Rob Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 I would like to add one or two more discussion topics to the forum. Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks!Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members *Mikayla's~Man* Posted February 2, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 How about Men and Women's health questions? I know Mikayla gets quite a few questions that are general health related? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 It's kind of a good idea with health, but, then again, there may be a whole can of worms that could be opened from something like that. I guess a HUGE disclaimer would be needed on that one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jennifer1 Posted February 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I think a health forum would be appropriate, since there are a lot of people out there that turn to friends and the internet before they go to a doctor.Often, people will wait to see a doc until they are really bad, but if they come here for advice, they may get the help they need sooner because 20 people will reply to a post with something like "this is one for the doctor". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members OPL Laundry Goddess Posted February 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Rob, have you considered an alternate lifestyle section? You could put it with the other relationship info. I know of at least one leasbian couple and another gay male that frequent the boards, and now you have we poly-folk lurking...another idea might be of a spiritual nature, (you could put it down with the politics??) as I know there are times when sexuality and people's desires can be in contrast to their belief systems... this might be a place for those to counsel each other??~the laundry goddess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted February 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 This is great feedback. I will look to make some changes soon! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 OK, I've been thinking about some ideas. I came up with 3.....:The Reading Room~A section of erotica reading maybe? For those that like to read books & magazines, erotic or pornographic in nature.Leather & Lace~the lingerie bodiour forum. For those that like to dress for sex-cess!! LOLRomancing the Stone~for those that are trying to revamp the sex lives, how it's going type thing. I know, maybe the names can use work, but, they're just suggestions!! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted February 6, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Health questions may not be wise since many have thier own beliefs on the subject and we would not want anyone getting the wrong information. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted February 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 OK, I've been thinking about some ideas. I came up with 3.....:The Reading Room~A section of erotica reading maybe? For those that like to read books & magazines, erotic or pornographic in nature.Leather & Lace~the lingerie bodiour forum. For those that like to dress for sex-cess!! LOLRomancing the Stone~for those that are trying to revamp the sex lives, how it's going type thing. I know, maybe the names can use work, but, they're just suggestions!! LOL I like these ideas a lot!Something I noticed is that the Politics section is sometimes being used as a general chat section. There's "Everything Else" under Sexual Tips & Techniques, but no open general section for topics not related to sex. For the sake of being inclusive it might be wise to just change Politics into a true general section. I realize some sites try to avoid having general chat sections though, so if this is the reason for it then I apologize.Do we have a list of guidelines for posting here? Right now this community is relatively small so it's easy to manage, but if things grow in the future this might be something nice to have around if there isn't one already. I'm not suggesting strict rules of course, just a little writeup about how this isn't really a place to find hookups, etc. That way there's no confusion about what kind of a community this is, and if someone crosses that line you can refer them to the guidelines so they get the picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DirtyBlonde Posted February 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 I'm not suggesting strict rules of course, just a little writeup about how this isn't really a place to find hookups, etc. That way there's no confusion about what kind of a community this is, and if someone crosses that line you can refer them to the guidelines so they get the picture.I think that's a good idea too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted February 12, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 I think that's a good idea too Great idea. Does anyone want to take a stab at writing up some simple and basic guidelines? I am curious to see what our members would like. Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted February 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 I would be willing to write something up. Probably should post a suggestion spot for a few days first that way everyone can put some input? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted February 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Here are some of the guidelines from UltimateBettas.com (used with permission) modified for here, and with a few additions. I think these would make a good springboard to start from?TooTimid.com is not responsible for any messages posted. We do not vouch for nor warrant the accuracy, completeness or usefulness of any message, and are not responsible for the contents of any message.Messages express the views of the author, not necessarily the views of this bulletin board. Any user who feels that a posted message is objectionable is encouraged to contact us immediately via email. We have the ability to remove objectionable material and will make every effort to do so, within a reasonable time frame, if it is determined that removal is necessary.You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this bulletin board to post any material which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise violative of any law.You agree not to post any copyrighted material unless the copyright is owned by you or by this bulletin board.Please do not be rude to other members. You will receive a warning first, with further violations resulting in moderation queues, account suspension, and ultimately the removal of your posting privileges.Staff reserves the right to close any topics or threads that become unacceptable or out of control.Registering multiple accounts is considered unnecessary and innapropriate. If multiple accounts are detected, all memberships under the applying IP address will be suspended until the situation is resolved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted February 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 17, 2008 I have been thinking about this for some time and finally have some ideas.I would rearrange some things, put rants snd everything else into the everything else section with politics, mabye turn everything else to general discussion. Not sure what else to add. Its a little difficult not having a basic general discussion area since posts are placed in other areas and it getsconfusing.Mabye add a games and surveys section into everything else as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 17, 2008 Report Share Posted February 17, 2008 I have to agree with Froggy. Maybe moving the Rants and Raves section, and Everything else in like it's own forums for fun, info, and stuff maybe NOT about sexual issues.If it's supported, maybe a chat forum, that you have to have so many posts on the board before being able to go on it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Desires08 Posted February 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 18, 2008 I think that maybe something like, "Spice" for those who have been married for a long time who are committed to a one on one relationship who are looking for new things to keep thier sex lives healthy. That is a huge reason that a lot of people come here, me for one plus I love to read everyone's posts and of course post back to them. lol. Of course you may want a different name for it if you went that route. It was just the first thing that popped into my head. Another is "Guy World". I read an article the other day and it sprung lots of questions in my mind like why do men do this or say that and so forth, but I don't know if this is the place to say okay, this is really what is going on in your lovers head????? I really like the ideas that Tyger had with Romancing the Stone. It's similar to the one I had about "spice". And then you know there is always room to add for learning with a "Sex tip of the Week" forum where a sex tip would be posted and the members could discuss it for that week. I think I would like most the last one or the one about keeping the romance in your marriage/relationship because those are basic concerns for me and many others I think. Another idea is the Most embarrassing moments in sex.With that one everyone would pretty much post their experience and put it up for discussion/feedback. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MandBh Posted March 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted March 15, 2008 OK, I've been thinking about some ideas. I came up with 3.....:The Reading Room~A section of erotica reading maybe? For those that like to read books & magazines, erotic or pornographic in nature.Leather & Lace~the lingerie bodiour forum. For those that like to dress for sex-cess!! LOLRomancing the Stone~for those that are trying to revamp the sex lives, how it's going type thing. I know, maybe the names can use work, but, they're just suggestions!! LOL Tyger, great suggestions, another topic I have thought of to add to this is the emotional issues of 3 sums or more sums. Sharing some thoughts on this idea may help others who have thought of and or fantasized about adding to their sex life and dealing with the emotional consequences afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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