Newbie lilac52 Posted April 5, 2023 Newbie Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 I have been married for 2 decades. I almost always orgasm from my husband rubbing his hand on my clitoris, and find it most pleasurable and enough. I dont Have the desire for penetration because it doesn’t really stimulate me . Is this normal? my ways of orgasm are as above or going on top and rubbing my genitals over his, and sliding. I feel bad because my husband wants me to find intercourse pleasurable. I also wish I could orgasm through intercourse. A few times I have but it wasn’t as pleasurable as clit stimulation by hand. any suggestions ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 He said you don't find pleasure in penetration. Do you let him penetrate you after he has brought you to climax? He does what you need to feel good and shouldn't you do the same for him. Even though it doesn't bring you to climax it's a give give situation. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 It isn’t as common for women to O during intercourse. My first O is usually from clit stimulation. But I do love the feel of getting fucked. Then I usually cum during intercourse if my partner fucks me after I cum. Especially doggy style. And I also usually put a vibrator in my clit while he fucks me. So many possibilities 😂 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members marka09 Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 6 hours ago, Katie Did It said: It isn’t as common for women to O during intercourse. My first O is usually from clit stimulation. But I do love the feel of getting fucked. Then I usually cum during intercourse if my partner fucks me after I cum. Especially doggy style. And I also usually put a vibrator in my clit while he fucks me. So many possibilities 😂 If a guy knows what he is doing, I'll bet you could cum from intercourse without cumming first from clit stimulation. (speaking from experience). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 13 minutes ago, marka09 said: If a guy knows what he is doing, I'll bet you could cum from intercourse without cumming first from clit stimulation. (speaking from experience). I’ll have to test your theory. Any volunteers? 😂 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members oHIo45601 Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 20 minutes ago, Katie Did It said: I’ll have to test your theory. Any volunteers? 😂 I'll give it a shot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members marka09 Posted April 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 41 minutes ago, Katie Did It said: I’ll have to test your theory. Any volunteers? 😂 Me, me, pick me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted April 6, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2023 3 hours ago, oHIo45601 said: I'll give it a shot! Cheers! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members JimP Posted April 6, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2023 6 hours ago, Katie Did It said: I’ll have to test your theory. Any volunteers? 😂 Put me first in line Katie!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted April 6, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2023 😘😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted April 17, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 17, 2023 It’s everyone’s anatomy deciding if a woman cums during penetration. To me an orgasm during sex is a gspot o , squirting during can go either way G spot orgasms involve gspot stimulation, and for me result in squirting. Clit orgasms are different from gspot ones. The ultimate trifecta is oral till I squirt, then fingers till I squirt, then penetration, which feels sooo good, just slide it in and be still. I want to feel him filling me up, amazing 💋 while I start lightly grinding on it till I squirt. See a pattern yet? Lol 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Severalropes Posted April 25, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 25, 2023 On 4/16/2023 at 8:39 PM, michelleddd said: It’s everyone’s anatomy deciding if a woman cums during penetration. To me an orgasm during sex is a gspot o , squirting during can go either way G spot orgasms involve gspot stimulation, and for me result in squirting. Clit orgasms are different from gspot ones. The ultimate trifecta is oral till I squirt, then fingers till I squirt, then penetration, which feels sooo good, just slide it in and be still. I want to feel him filling me up, amazing 💋 while I start lightly grinding on it till I squirt. See a pattern yet? Lol Read this post and I’m officially hard! Lol. I do agree with this post though. My wife has orgasms from every spot but nothing like a gusher and the legs start shaking…. So fucking hot! I would say find a way to become more relaxed and be confident in your body and what it can do! Every woman can have a g-spot orgasm but maybe he just needs to watch a little bit more porn and learn a few things…… you could always try to contract your vagina when he’s fucking you almost like your trying to push his cock out! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted April 25, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 25, 2023 That happens on its own when I squirt, hang on its like riding a bull. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Severalropes Posted April 25, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 25, 2023 47 minutes ago, michelleddd said: That happens on its own when I squirt, hang on its like riding a bull. And if that bull knows what’s going on he lets you push the Cock all the way out till just his head is resting between your pussy lips…. Let’s you orgasm then slowly goes balls deep so the head of his cock rubs your swollen up G spot and builds her up for another water fountain 💦💦💦💦😜😜 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted April 25, 2023 Members Report Share Posted April 25, 2023 4 minutes ago, Severalropes said: And if that bull knows what’s going on he lets you push the Cock all the way out till just his head is resting between your pussy lips…. Let’s you orgasm then slowly goes balls deep so the head of his cock rubs your swollen up G spot and builds her up for another water fountain 💦💦💦💦😜😜 Good answer!! 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Terry in NV Posted May 12, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 12, 2023 You are all right. For me, its always a different way,Sometimes with toys on the g spot or my hand fingers or mabe my tounge .Some times i like to let her almost have an orgasm back off just alittle enough that she still enjoys it.She says she even has a bigger orgasm .I can tell.Then other times ,she likes a deep inside orgasm.I can do that with a toys or finger .She loves to feel me cum.I also ask what would she like?Telling each other what feels good works for us.Its ok to say what feels good and what dont,it only makes it better. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Susan James Posted May 13, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2023 On 4/16/2023 at 10:39 PM, michelleddd said: It’s everyone’s anatomy deciding if a woman cums during penetration. To me an orgasm during sex is a gspot o , squirting during can go either way G spot orgasms involve gspot stimulation, and for me result in squirting. Clit orgasms are different from gspot ones. The ultimate trifecta is oral till I squirt, then fingers till I squirt, then penetration, which feels sooo good, just slide it in and be still. I want to feel him filling me up, amazing 💋 while I start lightly grinding on it till I squirt. See a pattern yet? Lol Often I can not hold back and cum first especially if my wife is playing with my nipples. I then enjoy her sitting on my face as I suck her clit and lick her pussy clean. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted May 13, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2023 17 minutes ago, Susan James said: Often I can not hold back and cum first especially if my wife is playing with my nipples. I then enjoy her sitting on my face as I suck her clit and lick her pussy clean. No complaints if you’re willing to keep going. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rob7160 Posted May 13, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2023 On 4/25/2023 at 2:00 PM, Severalropes said: Read this post and I’m officially hard! Lol. I do agree with this post though. My wife has orgasms from every spot but nothing like a gusher and the legs start shaking…. So fucking hot! I would say find a way to become more relaxed and be confident in your body and what it can do! Every woman can have a g-spot orgasm but maybe he just needs to watch a little bit more porn and learn a few things…… you could always try to contract your vagina when he’s fucking you almost like your trying to push his cock out! When our guy friend fucks my wife he puts pillows under her ass . His penis has an upward curve and he usually gets her to squirt by using short fast thrusts .. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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