Newbie Sissy1980 Posted November 7, 2022 Newbie Report Share Posted November 7, 2022 so if a guy watches porn and jerks off almost every night, will he still wanna have sex w his wife? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members raym718 Posted November 7, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 7, 2022 I use porn everyday because she no longer interested in sex of any type. 2 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 7, 2022 Report Share Posted November 7, 2022 I mean, it really depends on the person. Some people watch porn regularly and want to have sex with their partners, and some use it as a replacement for various reasons. It's not really a cut and dry answer. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted November 8, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 8, 2022 Guess it depends on why he is using it. I look at porn because it enhances my pleasure and keeps my imagination running wild. My husband isn’t interested in sex but, even when he was, I still enjoyed porn. It was never a replacement, actually made me more excited when we were together. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted November 14, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 14, 2022 well yes and no. we love it togeather but we watch some alone. it puts us in the mood but what kind of porn puts us in the mood? when I was younger it took very little but the more exposed you get the more you need to find something that does the trick. when I was a teen looking at sears catalog the underwear and swim suit could do it then play boy sent me over the edge. Then you found harder porn and most of it didnt send me over the edge anymore like it did at first. Playboy was cancelled out by the likes of hustler. Hustler was cool becasue of the beaver hunt section. I kept hoping to find the neighbor or the chick from class. I like more fetish now and not all of that will do the trick like it did at the beginning. So basically the more you look at the more harder it gets to get turned on visually. What to do? take a break or restrict yourself to softer porn helped. My wife and I would watch some thing like cat house on hbo and next thing you know we was doing it. For me I want to see more and not getting it( it wasnt meant to be a hard porn show)so I noticed it did the trick. The looking forward to it but not really getting it like you did when you was younger. A desire was there and I had to make due so I had to give in to what I had not what I could not have. I could find an image of a camel toe again and start getting turned on where after seeing bare pussy after pussy in the pages of a mag it wasnt doing anything for me but I blew some good cash on magazines trying. Even a strip tease at the bar wasnt turning me on like it did the first time you went. You can get over exposed. Reading the sex stories in magazine like penthouse forum or kinky letters seemed to keep things moving if you know what I mean. I even went to a swinger party and found the show great but all that over exposure again wasnt helping me out and I was in my 30s. I did get turned on super horny walking into a sex store and talking with the gals behind the counter about the products and what they knew about it. People looked at each other not really having much conversation other then excuse me can I get by you. I would go home and masterbate just from the conversation and the visual in my head if she said I have this and it great when it touches my clit . while I did enjoy seeing some of you folks expose yourself on here and it was a thrill ( because it was real people not models) I admit. I fondled myself like most guys did ladies. Even exposed myself to you which was thrilling too. I pretty sure Tyger found it and did what she had to do but this why I think what Tyger is having to do is a great thing. I remember when her and I started here it was a very active site more then now. we had less showing more telling. I would get off of here when the wife came home and if she wasnt busy I was roaring to get it on from the ideas and things I read. Getting back to suggestive pictures but not really seeing any of the goods kind of took care of the problem I had from over exposure to porn. I shouldnt admit this but Tyger would share info on products and her experince with them between her and her ex and I be so turned on just from that and maybe because it was the images in my head that she described and I knew what she looked like that allowed me to visualize the scene. I bought a few products from here just because of that visualizing the experince. I wasnt saying stuff like God your hot , which she is btw, but like the store experince the images pop up because I had an image and I had instruction and I thought what a lucky man she has because I had no idea how I going to get my wife to try this out. Another example of seeing but not seeing is there was a lady here writing alot of educational stuff by the name of Mikayla. She never showed you her full face but she show you a picture of her back or part of her head. Think Wilson looking over the fence on Tim Allen show back in the 90s. She talked about her experinces but her look was a mystery for most. You could see she was most likely very attractive and you knew what she liked. was full of great advice. we didnt flirt as I pretty sure Tyger may have mentioned with each other but rather we shared experinences and advice and all of us would get off of here turned on. I know you guys and gals are thinking the wrong thing every time I say get off in the technical sense as in logging off the site and I using it for a lack of a better word but see your already using your mind not needing a nude picture. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members Erin1984 Posted December 17, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 17, 2022 I think watching porn daily and jerking off while married may be too much. My hubby used to watch pretty often (maybe 2-3 times per week). At first I didn’t like it because I thought that I wasn’t good enough for him and that’s why he needed to watch porn. Sex wasn’t lacking- we were still very active and continue to be, which is great after 3 kids and 15 years together. The biggest struggle was to understand his thinking. Wrong. I realized that once in a while (now probably once every two weeks) he’s desire is to watch porn alone not because I am not attractive but because of his curious brain of what he may see to turn him on. Often, he watches for a bit without masturbating. Sometimes he masturbates. I on the other hand, I dont watch it alone, but I like watching with him and see him stroke his cock while watching porn, while I rub my clit. My conclusion is, if it affects your marriage, then you may have a problem and you need to discuss. Regardless, open discussion is needed so you at least try to understand him and him understand you. None of us are perfect, some have different kinks, but that doesn't necessary means that he is not attractive to you or that he wants to cheat. But you cannot be ignored by him either! Sex is very important in a relationship. Maybe you tell him “hey, what about i suck your cock when you watch porn?” Or “hey, what about you shot a porn video with me?” Good luck. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Barewalker Posted May 17, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2023 In the past I used to search for porn a lot. Mainly because my wife now ex wife didn't give me the satisfaction that I wanted/needed. I know that it sound rather selfish. But if you are aloud to come near your partner once a month and that is if you're lucky. Believe me you are going to search for alternatives. So I did and I probably became addicted to it. The problem with watching to much porn is, at least in my case. You want to have more and more. Also at some point regular porn isn't satisfying enough anymore and you go searching for some other stuff. I've seen some really weird stuff during that period and as a warning stuff you really don't want to see. At some point I started having depressions and after waiting much to long I started to visiting a psychologist. She made me realize that watching porn doesn't have to be a problem. As long as you don't use it as a alternative for your real sex life. So I still love to watch porn from time to time. But by far not as frequent like I did in the past and not as hard. Now most of the time a amateur photo of a naked female can be enough. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BrendenB Posted June 20, 2023 Members Report Share Posted June 20, 2023 On 11/8/2022 at 10:42 AM, Katie Did It said: Guess it depends on why he is using it. I look at porn because it enhances my pleasure and keeps my imagination running wild. My husband isn’t interested in sex but, even when he was, I still enjoyed porn. It was never a replacement, actually made me more excited when we were together. TOTALLY agree. Knowing how beautiful and sexy you are, Katie, the thought of you watching porn and getting hot from it is making me hard, right now as I type this. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 On 11/7/2022 at 2:02 AM, Sissy1980 said: so if a guy watches porn and jerks off almost every night, will he still wanna have sex w his wife? Well just let me say that I masturbate daily, and would have no problem also having sex that same day. But then some people just have a higher sex drive. And lately I've been flying at about 40,000 feet....😊 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 i to like you dance i like to masturbate when i can just saw your profile page and the lovely lady says she like to masturbate wish i was there 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bobbie63 Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 i watch porn ,my girlfriend has COPD, on oxygen ( oxygen hose in bed real sexy,) right after i met her a doctor cut a muscle in her butt , so never anal, no sense being a organ donor ,they are pretty much shot,it was 7 years the last time ( needed a box of dynamite to open her up) then ,she has a cyst on her ovalery know thats spelled wrong ,and guess she thinks another 7 years is ok, we have all kinds of sex toys even a cheap fuck machine used it once,and lingerie and high heels and some of the toys melted in the bag, 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 12 hours ago, kanga grey said: i to like you dance i like to masturbate yep. The best things in life are free. 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Susan James Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 13 hours ago, Dancer said: Well just let me say that I masturbate daily, and would have no problem also having sex that same day. But then some people just have a higher sex drive. And lately I've been flying at about 40,000 feet....😊 When you masturbate daily 9 out of 10 doctors say that is better than exercising. So skip the trip to the gym and rub one out or touch yourself . Doctor's orders. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 12 minutes ago, Susan James said: skip the trip to the gym and rub one out or touch yourself . Doctor's orders. Best treatment order I've ever received! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Susan James Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 6 hours ago, Dancer said: Best treatment order I've ever received! You can thank Doctor Pokeatwatalot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 I like to pokeatwatalot 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 i go to the doctors daily i love to masturbate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 On 9/24/2023 at 2:20 PM, Susan James said: You can thank Doctor Pokeatwatalot. Does he have any openings for new patients? I need a doctor that specializes in that field. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Susan James Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 2 hours ago, Dancer said: Does he have any openings for new patients? I need a doctor that specializes in that field. He does home visits but he is a back door man. You will love the beef injection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 22 minutes ago, Susan James said: He does home visits but he is a back door man. He can come in through the back door if he prefers. But my front door stay open. 22 minutes ago, Susan James said: You will love the beef injection. Yep, as long as I can feel it inside me! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pblo69 Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 On 11/7/2022 at 6:39 AM, raym718 said: I use porn everyday because she no longer interested in sex of any type. Being bi, I found a buddy in a similar situation and we “helped” each other out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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