Poll Question ; Cheating

[Lonely and divorced]

In your opinion who do you think is more likely to cheat on their significant other or spouse if the situation presents itself;

A man or a woman ?

[NervousNelly]

Man

[kowboy1964]

men

 

[Rio]

Probably a man

[Lonely and divorced]

  

5 minutes ago, kowboy1964 said:

men

 

Thanks for responding lowboy.🌞

[Lonely and divorced]

Thanks for responding everyone. !!!🌞

[kowboy1964]

I hate to admit but I did have some FUN time with a female friend of mine 3 weeks ago.  It was just oral on both ends and only about 30 minutes total. I know that is no excuse... me and my wife have been married 23 years and this is a first for me. she is haply married also. I know she was grooming me and all, I do feel like I was used for her satisfaction.  My wife has a very very weak sex drive. In the 22 years she has only allowed me to have intercourse with her about 20 times, and that was at the beginning. She says with her tilted servic that it hurts her. She is so tight down there from years of not wanting intercourse. I went and bought her dilators set 2 months ago and printed off literature for her. It's still in the original packaging. Its just so frustrating when one has a 100 mile per hour sex drive and your partner has 20 mph.....  We have so many toys that I have bought her, sexy lingerie, i talk sexy to her and tell her how much I love her... I am 49 and she is 71... its just frustrating...

[kowboy1964]

2 hours ago, Lonely and divorced said:

  

Thanks for responding lowboy.🌞

you are more than welcome

 

[bobbie63]

ive had married woman contact me, so theres women out there that do it,

[juliesjoy]

I did it to my 1st husband,  he never paid attention to me, left me alone with 2 kids n gambled away whatever money he could get his hands on! N we lived on welfare. 

well needless to say,  he found out bout my affair n divorced me. So be it ok,  (we were married for 7 yrs) n he bitched about the 2 kids, so I went to court, told the judge I would pay whatever child support he ordered,  BUT I was NOT going to give him a penny more bc he would just take it to the horse or dog track. Judge ordered me to pay 12.50 per child,  so $25 total each month! I had just started a new job n of course my ex did NOT hv a job outside of gambling, so judge went easy on me!  I paid that every month with a smile on my face.  I knew it would be a burden on him to raise 2 kids (7 yr old girl & 2 yr old boy btw)  he never moved or remarried or even had a relationship with another woman for more than a blow job or a babysitter.  I paid for everything for every school yr, start-up to end, took them on holidays n summer vacations, whatever they wanted! It was hard in the beginning but we all got used to it 

The man I slept with for this affair was the love of my life!  We ended up together for 26.5 yrs! He didn't hv children n told me, from the beginning, to fight for them, but i  didn't want to drag them thru a new relationship n it not work out, so i left them where they were comfortable.

So we worked n i saw the kids when it was good to take  them for a wkend, bc new guy was a bass player in a band, gigs n road trips came up!  we didn't want to get married, but we lived like we were, it took 20 yrs to actually tie the knot!  So for 5.5 yrs, life went on.  then trouble started,  he was not feeling well alot of time n would go to the doctor,  that Dr would send him to another Dr,  finally a back specialist took xrays, n it showed stage 4 lung cancer!   he lost his life a yr later...that was in Oct 2019. I fucking miss him so much every moment of my life!

if I had the chance of going back n re-living  my life, I would hv left my 1st husband sooner! 

 

[MonishaS]

Man

[kanga grey]

men with out a doubt but it thake two and the green is not always green on the other side u do not cut other peoples grass

[Beek43]

I use to think it was men, but since my divorce I've met many single men and they tell me how they're always hooking  up with married women,  there's a lot out there that cheat

[6981]

On 3/14/2023 at 2:42 PM, Lonely and divorced said:

In your opinion who do you think is more likely to cheat on their significant other or spouse if the situation presents itself;

A man or a woman ?

Woman definitely!!

[Barewalker]

Twice I had a affair with a married woman. In my defense when It started I didn't know they were married. I never cheated on my ex-wife or any other girlfriend I have ever had. It just isn't something I do very easily. But that doesn't mean that woman cheat more on their partner than man do. And what if the person in question is bi-sexual and has need to be with someone from the same sex or in a gay relationship with someone from the opposite sex? 

For and foremost I think that having sex with someone that isn't your regular partner isn't the problem. The sneakiness of it is the big problem.  Talk to your partner about your needs and maybe you won't have to cheat at all.  That is easier said than done.  I tried it myself with my ex wife.  She had absolutely no desire to do anything with it at all.  It later turned out that she herself was fucking her boyfriend three times a week.  So I am more inclined to say that women cheat more.  But then I would be very biased.

[Terry in NV]

I think both,for one resaon or another.When the cats away the mice will play.

[Mamasugar]

On 3/14/2023 at 1:42 PM, Lonely and divorced said:

In your opinion who do you think is more likely to cheat on their significant other or spouse if the situation presents itself;

A man or a woman ?

Women for a fucken landslide.. as long as they think they can get away with it. In my experience , strickly my personal opinion, I have a lot more Loyal-to-a-"take me to divorce court and I'll give you what you want because I still love you" guy friends than girlfriends. Cause women can be scandalous! Sorry gals! Or maybe I'm just bias cause I only have brothers and 2 of my closest, ride or dies, fucked my SO and then acted like nothing..  

Yeah.. maybe I shouldn't contribute to this poll.. 🤣🤣 

Sorry Lonely, not saying Men ain't dogs! But I've seen more women do men bad, than men do women. 🤷‍♀️

[Lonely and divorced]

You don’t have to be sorry Mamasugar. I believe there are a lot of women that cheat too. I was just wondering what everyone thought.🌞

[Frontandback247]

I’d say it’s probably pretty equal. Here’s an interesting experience I had several years ago. 

Mamet a married woman on the Ashley Madison site and we emailed back and forth before hooking up. Ended up getting naked in the back of her minivan in an empty parking lot.  I ate her out then fucked her bareback and I remember her asking “are you going to flood me?” So of course I came in her pussy, then went down and licked her clean before she went home. 

About a year later, I was arranging a gang bang for an FWB who wanted to take four or five guys at once. One of the guys who messaged me online had a last name that looked familiar on his email. So I did a quick search on Facebook and sure enough it was the husband of the woman I’d fucked the previous year! Based on his Facebook pictures and posts, they were still very much married. 

He showed up to the gang bang and I sucked his cock while a couple of the other guys were fucking my FWB. He didn’t have a very big cock in terms of length but it was pretty thick though. After the other two guys finished cumming in her, he slid his cock into her cunt and then when he was just about ready to cum he pulled out and sucked him dry. 

I’ve often wondered if they had/have an open relationship or if they were just cheating behind each other’s back. I think it was the latter. It was a huge turn on for me to have sex with both of them separately without the other knowing. I would have loved to have had a MMF threeway with them. 

 

[Rio]

Reading your story just now after I awoke got me hard already this morning. I'd like to experience something like that

[getting mine]

On 3/14/2023 at 1:42 PM, Lonely and divorced said:

In your opinion who do you think is more likely to cheat on their significant other or spouse if the situation presents itself;

A man or a woman ?

Man

[Katie Did It]

6 hours ago, Frontandback247 said:

I’d say it’s probably pretty equal. Here’s an interesting experience I had several years ago. 

Mamet a married woman on the Ashley Madison site and we emailed back and forth before hooking up. Ended up getting naked in the back of her minivan in an empty parking lot.  I ate her out then fucked her bareback and I remember her asking “are you going to flood me?” So of course I came in her pussy, then went down and licked her clean before she went home. 

About a year later, I was arranging a gang bang for an FWB who wanted to take four or five guys at once. One of the guys who messaged me online had a last name that looked familiar on his email. So I did a quick search on Facebook and sure enough it was the husband of the woman I’d fucked the previous year! Based on his Facebook pictures and posts, they were still very much married. 

He showed up to the gang bang and I sucked his cock while a couple of the other guys were fucking my FWB. He didn’t have a very big cock in terms of length but it was pretty thick though. After the other two guys finished cumming in her, he slid his cock into her cunt and then when he was just about ready to cum he pulled out and sucked him dry. 

I’ve often wondered if they had/have an open relationship or if they were just cheating behind each other’s back. I think it was the latter. It was a huge turn on for me to have sex with both of them separately without the other knowing. I would have loved to have had a MMF threeway with them. 

 

What sexy experiences you have! If they are both that good, they must have an open relationship. Yes, a MMF with them would have been very intense. 

[Frontandback247]

4 hours ago, Katie Did It said:

What sexy experiences you have! If they are both that good, they must have an open relationship. Yes, a MMF with them would have been very intense. 

Unfortunately it was only a one time thing with each of them, otherwise I was going to ask about playing as a threesome. 

Discreetly of course, because you never know who’s repulsed by the idea of sharing their wife or their husband involved in bi play. 

Even if they had an open relationship they may not have wanted to experience a MMF together. 

 

[Katie Did It]

9 hours ago, Frontandback247 said:

Unfortunately it was only a one time thing with each of them, otherwise I was going to ask about playing as a threesome. 

Discreetly of course, because you never know who’s repulsed by the idea of sharing their wife or their husband involved in bi play. 

Even if they had an open relationship they may not have wanted to experience a MMF together. 

 

You’re right. I stand corrected. 

[LuckyLady]

in my experience the man,  I gave my ex  Sex anytime he wanted and blowjobs at least every other night and he still felt the need to cheat…