUST ME! I just have been through a lot.

Hi there, You responded to me now I am doing the same. I have to say I probably can relate to your wife (and Vanilla Bean) I was also in a similar situation for most of my early 20's. I have wicked (yeah I'm from MA) low self esteem and it is really hard for me to take compliments. I used to have a hard time reaching orgasm as well. My husband recently has been literally sitting me down and telling me everything he loves about me. It helps and is something that has helped me lose my inhibitions. You have been married for 10 years so she must trust you. See if you can get her to let her guard down, a couple glasses of wine maybe if she likes that or whatever else you may enjoy . Try seducing her. make a whole day of it. Start in the morning with a love note or maybe some sexy emails about how you have been thinking about her. It is her self image that is holding her back. She can't let go because she is afraid or embarrassed. If you can make her feel like the most desired most beautiful woman in the world things could change. Just be PATIENT and keep trying. I was sort of the same way about oral. If he tried to go down, most of the time, I would stop him and be like "oh no honey it's OK" but one time he didn't listen, he pushed my hands away and he went down and did not come up until I really had the greatest orgasm. I swear since then things have been different. even made me want to head "south" myself! LOL Just tell her how much you want her etc. It's hard if you aren't used to talking about this stuff but little by little you will get there. Thank you BTW for your reply on my post. Our marriage has been for the most part great but believe me it is not perfect! Have you considered counseling? Scary I know but for some people it really helps.

HELLO! My first post... I am a married mom of 3 little ones having the best sex of my life, I didn't think it was possible but it is all happening so fast now. I experienced G-spot and multiple orgasms for the first time recently. When I was younger I always had difficulty reaching orgasm. I was insecure and thought I was dysfunctional. I definitely am a believer of women peaking in their thirties. All of our married friends think we are freaks. Most of them have sex between 1-4X per month while we are always between 3-5X per WEEK (and even more sometimes)!!! We don't really use toys much but not opposed to them. I am just looking for new ideas and people who I can relate with.