Members jesse123 Posted January 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Hello all! I will just start with this. I'm rather new to sex whereas my boyfriend is definitely not. I consider myself old fashioned (sort of) simply because i just don't have a lot of sexual knowledge/ideas swimming around in my head. I only get to see my boyfriend about one weekend a month, and he will be here this friday. Problem is, yesterday he told me he wants to try 2 new things...69 and lube. I said ok, i bought the lube ( i got some strawberry astroglide, and a few others). I'm open to suggestions, but he says that since he picked 2 new things to try , i have to as well...well, i have NO idea what to even suggest. We do oral on each other all the time, but we won't do anal (ow...) and we're not really into the whole bondage, whips and chains stuff.my idea was maybe to suggest going and renting a porn movie or something, and at some point treat him to a wet t-shirt shower (which i know he'd like) but i have no other ideas. not even for good positions. I'd rather have ideas for SEX itself instead of foreplay and whatnot. I'm kinda shy when it comes to toys, and its too late to get any anyway seeing as how he'll be here soon and there are no sex shops or even novelty shops within 100 miles of me. (I live in a TINY TINY town)PLEASE HELP! ANY suggestions welcome and needed! I honestly can't think of a SINGLE thing and he wants me to have a few ideas...Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 I don't think I've run across you yet so welcome if it hasn't been said already. You are already on the proper track with what you have in mind with the porn and wet T. I would say that perhaps you try your lovers ideas this time and one or both of yours the next. There are only so many ways that people can keep the intensity alive and there's no reason to use them all at once. How about one of his and one of yours? And perhaps carrying this on as much as possible. I KNOW FOR A FACT that you will see many ideas here in this area and many others that will give you a cheat sheet to help you. However, if you are uncomfortable with anything then this needs to be told to us and to your lover ahead of time. 69 is a pretty typical position for most of us and anal may or may not be for others. But to get ideas we would need to know what has or hasn't been discussed, ried or fantasized about! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hollybw Posted January 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 There is SO MUCH info in the "Sex Education" articles tab above! Very educational, and will give you a lot of ideas. There is an article for nearly every topic you can think of. Try to spend some time reading through them. Good luck - it is great that you two are wanting to explore these things together! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 If I'm remembering you correctly, you lost your virginity to your BF, right? I don't think it's "more exciting" sex he wants, just adding a little fun to it is more likely what he wants. There are lots of things to try, from using ice in your mouth while giving him a BJ, to giving an erotic massage, to learning different positions. Have sex in every room and possible surface in the house (if you're able too). There are thousands of possibilites, positions, and things to try when having sex!Remember, being adventurous, and willing to try new things is what makes great lovers. Don't just say NO WAY because it's an odd thought. Try it, you may like it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 If I'm remembering you correctly, you lost your virginity to your BF, right? I don't think it's "more exciting" sex he wants, just adding a little fun to it is more likely what he wants. There are lots of things to try, from using ice in your mouth while giving him a BJ, to giving an erotic massage, to learning different positions. Have sex in every room and possible surface in the house (if you're able too). There are thousands of possibilites, positions, and things to try when having sex!Remember, being adventurous, and willing to try new things is what makes great lovers. Don't just say NO WAY because it's an odd thought. Try it, you may like it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 If I'm remembering you correctly, you lost your virginity to your BF, right? I don't think it's "more exciting" sex he wants, just adding a little fun to it is more likely what he wants. There are lots of things to try, from using ice in your mouth while giving him a BJ, to giving an erotic massage, to learning different positions. Have sex in every room and possible surface in the house (if you're able too). There are thousands of possibilites, positions, and things to try when having sex!Remember, being adventurous, and willing to try new things is what makes great lovers. Don't just say NO WAY because it's an odd thought. Try it, you may like it! I like that every possible surface suggestion. But if you are living in a house with an accessible roof area you don't have to keep it all inside. The ideas are easy to come up with it's the access and willingness that are more difficult to get by!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Valntyn Posted January 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Great ideas already posted by my fellow TooTimidites! I also wanted to add that there are actual articles regarding different positions under the 'Sex Education' tab above. Check it out -- or better yet, print it up and the two of you can pick and choose together what you want to try.Have fun, relax and enjoy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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