Members raynetwilight Posted March 11, 2008 Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 Ok last night my hubby and I where fooling around. Instead of foreplay and playing I just wanted wham bam.How do you tell your SO you want one thing when they're trying to be all romanctic? Quote
Tyger Posted March 11, 2008 Report Posted March 11, 2008 Well, if I'm just in the mood for either rough, or just gettin' it on, I tell him. Something like "do it NOW!", or even the simple, no holds barred "F*ck me NOW". There's no question what I want. LOL Quote
Members froggystyle1977 Posted March 11, 2008 Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 I Agree with Tyger and howard here.Saying something is very hard for me but actions do speak so much louder then words!!! Quote
Members raynetwilight Posted March 11, 2008 Author Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 You don't think it'll hurt his feelings. I mean here he is trying to be romantic and I want to fuck and go to sleep. Quote
Members jennycherie Posted March 11, 2008 Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 just be sure you are communicating your desire to have him IMMEDIATELY and NOT a displeasure with what he is doing and I don't think he'll mind Quote
Members thurisas Posted March 11, 2008 Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 As someone who is more times than not trying to be the caring and romantic type, when the wife says she wants me in her now, you can be darn sure I look longlingly at her pussy one last time for a very brief second before I'm all "Woohoo!! Nookie without the prework!!" I think he'll be happy to oblige, but then, you know your partner better than anyone else here could. How do YOU think he'll react?Thurisas. Quote
Members raynetwilight Posted March 11, 2008 Author Members Report Posted March 11, 2008 Thanks I'll give it a whirl. Quote
Members its1013 Posted March 12, 2008 Members Report Posted March 12, 2008 I just tell my guys, "baby, you're being so sweet but right now I really want you, you know, a little rougher." I say this very nicely, eyes, moans, etc. They dig it. Then the conversation quickly turns to asking me just what I want. I don't hesitate to tell them either. Shoot, I used to tell one, "put some ass into it boy!" He loved that. He understood and delivered! You'll be fine. Like everyone else has said, he won't mind obliging. Afterall, how many times are men given permission to fuck and only fuck! Right?good luck,sexualpeak Quote
Members Valntyn Posted March 13, 2008 Members Report Posted March 13, 2008 I'm in agreement with those who say 'just say it.' When I want Thurisas to thrust deeper or be a little rougher or whatever, I tell him what I want. I love those times... it usually ends up with him twirling me around so I'm bent over the bed, getting it nice and deep and .. mrrow!Yah... just tell him what you want. As someone who is more times than not trying to be the caring and romantic type, when the wife says she wants me in her now, you can be darn sure I look longlingly at her pussy one last time for a very brief second before I'm all "Woohoo!! Nookie without the prework!!" I think he'll be happy to oblige, but then, you know your partner better than anyone else here could. How do YOU think he'll react?Thurisas."....prework," huh?? Then why is it more times than not you push/tie/drag me back down so I CAN'T get away and you can keep going?! *laugh* Goober! Quote
Members thurisas Posted March 13, 2008 Members Report Posted March 13, 2008 Well...I did say I looked longingly one last time...perhaps there are just a few more licks, vibes, and rubbings that go along with the look. Randy. Quote
Members Mikayla1 Posted March 13, 2008 Members Report Posted March 13, 2008 Oh, to have a woman to tell me, "I just wanna good, hard, fast fuck." What a dream.Well Iha, come sit outside my bedroom door, you will hear that quite a bit..... Quote
Members raynetwilight Posted March 13, 2008 Author Members Report Posted March 13, 2008 Thanks for the advice- You were all right by the way, he was more than happy to accommodate. Quote
Members Shypuppy Posted March 14, 2008 Members Report Posted March 14, 2008 Or you could have a standard line for when you want it ASAPand another when you arent in a hurrylike !. Its Nookie patrol time...asap 2. Whose my best lover? Quote
Members pappyld04 Posted March 14, 2008 Members Report Posted March 14, 2008 I have to wonder if Tyger has ever heard the old line "I'm going to give you a good old roughneck, grudge fuck"? Or maybe if she's used the term? Mikayla that is just wrong to ask one to sit outside the door to hear such things! LOL! You naughty girl! If you want something from a man asking or telling is the best way to get it! Quote
Tyger Posted March 14, 2008 Report Posted March 14, 2008 LOL, no, I haven't heard that yet.....but ya never know what my hubby may spout off! LMAO Quote
Members crossroads123 Posted March 15, 2008 Members Report Posted March 15, 2008 As someone who is more times than not trying to be the caring and romantic type, when the wife says she wants me in her now, you can be darn sure I look longlingly at her pussy one last time for a very brief second before I'm all "Woohoo!! Nookie without the prework!!" I think he'll be happy to oblige, but then, you know your partner better than anyone else here could. How do YOU think he'll react?Thurisas.How 'bout I want it Now!! When a woman says that we ALWAYS smile and say YES. Quote
Members nosleepnmesa Posted March 19, 2008 Members Report Posted March 19, 2008 I am very direct with my SO I tell him "Fuck me Now", or if I want it rough "Spank me". There is never any questions what I want. Quote
Members Amylynn920 Posted March 20, 2008 Members Report Posted March 20, 2008 I just tell him. We say everything and do everything to each other. We just have no inhibitions. We're pretty lucky. But when I want it hard and furious, I have been known to walk over to him and say "pound me like a mallard duck" rofl. I love "The 40 Year Old Virgin" one of our favorite movies. Quote
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