Members Mike_d Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 What is the longest length of time you have waited or refrained (willingly or not) from having sex after you became sexually acitve? I ask because I am on a minimum 3 week dryspell while my wife is away and I am working every weekend! I might be typing gibberish by the time week 3 starts, you have been warned people!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jesso Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 ahhaha! I guess I'm warned for future gibberish. Two months was the longest I've waited, and it was a long well worth wait Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mike_d Posted November 29, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 Ginger, why the wait? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jesso Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 Boyfriend at the time was studying abroad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie girlyglam Posted November 29, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 It's been just under 5 months now for me. But, I've only ever slept with one guy (after 22 long years, I just lost my virginity earlier this year) - he's since broken up with me, and I just haven't yet found someone I'm willing to have sex with. I'm sometimes tempted to do the random, no-strings-attached thing (because I quickly discovered that I do, in fact, really enjoy sex), but I just don't have it in me. So in the meantime, I'm having fun with my toys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 It's been just under 5 months now for me. But, I've only ever slept with one guy (after 22 long years, I just lost my virginity earlier this year) - he's since broken up with me, and I just haven't yet found someone I'm willing to have sex with. I'm sometimes tempted to do the random, no-strings-attached thing (because I quickly discovered that I do, in fact, really enjoy sex), but I just don't have it in me. So in the meantime, I'm having fun with my toys. Random sex in this day and age is like Russian Roulette! I doubt you have problems finding men. No need to risk the BS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 The longest that I have gone without INTERCOURSE, was 6 weeks - both for my babies. However, I did have oral sex - well, gave it to my hubby.Besides that, I think the max may have been a month or so. I usually had some "FWB" who would satisfy my needs between serious boyfriends! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 For me the magic number was 1 year. After my first sexual partner gave me a rather nice mind f*ck I was turned off to sex for quite some time and wouldn't let myself get that deep into a relationship.Thurisas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bret Posted November 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 My longest was 5 years. My ex laid a guilt trip on me that took a long time to shake.I was also working the night shift and had one of my kids living with me,I am not into one night stands but did have a couple after I lost the guilt trip.One night stands bother me with my own guilt trip.I'm glad thats over with.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 30, 2007 Report Share Posted November 30, 2007 It was about 3 mos, when hubby tried to go out of state for another job, but missed us too much, so he came back to get me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Infahmust Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 I've been in my relationship 4 yrs and the longest we have ever gone without sex was three weeks and that was 3 years ago. Since then we have sex at least 3 times a week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members missinformation Posted December 13, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 13, 2007 One year and a month for me. Post divorce. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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