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I am not married but I have watched it with a male partner. It’s fun sometimes .

I think it’s fine. Some cultures expect you to be married by your 20’s. If you’re happy and it feels right, it’s your choice.

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Every time I get intimate. A sex session without me giving oral is a waste of time. Giving oral is the highlight to me.

I have discovered that large and wide penises hurt me, even though some people say that a woman’s vagina can accommodate anything. Average sized fits fits me better. I don’t mind small either. I agree with wanabig. Pain is no fun

I am sorry that this is rough. I have been in the same boat where my drive is higher than the guy! It sucks to not want to dump him bc he’s a good guy. I wonder is he stressed or depressed about something? It might have nothing to do with you. Maybe ask him what turns him on right now.

I was just thinking how I miss growing up in the 1990’s, when the definition of gay/lesbian was clear and simple. I think some people now these days in 2018 make it a bit too complicated. All of these complicated definitions don’t help each person.

Thanks for the reply, tyger. Being reminded that only we know who we are helps a lot.

Hmm I like the ones I get at restaurants. I wonder how the haagen daaz tastes?

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Thanks! Sorry, I had to vent. I am all good now.

I just want to vent about this. If I try to explain this situation, I HATE when people try to suggest that I may like women again. No thanks.

He does see me as a very classy lady, so it may have been confusing to him that I revealed this.

A bad attitude. You’re out to hook up with someone and they say something mean, without even realizing that they’re asshole-like.

I have known some drunk people who didn’t speak the truth. They would say stupid things that they later realized was false. I have been drunk and said things that I didn’t mean. Everybody is different though. Maybe some people do speak the truth when drunk. Sorry youre feeling bad.

I have a question for others. Would you say that an emotional connection can still be different from falling in love? I experienced emotional attraction to former sex partners, but I wasn’t in love with them. Falling in love to me is something on a very different level. I may have kept my guard up with certain sex partners.

True. Someone can like it after they try it. I will try that. He did have a big smile on his face after I asked him to face-fuck me and I swallowed him. His last girlfriend wasn’t into giving him blowjobs.

I think it’s hot and amazing.

How did it feel for you when you gave her one?

Thanks. I was put off too, but wasn’t sure if I was being too sensitive.

I told my boyfriend (who I have known for awhile, we started out as friends) that I like getting facials. I was hesitant to tell him, since he told me that he’s a conservative man from a traditional family. He told me recently that he doesn’t like facials that much. I asked him why. He’s not sure. But, he has been open to trying new things that I introduced to him. He did say he would be okay with ejaculating on other parts of my body. I want to respect people’s boundaries and not want to be pushy. Do you think he might be open to giving facials? Or should I let it go? I can live without them, but I don’t know if I should close this door just yet. We are a fairly new couple. I woild love love to hear from any men on the forum. What if you weren’t into something and your woman wanted to try it?

Damn, this motivates me to save more fore retirement.

I agree. It doesn’t increase sexual attraction, when a man asks a woman that. I understand if you dated me for eight months and sensed some “prudish behavior”, but one date doesn’t tell you much.

Months ago, I had a first dinner date with a young man in his 20’s (I am in my 30’s). We had a decent time with dinner and drinks. I wore a nice red dress with boots during the winter. The next day, he texts me saying, “are you a prude, because you strike me as one?” . I asked him why, and he said it’s bc I wasn’t acting slutty. I told him that you can be in between slutty and prude. He said “yeah.” I decided not to continue for a second date. I didn’t like how someone jumped to such a conclusion, with no evidence. It doesn’t make sense to me to say that a woman is a prude when you barely know her. What would you think or feel if someone asked you that? I am dating a wonderful person now, who never once asked me that. None of guys I have dated over the years have asked that question. Ha, it’s a quirky story.

I am now in a wonderful relationship with a nice man, and this reply makes a lot of sense now. My man is the best Piv sex partner I have had in my life, because it’s so easy to allow him inside of me. I want him inside of me, since I respect him so much. I still like giving oral the best, but it’s amazing how the right person can do so much for your body’s arousal! I don’t even need lube or long foreplay with my man.