Members RabbitOperator Posted December 15, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 15, 2013 I am a married 55yr old male. My wife and I just got into toys and found out we both love them. I've always wanted to, but she was too timid, which is what attracted me to TooTimid.com. Now she is more excited to have sex than ever before; see my review of Blush's Wild Rabbit. She stated that who would have ever thought I would have liked it.It started with a request from her to try some of the his/her type warming lubes she had seen advertising. She's made it clear that I don't need anything like Viagra. Trying to stay active in the sex department she knew she needed something having gone through the changes that women inevitably do. I thought it might be a chance to spice it up so I gambled and bought a rabbit vibrator. I was scared to introduce it at first as I wasn't sure how she was going to react. It was over in a few moments. Never seen her do that before. Our first rabbit broke and we have tried several since, but nothing compares to the Wild Rabbit, for her anyway. I've tried to pay attention to stimulate the hot spots and how she's responding to give her that wild orgasm.Is my ego hurt? No? Men always want to think they're the stud and I did too, but a man just can't do what these things do virtually "every time". And I love to see what they do to her. I don't know if a man can have such a thrilling moment as she does. What a man can do is embrace it and enjoy it with her; I get my moments too!!! Now we have a great combo that I think most folks are looking for; the feel of human kissing and touching with the thrill that only the toys can give (she still will not use them alone even though I encourage her to do so).We will be celebrating our 35th anniversary tomorrow and the Wild Rabbit will accompany us. My moniker now is ToyOPs (Toy Operator). I am sooooo excited. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team bbarney Posted December 15, 2013 Review Team Report Share Posted December 15, 2013 You know your post reminds me of a toy that the two of you might enjoy. It is called the We Vibe and though it is pricey ($130) it is fantastic. It gets inserted and then penetration carries as usual. The benefit is that the toy is stimulating her clitoris while you are penetrating her (and the vibrations dont feel too bad for the male either ) the first time we used it she was over the top ecstatic about the toy. I highly recommend it if you are finding that toys are really the only thing able to give her that feeling at the moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RabbitOperator Posted December 17, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 I've taken a look at it and have considered it. I get excited to try new things. I've tried the penis sleeve with vibrator and doesn't seem to do much for her. Had her on top last night so she could work the vibrations to her advantage. Used the Wild Rabbit last night and she was over the top again; thinking repeat tonight. So, I'm at a point I think I'll stick with it until she shows signs it might not be as effective. Right now she shows no signs of tiring of this toy and looks forward to putting it into action. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mommavamp Posted December 20, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 20, 2013 I find that toys are fun and enhance the pleasure for me and my husband enjoys playing with them with me. I've only tried a few so.far but am looking to expand collection ....happy to hear that your wife and you have such a good relationship ...been married 28 years myself and the sex just gets better... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted December 22, 2013 Members Report Share Posted December 22, 2013 Toys are such an added bonus. I love using them with my partner as well as along. At first I never thought I would be in to them but that was about 6 years ago. My oh my the opinion I have on them has changed. That is so great that you have found what works. I have a go to toy as well but others that are put into the mix from time to time as well. Have fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunshine Sam218 Posted January 18, 2014 Members Report Share Posted January 18, 2014 Just wanted to stop by and welcome you! This is a very friendly site and you'll get lots of advice on here! Hope you end up finding a toy that works best for the both of you. Toys are wonderful too! So have a fun time looking for them. And I hope you enjoy yourself on this forum as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie corao65 Posted February 18, 2014 Newbie Report Share Posted February 18, 2014 Both my wife and I are 65 years old. We have been married for 44 years, are best of friends, and we are sexually active (once a week). My wife is especially conservative (timid) when it comes to bedtime activities and I am much more willing to experiment. I have talked with her in the past about using a vibrator when having sex, but I think she considers it to be dirty and kinky. She has had medical problems in the past which caused her to go into early menopause and since then her sex drive has been mediocre at best. I'm not getting any younger too, so it takes more time for me to become aroused as well. I would like to introduce a vibrator into our love making, but I'm not sure how to introduce it to my wife. When I have talked to her about it before, she almost immediately changes the subject. Can anyone give me suggestions on what to do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Older Guy2 Posted February 22, 2014 Newbie Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Wife and I been married 46 yrs this June we used sex toys for over half our married lives. They have never gotten in our way mentally. They sure spice things up and o yes I like my toys to!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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