whiskeywoman

I agree with ya 12 gauge, it is a bad idea. all these lawyers nowdays are raking in the cash hand over hand for asbestos inhalation cases, antidepressants, and bad diet pills. When we smokers wind up with something, were told "tough shit, you knew the risks and did it anyways" we pay through the nose for these taxes that go to pay for others medical bills, doesnt matter if its not even remotely connected to second hand smoke exposure or not. we cant go into bars or resteraunts to light up. hell, were not even allowed to smoke in our own cars!! We are the first to get hit with any new taxes. Never mind the fact that drinking and driving is way more dangerous to the general public than lighting up is. How many people are put in danger because someone got behind the wheel after a few too many drinks? People who live in these large cities inhale all the crap put out by the factories on a daily basis, and they are fine with it, but the minute someone lights up OMG, its a criminal offense, Seriously, I get to listen and abide by congress passing laws and bills on handguns and firearms and ammunition. Damn it, it is hard enough to put a meal on the table some days as it is. Just because meat has gone up drasticlly in price. I go out and shoot elk and deer to help fill in the gaps during hunting season. Now they want to regulate that too. when is this crap gonna end?

Well, I am not really sure how to start this, but I will give it a go. I have recently met a wonderful man, very sweet, caring, generous etc. We have a wonderful relationship as freinds, we are extremel honest with each other and have a great time talking to one another. We have discussed sex, and toys, likes dislikes etc. Well, we decided it was tme to take things a step further and enter a full fledged monogomous relationship. We are now in the process of looking for a house together. We decided to have sex for the first time on monday, it was totally spontanious, the kids had gone to bed at a decent time, mom was beat and went to bed early, as had my uncle. We were making out, and one thing led to another. Next thing I know we are both naked and he could not get an erection. I tried oral sex, nothing, I tried a hand job, nothing. It seemed like nothing I could do was going to help get him hard. He finally wound up going down on me and bringing me to orgasm in like 2 minutes flat, then he kissed me, told me he loved me and went and got dressed. He told me he was diabetic, and sometimes his diabetes affected his ability to get an erection. He control his diabetes with diet and excersice, and does not have to take pills or injections. My question is, how common is this problem, and how do you deal with it? I have looked online, and not found much help on the subject. thanks ~Whiskey~

As an animal lover, I know how hard it is to see this kinda of crap happen. I adopted my cat Molly from the vets office. Found out some idiot threw her out of the window of a moving car, and her rescuer was allergic, so they took her to the vets, They gave her all of her shots, spayed her, and the very next day she came home with me. Less than a week later, I found the sweetest manx online, drove for an hour to the next city to te shelter, found out he and his brothers and sisters were found by and old man in his wood chipper. Evidently one of his nigbors took the entire litter and put them in there because they knew that the old man would fire it up soon. The cat I had my eye on wanted nothing to do with me, but his brother came right up to the kids for pets. so...I now have 2 of the best mousers and the sweetest cats ever. lots of people want cute and cuddley kittens and puppies, but don't stop to realize how much work they really, they outgrow the "cute" stage they dont want them anymore. Or the first time the cats scratch them, or the furniture etc. too many uneducated people in this world is all.

Absolutely beautiful. Nice shots, thanks for sharing.

Well, I am hoping she has come to her senses. She seems to have dropped it for now. Of course there have been more pressing issues here on the home front. Now that most of them have been resolved, we will see if she resumes the idea or if it stays dead. Tyger, yes she is old fashioned, she hasn't goten it through her thick skull yet that I am adult. I have been taking care of the girls and I by myself for a while. Even when he was there. ah well, sh will get over it im sure.

TRUE!! almost 12 30 and im still not tired. TPBM just bought a new toy this week.

I have never had my hood pierced, I have a personal thing about ppl with needles heading down south. I had my nipples pierced at one time, but they rejected. I didn't think i was all that painful. I had my tongue done, and that wasn't painful at all, it was a lil odd feeling somehing going though my tongue, but it didnt really hurt. i was a lil sore afterwords, but nothng that a dose of tylenol and a slurpee couldnt fix. I suggest that you find a good piercer and ask lots and lots of questions, mainly about the procedure and the aftercare, and teh risks involved. Good luck!

Kat, That ink is fucking WICKED!! absolutely gorgeous. I am so sorry honey, I know how much she meant to you. And even though we have talked, I want you to know I am always here for you, no matter what. I know ow hard it is to lose someone that was that close.. Keep in mind honey, she loved you as much as you loved her, she will always be with you, watchin over you and guiding you and your children. many hugs and much love.

And just when you thought that the stupidity in the world couldn't possibly get any lower, some one goes and pulls a stunt like this!

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Way to go Tyger! Glad to hear eveything worked out in your favor. The moral of the story is : Never pull a Tygers tail!

Well I dunno what her problem was the other night. I dont know if it was depression kicking in, or a last from the past or what. We had ben talking about holidays, and she ran off in her way back machine talking abouthow herdad was never there for her. Then she came back to present day and started sugestin these ludacris ideas of her. I swear the woman suffocates me more than a plastic bag. Don't get me wrong, love her to death, I really do. And Iunderstand I am her only daughter, and I am the closest living child, and the onl child to give her grandchildren etc. I also understand she is dying, and she won't be around much longer. And she wants to make sure we are taken care of, and that we will be ok, and that she wants to spend as much time as possible wth us, but, enough is enough.

This is an old family shot with me and some other family members, I am the one in the blue dress. This is one of the only ones taken where you willl see me in a dresss EVER!

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My mom is talking about letting my ex move in, so he can get a job at the local mine, and how he and I could have her bed, and how we shold get remarried for the kids sake. WTF?! This is the same man who has physially abused my girls, and the one who has beaten the crap out of me more times than I can count. The one who shoved a vial of cocaine under my nose when I was driving, KNOWING I used to have a problem with it. Yeah the one with the drug problems. Yes THAT EX!! AND SHE WANTS HIM TO MOVE IN???!!!! what makes it even worse...SHE WAS STONE COLD SOBER WHEN SHE SUGGESTED IT!!! UNGH!! I seriously wonder if mom didn't inherit alzheimers from my grandma, because to even think such a thingis sheer insantiy, let alone actually SUGGEST it to me. Fuck that shit, I would rather be eaten alive by a pack of rats rater than have that man come back full time. I have a hard enough time when he comes around for birthdays or Christmas. The girls regress back to old habits. Thumb sucking, bed weting, nightmares, crying, throwing fits etc. Even mom has said how much they regress when he comes around, and shes suggesting he move in with us?!?! I think sh has lost her mind..... Then... I went onto this dating site, I got a couple of bites, I exchanged pics with one guy, and wrote him an email, just 1, next thing I know he is now profesing his deepest love for me, and his name has changed. And you can bet your ass I am not talking to him anymore, he is on full time ignore. I know I say I strive to be anything but normal, but this is bordering on plain out nuts! I must have a huge invisable sign on my neck or something. "INSANITY STARTS HERE" or something, damn. Ok, enough, I am gonna get a sress headache just thinking about it. /off rant

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I have found that the best wayto get rid of that " new toy" smell is to wash it a lot at first. Sometime 3 or 4 times. Leave it outin the open to air dry. Usually that will help the smel disapate. If the smell has not gone away, repeat steps 1 and 2. I find using condoms with these types of toys also helps. Good luck!

Oh gawd, your killin me Iha!! And I believe its spelled ewww.. Your spelling ewe as in sheep ewe... and if thats where goin....your momma was one baaad lady LOL I'm sorry I just couldn't resist!!!

You may have a latex or a silicone allergy. Both of which can cuase an allergy and a reaction to a toy, especially the lifelike or cyber skin toys. If you think you may have an allergy to either of these, try using sheepskin condoms, itll make clean up a snap, and will avoid your exposure to latex. Tiger brings up excellent points about toy hygine, very important. Always wash your toys before and after use. Iha... you kill me dude.. And even though I know he is joking, he brings up anoher seriously good point, whether he is aware of it or not.. Washing your hands and having your lover wash their hands as well before and after foreplay is extremely important. Just think of all the things we do throughout the day, all the things we touch, all the germs our hands and fingernails harbor. This too could be a part of the problem. You could always buy some waterproof toys, and you and your lover could take the in the shower and begin your foreplay there... This way, your toys are clean, your lover is clean, your clan, and the foreplay has begun... This is one reason I LOVE my waterproof toys. I get them clean before and after use, And I get clean ad have a couple of great orgasms in the process!

Oh hell Kat... Damn, when it rains it pours don't it? If tehres anything you need, just give me a holler. I am always around if you need me. Love ya bunches babe!

OMG HOW HILARIOUS! Makes me wonder how many other people saw it and asked " what does she have?" Or how many realized exactly what she DID have !!

OMG.....ROFLMFAO oh wow that is too funny. No, your not bad for laughing, that is hilarious! My kids do some prety odd things at times. I hope you continue to share these kinds of stories with us.

I am going to add in my 2 cents worth here.. It would seem to me, that if you have not had the big O during intercourse, then you will stress over it, the more you stress over it, the more it will elude you. Relax, don't stress over it so much. Bring a bullet into the mix, he can use it on you,or you can use it on yourself during sex. You can also use it on him durig oral sex. I know this is gonna sound strange, but masterbate as often as you can. By doing this, you bring yourself to climax and you find out what turns you on and what brings you to that all elusive big O. In turn you can teach your man what to do so he can bring you to orgasm. Relax and have fun, enjoy the learning process.

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You know your a fat kid if you can give 10 reasons right off the top of your head as to why chocolate is better than sex.. You know if your a fat kid when those voices in your head tell you to hit the gym...then you shut them up with the chocolate.. You know your a skinny kid when you have to run around in the shower for 10 minutes just to get wet... You know your a skinny kid when you have to ask for a size smaller than a 0...