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As I read on Quora as to why men cross dress ...

For quite a few cross dressers , born in the period from 1945 - 1971, the cause is their mothers were given a new drug, diethylstilbestrol (DES) to prevent miscarriages and pain during pregnancy. DES is a strong synthetic estrogen. It had undesirable consequences on many of the babies. Males were feminized in various ways. Females were incapable of having children or breastfeeding them. For this reason, it is believed that DES was no longer in the US after 1971. But because it was never banned by the FDA it was still used by some into the early 1980's. In most other countries it was outlawed, but in a few countries it is still legal. Many men whose mothers were given DES find themselves cross dressing and possibly transsexuals.

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On 4/4/2020 at 7:22 PM, twin spirits said:

As I read on Quora as to why men cross dress ...

For quite a few cross dressers , born in the period from 1945 - 1971, the cause is their mothers were given a new drug, diethylstilbestrol (DES) to prevent miscarriages and pain during pregnancy. DES is a strong synthetic estrogen. It had undesirable consequences on many of the babies. Males were feminized in various ways. Females were incapable of having children or breastfeeding them. For this reason, it is believed that DES was no longer in the US after 1971. But because it was never banned by the FDA it was still used by some into the early 1980's. In most other countries it was outlawed, but in a few countries it is still legal. Many men whose mothers were given DES find themselves cross dressing and possibly transsexuals.

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I don't know if the article you read is quite accurate, however, the picture attached is quite hot!! I LOVE it!!!

I personally think that cross-dressing is just something people like (like if you prefer a certain color). Or, that, if it's sexual, then it's considered a personal kink. A friend of mine, her hubby likes wearing women's underwear because of the material, and how it feels. One of my previous FWB's, he sometimes wears it because he feels like he has a sexy secret......even from his wife. He had started doing so years ago, and, the last time we were together, I got to take his bra off, and play with him under some satin panties. Not gonna lie......it was HOT!!!

In any event, whatever makes people  happy, so long as it's safe, legal, and between consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with it!

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On ‎4‎/‎7‎/‎2020 at 7:15 PM, Tyger said:

I don't know if the article you read is quite accurate, however, the picture attached is quite hot!! I LOVE it!!!

I personally think that cross-dressing is just something people like (like if you prefer a certain color). Or, that, if it's sexual, then it's considered a personal kink. A friend of mine, her hubby likes wearing women's underwear because of the material, and how it feels. One of my previous FWB's, he sometimes wears it because he feels like he has a sexy secret......even from his wife. He had started doing so years ago, and, the last time we were together, I got to take his bra off, and play with him under some satin panties. Not gonna lie......it was HOT!!!

In any event, whatever makes people  happy, so long as it's safe, legal, and between consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with it!

I don't disagree. This post should have been "One Reason Why Men Cross Dress". Somehow there is always a sexual aspect involved to some degree. I do it out of necessity (gynocomastia / hormone imbalance) So it becomes practical for my pear shaped body. But when I am dressed (undergarments only) it feels more natural and because of that more sexual. And with your experience ...  Not gonna lie......it was HOT!!! ... I imagine that would be very hot for me too. Available?

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On 4/7/2020 at 7:15 PM, Tyger said:

I don't know if the article you read is quite accurate, however, the picture attached is quite hot!! I LOVE it!!!

I personally think that cross-dressing is just something people like (like if you prefer a certain color). Or, that, if it's sexual, then it's considered a personal kink. A friend of mine, her hubby likes wearing women's underwear because of the material, and how it feels. One of my previous FWB's, he sometimes wears it because he feels like he has a sexy secret......even from his wife. He had started doing so years ago, and, the last time we were together, I got to take his bra off, and play with him under some satin panties. Not gonna lie......it was HOT!!!

In any event, whatever makes people  happy, so long as it's safe, legal, and between consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with it!

The reason DES was banned is that it was linked to breast cancer in women who were prescribed it during pregnancy. Being a former big time crossdresser I can say women have either one of two reactions either they are extremely turned on and thing its hot or think your a freak and are totally turned off by it.  I can only speak to my own experiences and feels as to reasons why I enjoy it was because yes I had an extreme attachment to my mother who taught me that sex was normal and a beautiful thing and not to be afraid of what the world thought but, what made you happy. Very forward thinking for a woman in the 1960's fast forward years later being a closet crossdresser because I was more interested in just getting laid than being progressive that was until i met two different women one being an FWB who on a dare had me wear her bra and panties she loved it and thought it was kinky fun that she bought me multiple matching bra and panty sets that matched hers as well although fun as it was it was nothing to compare with the second woman I met and wound up having a long term relationship with.

My crossdressing  came to light one night when she came home and immediately removed her bra, I joked with her about her complaining and she said oh you think it's so easy and went into her bedroom and came out with a bra and said here try this one smart guy, to say I got an instant erection was an understatement. it fit but wasn't very comfortable but I wasn't going to let her know that, she d=said wait here and returned with a pair ofpanties and said ok now put these on, Iiked where this was going then she said get dressed I'm starving and your taking me to dinner. So I went out wearing the bra and panties that night and she said she was not only impressed that I met her dare but was actually pretty turned on by it. and also said that she knew how uncomfortable it was wearing that bra, I said no really isn't that bad it's kind of nice. She laughed and said I've been wearing one of those things since I was 12 and I can tell from a mile away when one doesn't fit right. We were sitting around the next morning when I spotted this large portfolio 

She had worked in the both the theater and movie industry as a cosmetologist aka makeup artist.  she picked it up and sat down next to me, showing me some of her work. Amazing didn't begin to describe her talents, showing me the various head shots etc. she thumbed to one particular group of pictures and asked me what I thought, The woman was amazingly beautiful everything about her was perfect, eys, face, hair skin dresses and outfits she was modeling . Pretty hot huh I said yeah smoking hot, she flipped to the last page and said she is a he. I was dumbfounded she simply said I told you I was good. She then took her hand to my face and turned my face from side to side and asked if I wanted to have some fun, she didn't have to ask me twice so she lead me by the hand to her dressing room and sat me down in front of a large mirror with all sorts of makeup and brushes and things, the first thing she did was shave my face as smooth as a baby;s bottom and then applied makeup eyeliner, rouge blush whatever form ehr table standing in front of my blocking the mirror the last thing she did was style my shoulder length hair in a feminine hairstyle, nothing more than brushing and a blow dryer and some gel and she stepped away from the mirror and I could not believe my eyes looking back at me was a woman a pretty damn good looking one at that. The whole time she was working on my she commented on how my bone structure was perfect for this and how she was always turned on by guys in drag or just me standing there in a bra and panties made her wet. She then went shopping for me for more comfortable bras and lingerie our passion for my being her shemale girlfriend took on a life of its own. why because I was comfortable and confident. That the point of my long winded diatribe here sorry for being so long winded my point is as long as your comfortable and it feels good you should do it life is not a dress rehearsal.  

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16 hours ago, Bob Long said:

 That the point of my long winded diatribe here sorry for being so long winded my point is as long as your comfortable and it feels good you should do it life is not a dress rehearsal.  

You mentioned that you attribute to the close relationship to your mother. In sense you already know the root cause of your cross dressing. But for many cross dressing can be confusing. Why are we doing this? Why does it feel so natural … so sexual?  I listed one interesting possibility … DES. Maybe that's an answer for some but not for all. Understanding why as you do  will make a big difference to many. I always feel better when I understand why something has happened.  So, really, that was the only point. Here's one possibility why. And, yes, if it feels good let it ride. Thanks for posting your thoughts.

PS: You know that for cross dressers life really is a dress rehearsal!

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Well saying my close relationship with my mother is the cause makes it sound like there is something wrong with doing it. I just an exercise in free will hey I wonder what it's like or what does it feel like fill in the blank. Maybe it genetics maybe it's hormonal the maybes could go on and on. Maybe my wife's parents and her strict religious upbringing are the cause for her bisexuality or perhaps just a curiosity or maybe she always was and just wasn't allowed to be who she really was but the bottom line is she is very happy with her bisexuality and her love for women as I am with dressing and enjoying playing the stroke of a woman. We are just both lucky and equality as happy that we make the two work 

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1 hour ago, Chris&Rusty said:

:) did I say "love you" yet today? The why's and wherefores...my mother basically made a brother for herself as she adopted me to my grandparents at 4 years old, and I became my own uncle...so bag that idea...all though I did get close like that with my grandmother-watch her dress for work from 1962 through 1970 until she stopped working. Lets see: Open bottom girdle with garter built in-check. Nylons:check. Slip:check Waist cincher: check Bra? huh? yeah, have one but I am honestly an A- cup size. Yes, thats a minus behind that letter. Would probably get any, I'd never get out the door if I had breasts, but love corsets much too.....watched and it seemed natural It doesn't always have a sexual overtone. I sleep in what I sleep in because I do, not to get laid, but wouldn't complain...

Kinda wraps that up nicely in a way. It happened, I do it, ain't goin to stop, feels good yes, I should not feel good? Thought so. And it's not always a sex thing. I don't go out dressed up-don't want to permanently scar the general public, and cause a mob scene during this outbreak, or after it either. I must say Bob Long you had it goin on too sister, sex or otherwise. It is so exciting sitting in the lingerie section waiting for Baby to bring back something for me to try on, invite the clerk(s) in for a peek, (and it's not a power thing either) and saw them touching themselves while I was trying things on. I got so many freebies that day we went back about every 8 to 10 weeks. I wonder how many men were freed by me going and doing? I wonder how many went home and dressed their man that night or near to it?

I was on a city bus once and a woman, way younger than me, reached over and smoothed my pants over where the garter was showing it's bump through my pants, she told me of some that don't bump up and show like that and was all pleasant about it. Yeah, was amazed. We might get socially accepted some day. And not gay, bi, trans, but us guys who are straight crossdressers, with no wink wink, and yes I said "love you" to twin spirits. Do. Why? In the same boat, different oar, but same dude with the whip and the dude with the drum. Same fight. Of the same mind. All that. Another day in paradise brought to you by "Spanx"....and gotta split-be cool, love that and want to get one after looking at it....we dress because we will, no matter who says what about any part of it, and we are proud of who we are, and it's our life, when you can live my  life to a point you like it better than I do, please feel free to continue on with it, I'll stay home and live mine-period. That comes from something I wrote years ago, dealing with the "your and mine" thingy

Well trust me I never thought in a million years that I would be passabe enough to venture out in public but my ex not only was a genius with hair and make up etc. but she fostered my confidence by not pushing me into anything she allowed me to become more comfortable with my rold and while in the safety of her home and mine she taught me the things that are dead giveaways how you sit, how you walk talk etc. I can honestly say she made it fun. Sex was always over the top with her no matter what the role and sometimes she would say I just want to be fucked by my boyfriend not my shemale boyfriend so we enjoyed the freedom of flexibility so to speak. The shopping in public for lingerie etc wasn't always like living out a porn movie and I never went out lingerie shopping in my female persona but we just happen to come across a really cool young lady who worked in a large chain that was super cool and put two and two together almost right off the bat so of course we frequented her store and exclusively worked with her so she would get the commision. she struck up a conversation and whispered I know this isn't all for you she said to my gf I think it's really cool I always wanted my boyfriend to try it but he refused and well thats another story. Come to find out she was single and my gf invited her over for drinks one night and nothing sexual happened but she did get to experience the "other me"  Her and my girlfriend succeed convincing me to go out that night as my female self. It's nothing I've ever written about it was just the three of us out cruising around getting some looks but it really was a lot of fun which is the bottom line real women don't all dress like street walkers or in scantily clad outfits so dressing up to dress down was fun too if that makes any sense...lol

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i am a sole survivor of a firefight near Fallujah Iraq April seventh 2007when the convoy my strike team was escorting was ambushed by insurgents who when chased took child  human shields my team gave chase and caught them in a building down the road and engaged them leaving three of our team the insurgents and shields dead our 1st lt took his own life 16 months later after 3 mo.s in the hospital in bethesda md. i was sent home with severe ptsd survivors guilt and anger issues i had thought about crossdressing a few times before and thought what the hell and gave it a try i find it to be an escape from the nightmare that will never go away and the sadness anger and hate i lived with every day when im dressed im not that angry asshole any more hell im not even the same gender im just happy go lucky krissy just having fun and doing her own thing.. my wife was very supportive but the regular me was too much and we have since divorced. now i dress most of the time when im not working or in public im not as angry as i was and she and i are talking about getting back together

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thank you for your service and what ever make you happy , and takes away pain and anger and sorrow,

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I love cross dressing and i love wearing my pink lingerie and getting fucked in my ASS it feels so amazing wen my booty is filled with CUM. im currently dating 2 georgeous tranny girls ..i like pussyas well but prefer a big kock  much better .just wanted 2 share that with all yall

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On 4/4/2020 at 5:22 PM, twin spirits said:

As I read on Quora as to why men cross dress ...

For quite a few cross dressers , born in the period from 1945 - 1971, the cause is their mothers were given a new drug, diethylstilbestrol (DES) to prevent miscarriages and pain during pregnancy. DES is a strong synthetic estrogen. It had undesirable consequences on many of the babies. Males were feminized in various ways. Females were incapable of having children or breastfeeding them. For this reason, it is believed that DES was no longer in the US after 1971. But because it was never banned by the FDA it was still used by some into the early 1980's. In most other countries it was outlawed, but in a few countries it is still legal. Many men whose mothers were given DES find themselves cross dressing and possibly transsexuals.

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I love that pink and that kock looks so delicious.. u got my pink panties all wett

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On 4/4/2020 at 5:22 PM, twin spirits said:

As I read on Quora as to why men cross dress ...

For quite a few cross dressers , born in the period from 1945 - 1971, the cause is their mothers were given a new drug, diethylstilbestrol (DES) to prevent miscarriages and pain during pregnancy. DES is a strong synthetic estrogen. It had undesirable consequences on many of the babies. Males were feminized in various ways. Females were incapable of having children or breastfeeding them. For this reason, it is believed that DES was no longer in the US after 1971. But because it was never banned by the FDA it was still used by some into the early 1980's. In most other countries it was outlawed, but in a few countries it is still legal. Many men whose mothers were given DES find themselves cross dressing and possibly transsexuals.

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I want that COCK so bad i cant stop looking at yr pik....love that pink

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On 4/4/2020 at 5:22 PM, twin spirits said:

As I read on Quora as to why men cross dress ...

For quite a few cross dressers , born in the period from 1945 - 1971, the cause is their mothers were given a new drug, diethylstilbestrol (DES) to prevent miscarriages and pain during pregnancy. DES is a strong synthetic estrogen. It had undesirable consequences on many of the babies. Males were feminized in various ways. Females were incapable of having children or breastfeeding them. For this reason, it is believed that DES was no longer in the US after 1971. But because it was never banned by the FDA it was still used by some into the early 1980's. In most other countries it was outlawed, but in a few countries it is still legal. Many men whose mothers were given DES find themselves cross dressing and possibly transsexuals.

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OMG that cock makes my pink silky panties all wett

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