Newbie Jb99032 Posted April 18 Newbie Report Share Posted April 18 So my husband and I have been married for 21 years now and sex has always been ok, I lay down and he plays with me sometimes and licks me sometimes to. I have toys that he has bought me and he will use them in me. I can cum and squirts sometimes, when he uses the toys. I has known for 15 plus years that he is bi sexual. A few times when we have sex he tells me how much he wants another male with us. All I says is “I don’t know” and “ I know you want that” but that is it. I know that before we got married he did have sex with men. I am not sure what I need to do or what he needs? Durning sex sometimes he tells me how much he misses being fucked. I am just a vanilla sex girl, I don’t do a hole lot. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shaved Posted April 18 Members Report Share Posted April 18 1 minute ago, Jb99032 said: So my husband and I have been married for 21 years now and sex has always been ok, I lay down and he plays with me sometimes and licks me sometimes to. I have toys that he has bought me and he will use them in me. I can cum and squirts sometimes, when he uses the toys. I has known for 15 plus years that he is bi sexual. A few times when we have sex he tells me how much he wants another male with us. All I says is “I don’t know” and “ I know you want that” but that is it. I know that before we got married he did have sex with men. I am not sure what I need to do or what he needs? Durning sex sometimes he tells me how much he misses being fucked. I am just a vanilla sex girl, I don’t do a hole lot. so by a strapon and fuck him 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted April 18 Members Report Share Posted April 18 Watch some pegging porn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted April 19 Members Report Share Posted April 19 I agree with both Michelle and shaved. Watch pegging porn, see how it's done, get a strap-on and fuck him up the ass. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Frontandback247 Posted May 18 Members Report Share Posted May 18 Why don’t you try having bi guy join you two in bed? Your man can get some cock and as an added bonus you can fuck the guy too. Trust me, it’s WAY better than just using toys. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted May 18 Members Report Share Posted May 18 At least try to expand your sexual horizons. Ive always had the stronger sex drive in my relationships, I accept that but if the vanilla person isn’t even trying, I start checking out and become resentful. If you’re too scared to get a strap on at least get a dildo. You can Jack them off together, you can penetrate him with it, tell him it’s your cock and what you want to do to him. It will happen organically if you have an open mind. I’m sure he’s dying to tell you all his thoughts and fantasies, but you have to be a safe person to get to that level. Good luck and have fun 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted May 19 Members Report Share Posted May 19 Great advice @michelleddd! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted May 19 Members Report Share Posted May 19 8 minutes ago, Katie Did It said: Great advice @michelleddd! Thanks Katie!! 🥰 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted May 19 Members Report Share Posted May 19 2 hours ago, michelleddd said: Thanks Katie!! 🥰 It’s all about trusting that your partner just want to pleasure you. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted May 19 Members Report Share Posted May 19 3 minutes ago, Katie Did It said: It’s all about trusting that your partner just want to pleasure you. It’s wonderful when it works out that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lonely and divorced Posted May 19 Members Report Share Posted May 19 I agree with Rio.🌞 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Goddest dominatrixwater Posted May 26 Members Report Share Posted May 26 I would to use a strap-on with a guy. It’s a turn on for me. Sadly, never found one! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MattfromNY Posted May 28 Members Report Share Posted May 28 I would try it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members arawdicah Posted August 27 Members Report Share Posted August 27 Fools for thought! Sexuality is very fluid, with an open mind it is in the moment that all pleasures reside and it is only when you begin to focus upon, does it become something more! Again, "fools 4 thought" 4Q's what's your favorite color. what's your favorite animal, what's your favorite body of water, now your in a white room, what do you think about it? Theirs no write or wrong answer and you can change your answers @ any time 4 the rest of your life. But do be succinct and to the point or essence in your answers, and afterwards I will disclose the meaning of each of the questions. Till then use your biggest and best sex organ for your own pleasures! Your mind! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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