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I agree with the other ladies. If you didn't have it lubed up enough, you could just have a small friction burn. Since you're not used to feeling any sort of abrasion back there, it could just feel a lot worse than it actually is. Tell your man what's happened. It's a bit embarrassing, but if he knows that maybe he was a bit too rough, or didn't lube up enough then you guys can actually end up enjoying it long after you are fully healed. Personally I would never hide anything like that from my man. I would fear having to break it to him when he's all hot-and-bothered and wanting more, more than I would worry about being embarrassed. If that man is worth your time, he will be sympathetic about what has happened. If you really think you need, go see a doctor.

I got this one from the DVD of the month club. I have to admit when I opened the mailer I was a bit scared about the content of the movie. The cover picture is of a girl sitting on a public toilet. That coupled with the title and the first thing I thought was "Oh please don't be something really disgusting like the one I threw away years ago." The one I threw away years ago had a mood killer packed right into the middle of it. Ladies DO NOT put a cock in your mouth after it's been in anyone's ass. This is how dysentery and other harmful diseases are spread, and for DH and I it was total turn off. We actually sat there with our mouths hanging open in disbelief. Although I was expecting the worst from this video, it turns out that it's not really as filthy as described. It's simply a collection of girls each featured doing something to themselves in a private room, and then some random guy getting sent in to take care of her. No plot, just sex and LOTS of sex. Sex, sex, and more sex. The audio was a bit muffled for some of the girls' sessions but the camera angles leave nothing to be desired. It's very in your face sex. If you don't like having to fast forward through boring plots because you just want to get to the fucking then this is a movie for you. Did I mention the sex?

This reminds me so much of Sex And The City where Samantha meets that great guy and falls head over heels in love and then when they finally do it, he's not worth dirtying up the sheets. Whether it's TV or real life I just want to cry for you ladies that go through that. Wait a minute? I was one of them.

I swear I'm going to have to start keeping a journal of all the cool tricks I'm learning from this place. DH is in so much trouble when he comes home in 4 months. I will have been studying aaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllll that time just to please him - and me.

My worst? An ex-fiance of mine from waaaaaaay back when. I always like to make the joke that if God asked me to decide to do away with either penetration or oral sex, that I'd do away with penetration. I am the girl that got to live that way for a while and you know what? It was hell on earth. I think the guy actually had something wrong with him. He was 37 and had NO control over his ejaculation. He was literally "gone in 60 seconds." He couldn't even reach a full erection and he would cum within seconds of entering me - if he even did enter me. It was so damn small that I could NOT feel it. When he would finish so quickly he would always say things like "Damn you have me so sensitive that I can't control it" or "You're so hot that it makes me cum just thinking about being with you." Ummm... I know I'm hot, so what's your next excuse? (I never said that BTW) Well after being with the guy for over a year, he never learned to control it. It was always the same. And gentlemen? I don't lie to my husband about his manhood. I'm quite happy with that thing just the way it is. I just don't get to play with it as often as I'd like, but when I do, he knows how much I appreciate his huge cock.

I've been doing a lot of writing since my husband deployed. I've got a bit of pent up sexual energy that I need to get rid of and this is how I do it (well this and some alone time ). After I'm done writing, I send the stories to my husband, because he loves reading stories that I make up about us. I don't know if he'll be getting this one or not because I'm stuck building a story around it. I hope you enjoy reading as much as I enjoy writing. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- He’s been secretly admiring his wife’s sweet ass for years now. When she walks by him in a short nightie, and a bit of ass hangs out, he gets a devilish grin at the thought of what he’d like to do with her ass. He doesn’t want to hurt her. He just wants to show her how much he appreciates her shapely figure and that beautiful ass. He’s never been too sure how she would react if he asked her about it, so he’s kept it to himself all these years, but when he plays with his cock sometimes he thinks about that sweet ass of hers. He envisions himself getting behind her and pouring lube all over her hole and slathering it onto his cock as she puts her ass high up in the air for him. Oh what he wouldn’t do to dive deep inside that forbidden place and make his fantasy come true. Too his surprise, she rewarded him for his silent suffering. Shortly before he left for this deployment they were having a rather tender session of love making when she asked him to put his cock in her ass. She asked him if she could control the tempo so it wouldn’t hurt, and he agreed. He didn’t care which one of them would be doing the pumping because he wanted to blow his load on her back just thinking about getting in that sweet ass. He swears that this woman is more connected to him than he actually realizes. How did she know that he’s waited for this from the day that he first had her? It’s as if she knew he was suffering and was on the edge of exploding and she finally allowed him a chance to relieve his ache. The reward for his suffering was even sweeter than he had imagined. Her ass was tight and ready for him, and her entire body was shaking as she started to ride his massive cock. He watched in amazement as he slid in and out of her pretty little ass. His eyes grew bigger every time her ass swallowed him down entirely. She controlled the speed of the pumping by rocking back and forth into his well lubed cock. The more she went on, the shorter and harder her thrusts became. He realized that her cries were becoming more intense as she pumped away at him. He couldn’t believe that this was finally happening and that she was enjoying it. He started to feel his entire body tingling and then it happened. With the power of a volcano she came. She cried in ecstasy as cum poured out of her. Her cries were so glorious even though they sounded like pain. He could not resist the beauty of it all and he succumbed to her. He screamed out with her as they came together. Their cries of pleasure were entwined in a melody that only a fortunate few have heard before. They moaned with pleasure at the power of this new kind of orgasm. He gently pulled out of her and they fell together onto the bed while still panting from their workout. Their juices ran out of them as they basked in the after glow of a powerful eruption. He kissed her softly on the forehead and looked her in the eyes as he said “I love you.” She responded with a smile and said “WOW, that was amazing. We both came so hard together.” He smiled with a satisfaction that only a man who loves a woman like her truly knows. She’s full of surprises and that is part of her charming appeal.

I was so upset when this place went "down" (giggles like a little girl). No really, I was bored to tears last night and was thinking about doing some reading and maybe trying out chat and I couldn't! Waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh! Thanks for getting it fixed so quickly!

I hope the OP comes back and can figure out what it is that's going wrong. We'd love to help you OP, but you have to answer a few questions in order to get answers. Here's a hint since you said that this is embarrassing: Would you rather be embarrassed here with a room full of hidden strangers, or be embarrassed/awkward/uncomfortable in bed? It's actually a bit easier to talk here because you can let your guard down and you're not as vulnerable. Some of us are just very comfortable talking sex talk, and we'd love to help you. Please don't feel embarrassed by not knowing/liking something. Not everything about sex is for everyone.

OMG did that make me laugh and it is SO true. They really do abuse the pussy. Unless you have an very solid and established relationship with your mate, and the "abuse" has been previously approved by the committee, you can just forget it. Trying something new like that when she's not expecting it may just cause you to walk away crying.

Oh girl I think we'd get along IRL just fine. It really does help sometimes. Smile4me, a great way to meet new people who actually have feelings is to volunteer for a charitable cause. Either organize a charity walking group like for the Breast Cancer Walk or volunteer to work somewhere in the community. When the economy is bad, charities are usually the first ones to feel it, so if you have free time and want to meet new, caring people and do something good for your community then VOLUNTEER! Years ago I worked for a no-kill animal shelter and I loved meeting other people who cared about animals as much as I did, and I LOVED working with the animals. It sucked going home smelling like dog, but when their faces would light up because I walked in the room, it was totally worth it.

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Wow I totally agree. I have noticed that the few friends I have that are comfortable about discussing sex often have problems having a good O because they are so concerned about their weight. They nearly obsess about it before, during and after. Trust me ladies, when he's taking care of you, he's not worried about those extra pounds you found over the winter. He's a bit more concerned about a different kind of pound. When my marriage is stressed I have a hard time achieving orgasm because I want to shut my head up but sometimes I cant. This is where communication with my husband has always been key. I usually slow things down a bit and tell him what's going on. I don't discuss what's in my head, but he does know that there is something up there that just wont go away. When he knows it's going to be a difficult one, then we can usually work at it together and he works smarter at it, not harder.

If it hurts, then your partner might be too rough. If you watch any porn flick, the girls in that movie can stand and awful lot of aggressive licking/fingering. I had to explain to DH that not every woman is built that way. I am very sensitive down there. VERY sensitive. The clitoris is homologous to the penis, so maybe a little sucking is in order for those women who don't seem to enjoy receiving oral sex, as long as it isn't a psychological issue. Those moves that you may see in the movies are a MAJOR turn off for me, but when DH does it the way I taught him, I'm like a volcano going off. He does start out using his tongue, but he only licks up and very gently. If he does it up and down, it's nap time for me. I taught him to use his soft lips to suck very gently, and then sometimes let my clit slide out of the soft grip of his lips. When he's really got me going he just keeps going in and grabbing it gently with his lips and then letting it slide out again and again. If he adds some sucking noises in there I can feel the vibration and then it's just all over but the crying. I hope that helps. I know this technique rocks my world. Prior to this way, I could do without it.

I'm a military wife too and I know exactly what you mean. It really disgusts me to see women wear their husbands deployments around like a badge of honor. I actually lost someone who I thought was a friend over a situation like this. This is the same woman who told me that she didn't have a problem discussing my marital problems even though her husband was gone because she thought it might help me gain some perspective. Later in the summer, she actually told me to not bitch to her about our marital problems because her husband was gone and I should be thankful that my husband is home. Yeah, home my ass! He gets to sleep in our bed, but he worked very long hours and a lot of weekends last summer so he may have been stateside, but he was hardly home. I guess she felt her badge of honor was more important than our friendship. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with DH's duty station, and I gave up trying. The key is to find your own happiness out there where you can. To hell with the ones who are rank wearers, and stay away from the "fun sponges" who have nothing to do but bitch about life. I have a lot to bitch about these days, but you know what? I've been doing my best to weed through my shit and find the positive. My husband and I are getting closer now than we ever have been - and he's deployed. I have a very lovely home near the beach, 3 children that love me, and a husband who is willing to do whatever he has to in order to make this thing work even though we will be apart for more than a year. In hindsight, I am so happy that my "friend" dumped me when she did. She really is a rank-wearing negative person and I don't need that in my life. I have real friends who support me and the decisions I make for my family and that is all that matters.

Wow ladylove is right! There is some wonderful advice here. I thought I was an old pro giving BJ's but I am going to add the corn cob and the figure 8 to my bag of tricks. DH is going to love it. He likes a bit of nibbling, so this will be a definite turn-on. I have done the coordinated hand and blow job and I've sucked on the tip hard enough to let all go in my mouth/throat. DH has been quite happy with both of those techniques. He really loves it when I grip him really tight. The tighter the better. The first time I got the grip tight enough for him, I really thought I was going to break it, but that is how he loves it. As for the humming, I do more of a moan until I can feel the vibration all throughout my mouth. That's usually when I get an "OH FUUUUUUUUUCK!" out of him.

Right now I am really thankful that I am the only one in the house who knows where the keys to our mailbox hide. I'm going to be sure to keep it that way from now on. To both of you, thanks so much for your advice and review of the club. After I'm done typing this, I'm off to go sign up. I too have seen some bad porn and I can say that I am glad that I didn't have to pay $30 for it. I can't wait to start previewing for the both of us, that way when he does come home we wont waste time skimming through the horrible ones. We only have 2 weeks together, I've gotta make the most of it! I'll just let him turn on the DVD player in the bedroom and pull an innocently playful "OOPSIE! I wasn't watching that while you were away" and let the fun begin! Thankfully the kids will be with the grandparents his first week home.

I just looked into the monthly club here and I am interested in signing up. My husband and I would like to start a collection, but I don't know what kind of porn he prefers and he is away so I am kind of doing this blind. I'd like to have a little collection by the time he comes back and the club sounds like a good way to get it started. Anyone use the DVD of the month club? Is it worth it? Is this offer too good to be true?

Aaaaaahhhhhhhhhh only fellow dog owners know what you are talking about. When our dog gets on the bed we always know if we left our scent behind because she presses her nose to the spot and wont stop sniffing. She gets the boot off the bed by the first person who realizes what she is sniffing. I also feel like I am forever washing sheets (when he's home that is). Thank you for this review!

Well that picture, for me, just ruined the innocence of leprechauns throughout the world. This would definitely be a NOT!

My favorite place and position is standing doggie style in the shower. A few years ago, we lived in a house that had a really small shower. My husband is a pretty big guy so he took up most of the shower just standing in there, but we had to try it anyway. I turned around, bent over and we finally found a fit that would work for our cramped quarters, and he starts going at it. When he's pushing me forward, my head is banging into the plastic door that is right in front of me and it's making this VERY annoying and distracting noise. When I put my hands up to brace myself against the door, there wasn't enough room for any type of thrusting so I go back to my original position. Then I decided (without telling him) to move my upper body over a bit to get away from the door. As I moved, he thrusted and it sent my forehead slamming right into the tile wall in front of me. Holy crap did that hurt! It's funny now because when I look back on that moment I swear it was like we had read a manual on how to do it in the shower and it was all awkward and uncomfortable and then BAMO I hit my head. I had a nice reminder of our horrible endeavor for the next week. I had a HUGE knot on my forehead that went into my hairline and every time I brushed/washed my hair I was reminded of that really awkward moment where my husband nearly knocked me out!

Ok I know I'm a bit late here, but I'll join in. I hate the vibrator that my husband and I bought together while over in Europe. Actually when he uses it, it's not too bad of a ride, but when I have alone time, it's something of a snore fest. I was rather new to the toy buying thing, and had I know that non-flexible plastic was so useless then I would have purchased the jelly-like one that we were debating on. Now I just save the plastic one for when we are together and use my "lifelike" one during alone time.

Doggie style! I love it when he is behind me because he hits that spot just right. I usually have my ass hiked way up and I lay on my chest or forearms. When he's really into it he pulls my hair so hard that he pulls my head back towards him. If we're not on the bed, then we are either in the shower or in front of a mirror. I love that we can watch each other cum in our favorite position.

Neither me nor my husband is new to this game of deploying. Between the 2 of us, we have 34 years of experience with deployments and the military and when you've deployed as much as we have, you'll do what you have to in order to get by. None of them cares about the no porn/toys rule. They just don't physically have porn in their possession-that will get them fried. I asked him if he wanted me to send him toys even though they have rules and he said yes. This tells me that either he doesn't care about getting into trouble or the possibility of getting caught is part of the fun. DADT this is an excellent idea, and of course I have "alone time" daily. I wouldn't be able to make it through this damn deployment without it. Of course some of my "alone time" hasn't always been alone. Let me tell you my husband really does appreciate the web-cam I bought for myself. I really love the idea of talking to him via recording. Then he can play it back whenever he has his own "alone time". I LOVE this idea. Thank you.

I would love to have it about 4 days a week. I could go for more if he wanted, but I guess I could live with 4. We don't do it that much when he's home because his schedule is so weird. I'd love it if Mr. Bossman would not be such an arse and let me have my husband before he's even too exhausted to eat the dinner I made hours ago. Oh yeah and we have these 3 little people that keep hanging out and interrupting our privacy. I wish they would go away so I could do what I want when I want. We still can't figure out why they keep calling us "mom and dad."

If you were apart from your S/O for one year, with the exception of 2 weeks half way through, and were planning on remaining faithful, what masturbation toy would you want to have with you? It must be easily stuffed into a really full backpack, it must transport relatively safely without much worry for it breaking/cracking, and be easy to clean. I don't think he actually has access to a private water source, but I will ask the next time I talk to him. I think the showers could possibly be private. My husband is deployed and loves the idea of me sending a toy to him but I want to be sure I get him something that he will be happy with. I've looked at all the ones here and some from some other places and I just can't decide what to get for him. I'm guessing I will need some lube to go with the toy I buy? If you have a favorite for whatever reason, please share and links would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your help.