Newbie kioko24 Posted October 19, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 i'm still a beginner with anal sex. i tried it once years ago and had an embarrassing incident with "leakage" (for lack of a better term) and hadn't done it since with a partner. i have since, while masturbating, inserted fingers and dildos anally. At those times I never experience any anal "leakage". so, i'm in a new relationship now and he wanted to try it. i feel more comfortable with him then any past boyfriend. we did, and it was great. afterwards when he went to the bathroom first to clean up, to my horror, there was "leakage" on the sheets. unlike my first partner who was grossed out by the whole thing, he said nothing. i don't know if he just didn't see (the room was dark during the whole act) or if it didn't phase him. he is more experienced with this then i am or my past partner as well. so, is this normal? is there a way to make sure it doesn't happen? why didn't it happen when i would pleasure myself? i want to continue this act because i do enjoy it but i don't want to be embarrassed everytime we do it. it basically had me in tears in the bathroom. any advise would be GREATLY appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted October 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Oh Honey...what can I say - "leakage happens!" I know, gross and embarrassing, but it is true. Getting a little bit of leakage is common when having anal sex because there is stool residue up there and you are essentially "lubing it up" and pulling it out. There are ways to decrease the "leakage" - you can do an enema - which I do sometimes if I know I am going to have no holds barred sex. You can use a feminine wipe and kind of "reach up" in there and clean yourself up. Or, you can not worry about it!I wish I had better advice or something more positive, but "thems the breaks" when you are having anal sex!Keep on doing it - it still feels great, right?Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie kioko24 Posted October 19, 2006 Author Newbie Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 i'm still a beginner with anal sex. i tried it once years ago and had an embarrassing incident with "leakage" (for lack of a better term) and hadn't done it since with a partner. i have since, while masturbating, inserted fingers and dildos anally. At those times I never experience any anal "leakage". so, i'm in a new relationship now and he wanted to try it. i feel more comfortable with him then any past boyfriend. we did, and it was great. afterwards when he went to the bathroom first to clean up, to my horror, there was "leakage" on the sheets. unlike my first partner who was grossed out by the whole thing, he said nothing. i don't know if he just didn't see (the room was dark during the whole act) or if it didn't phase him. he is more experienced with this then i am or my past partner as well. so, is this normal? is there a way to make sure it doesn't happen? why didn't it happen when i would pleasure myself? i want to continue this act because i do enjoy it but i don't want to be embarrassed everytime we do it. it basically had me in tears in the bathroom. any advise would be GREATLY appreciated.i guess it's a relief to know that it's normal. thank you for the suggestions. i can talk to my friends about most sex related issues but anal sex sends a look of disgust on all their faces. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie firejm Posted October 19, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 YEAH BUT THEY HAVE ALL TRIED IT.........TRUST ME Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted October 22, 2006 Report Share Posted October 22, 2006 When I was fooling around with my FWB, he introed me into anal sex, with the use of toys. The first time I saw the toy after we were all done, I covered it up until he left the room, and then rushed to clean it and the blanket we were on. But he never said a word (and he's pretty squeemish). It happened a few times, and there was a bit of "leakage". If I knew that is what he wanted to do, I'd take a nice long bath, and try and wash up there as best I can. I'd encourage it, if I'd had a BM earlier that day, then bathed. So, it's normal, and to be expected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie lovemylife Posted November 14, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Oh hunny if you only knew my story!! My BF and I have been having anal sex for atleast a month when this happened to us. He is big and very long so it was going to happen eventually. anyway, that same day I had felt constipated but did nothing about it and that night he wanted anal so I gave in and low and behold he pulled out and said DONT MOVE! A very flat terd had hit the bed. Oh my god it was embarrassing as hell but so funny. He just said "Damn Hunny'. From now on I use an enema when I think Im going to let him have anal. It happens and all men know when they put that dick in there it may happen. Dont feel bad dear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie tessann Posted October 7, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted October 7, 2007 i'm still a beginner with anal sex. i tried it once years ago and had an embarrassing incident with "leakage" (for lack of a better term) and hadn't done it since with a partner. i have since, while masturbating, inserted fingers and dildos anally. At those times I never experience any anal "leakage". so, i'm in a new relationship now and he wanted to try it. i feel more comfortable with him then any past boyfriend. we did, and it was great. afterwards when he went to the bathroom first to clean up, to my horror, there was "leakage" on the sheets. unlike my first partner who was grossed out by the whole thing, he said nothing. i don't know if he just didn't see (the room was dark during the whole act) or if it didn't phase him. he is more experienced with this then i am or my past partner as well. so, is this normal? is there a way to make sure it doesn't happen? why didn't it happen when i would pleasure myself? i want to continue this act because i do enjoy it but i don't want to be embarrassed everytime we do it. it basically had me in tears in the bathroom. any advise would be GREATLY appreciated.i get cleaned up before anal sex and use a ganeric feminine wash and a colon tube sex and use a pad afterwards and takes the hassel out of it. try putting underpads under you next time and save yourself , you can get them from the store. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted October 7, 2007 Members Report Share Posted October 7, 2007 i get cleaned up before anal sex and use a ganeric feminine wash and a colon tube sex and use a pad afterwards and takes the hassel out of it. try putting underpads under you next time and save yourself , you can get them from the store.What is a colon tube sex?Glenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted October 7, 2007 Members Report Share Posted October 7, 2007 What is a colon tube sex?GlennI think she meant "colon tube SET" and it is another name for enema! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted October 7, 2007 Members Report Share Posted October 7, 2007 I think she meant "colon tube SET" and it is another name for enema!Oh must be a pc term, I never heard that expression before. I think I will stick to enema since it shorter to write and to say. But an enema can be a great thing all by itself. Glenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amplexus Posted January 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 This one time... at band camp...No, in all seriousness, the first time I had anal and saw his cock covered with nastiness I swore I was never gonna do it again because that was just tooo embarassing! But, my fiancee' loves anal and told me it happens sometimes. (he has much more experience in the sack than I) He was so great about it that now when I think we might be getting a little freaky-deaky later, I take a shower and use one of my toys to kind of break everything loose and get it a little cleaner. It happens though, what can ya do other than try to keep it clean or just deal with it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 29, 2008 Report Share Posted January 29, 2008 Those that participate in anal play understand that there is bound to be SOME residue from it. Especially when you use lube, it's bound to loosen something up in there. Though, most residue is minimal, and not really visible unless you really LOOK. So, don't worry about it, cuz it's all normal.If you don't like the enema thought, make sure that you have a bowel movement before you have anal sex. That gets rid of most of your issues before hand. Don't engage in anal play if you're feeling constipated or crampy due to being constipated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted January 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 29, 2008 leakage can be very embarrasing, seems as though you are very lucky in that your man doesn't mind and understands its normal you may want ot just speak to him about it and see if he has any ideas to help with clean up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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