Things I've Never Done And On My Sexual To Do List

[makasha1]

I was thinking today that there's so much I haven't done yet. Here I am over 40 and life is open! So these are on my never have done but want to list. Does anyone else have a "want" list?

1) Sex in a chair or on a table.

2) 69

3) Sex in a car

4) Sex in the grass

5) Sex in the showeror the tub

6) Sex in a pool

7) Being tied up

8) Using food (chocolate sauces etc)

9) Being undressed by my husband

Guess that's about it.

We know about the movie "The Bucket List" Maybe we need a new category..... " The Fu..it List" LOL

[Amylynn920]

We know about the movie "The Bucket List" Maybe we need a new category..... " The Fu..it List" LOL

That was a great movie. But it's very depressing to think that I'm either going to be too old or I will die without experiencing some of these things.

I don't think the things I want to do are "out there" or too wild, and sex is good and all. I just wish it would be different sometimes. It's kind of like watching a movie over and over again if that makes sense. You may love the movie but the thrill just isn't there. Sometimes you just want to watch a different movie ya know?

[OPL Laundry Goddess]

LOL, I've so enjoyed this thread! Very fun to read and loaded with good ideas!

May I just chime in here with a bit of advice from personal experience...

For all you beach/ocean fans - sand in the bathing suit is NOTHING in comparrison to the irritation of sand in the vagina. And the salty ocean water will eat away like acid any trace of natural lubrication either body can produce. Just a word of caution when trying these antics.

Also, for those of you with multiple/group sex ideas - I can fodder the imagination with this statement... "the more the merrier!" If all are in agreement on the terms and boundaries, MFM, FMF, and MFMF are all wonderful experiences.

I can say one thing I haven't ever been able to experience is a role playing opportunity with someone who is naturally into the parts. Haven't ever been attached to anyone with acting abilities or fetishes, but I think it would have been fun. Maybe I can live vicariously through some of you who do?

~TLG

[PanickedVanity]

1. DH as Jareth

2. Have sex with DH with toys

3. DH as a nurse

4. DH as a victorian Saloon Gal

5. Dh in a corset, stockings, etc

6. Doggy style (which the hubby despises but I really want to try)

7. A blow job with him sitting and me kneeling, or him standing, and me kneeling.

9. Handcuffs on DH (I never bought a new pair after my last girlfriend took mine when we broke up about four years ago)

10. Having the hubby give my strap on a "blow job"

11. Video taping us together

12. Photographing each other naked.

13. The Mile high club

14. Roleplaying with DH (have done it with past partners, never gotten him to)

15. Play losing DH's virginity

16. Roleplaying cop/hooker (me cop, him hooker)

17. Having him cut my hair (I have a hair kink)

18. Roleplaying wealthy woman/ladies maid (Me maid, him wealthy lady)

19. School girl/teacher (him school girl)

20. Having him as my "dolly" for a day where I get to groom him, and pretty him up as I see fit

21. Being his dolly for the day.

22. Shaving one another's bodies (Trust is such a turn on)

23. DH as geisha

24. Piercing play (need to get some training for this)

25. this roleplay idea is weird, but makeover show host/contestant (Me contestant, him host)

26. Phone sex with DH

27. Collaring my DH

28. Forced feminization play.

29. Strap on play in general

30. Blindfolds with DH

31. Cock rings

32. Both of us getting really dolled up, and going out to dinner some place nice where I can show him off.

33. Crop/flogger play (again something I've done, but not with DH)

34. Husband as soviet military officer (by which I mean, a soviet officer in thigh high stiletto boots, and a corset)

35. Record Executive/Rock musician (Me as the record exec)

36. Him as a naughty secretary, me as boss.

37. sex in a store dressing room.

38. Surprising him with a weekend get away.

39. Whatever happens on our three year anniversary this may (since we started dating, not since we married)

[Amylynn920]

1. DH as Jareth

2. Have sex with DH with toys

3. DH as a nurse

4. DH as a victorian Saloon Gal

5. Dh in a corset, stockings, etc

6. Doggy style (which the hubby despises but I really want to try)

7. A blow job with him sitting and me kneeling, or him standing, and me kneeling.

9. Handcuffs on DH (I never bought a new pair after my last girlfriend took mine when we broke up about four years ago)

10. Having the hubby give my strap on a "blow job"

11. Video taping us together

12. Photographing each other naked.

13. The Mile high club

14. Roleplaying with DH (have done it with past partners, never gotten him to)

15. Play losing DH's virginity

16. Roleplaying cop/hooker (me cop, him hooker)

17. Having him cut my hair (I have a hair kink)

18. Roleplaying wealthy woman/ladies maid (Me maid, him wealthy lady)

19. School girl/teacher (him school girl)

20. Having him as my "dolly" for a day where I get to groom him, and pretty him up as I see fit

21. Being his dolly for the day.

22. Shaving one another's bodies (Trust is such a turn on)

23. DH as geisha

24. Piercing play (need to get some training for this)

25. this roleplay idea is weird, but makeover show host/contestant (Me contestant, him host)

26. Phone sex with DH

27. Collaring my DH

28. Forced feminization play.

29. Strap on play in general

30. Blindfolds with DH

31. Cock rings

32. Both of us getting really dolled up, and going out to dinner some place nice where I can show him off.

33. Crop/flogger play (again something I've done, but not with DH)

34. Husband as soviet military officer (by which I mean, a soviet officer in thigh high stiletto boots, and a corset)

35. Record Executive/Rock musician (Me as the record exec)

36. Him as a naughty secretary, me as boss.

37. sex in a store dressing room.

38. Surprising him with a weekend get away.

39. Whatever happens on our three year anniversary this may (since we started dating, not since we married)

Those are definately interesting, We've done:

2. Have sex with DH with toys (Very fun)

6. Doggy style (One of our favorites) add a toy and you have bliss!

7. A blow job with him sitting and me kneeling, or him standing, and me kneeling

9. Handcuffs on DH (we are looking at cuffs)

11. Video taping us together (We're talking about that)

12. Photographing each other naked. (Talking about this too)

26. Phone sex with DH

30. Blindfolds with DH

31. Cock rings (get a vibrating one)

38. Surprising him with a weekend get away. (Definately on the to do)

[Mike_d]

Ginger....I know of a great place in the back of the stacks....grab some erotica (our library has a pretty wide selection to be honest...) and you can read it in my ear while getting busy!!! Just kidding....sorta.

My list is not that long I guess...

1. sex in the lake on a boat, jet ski or barge (done the pool, that was fun!)

2. Make a sex DVD with the wifey

3. DP the wife with myself and the dildo

4. hitting the stacks in the back of the library

We have done most of the other stuff on everyone's lists when we were newlyweds....man we were wild...I kinda miss it...we are still hot for each other, but not nearly as risky....too much to lose if we get caught.

I guess I am curious, if you have not done your list, why not?

[ohshelly]

Sweet guy has a lot more experience then me, there are many things he has done, that we haven't done together.

1)anal sex~ wanna give that a try

2)Sex at sunset on a big pink granite rock in one of our pastures. A sun warmed rock and the one you love, what could be better?

A short list, I am sure in time I will think of more!

[jesso]

Ginger....I know of a great place in the back of the stacks....grab some erotica (our library has a pretty wide selection to be honest...) and you can read it in my ear while getting busy!!! Just kidding....sorta.

I guess I am curious, if you have not done your list, why not?

Naughty! Bad boy! Bad!

I haven't completed my list cause I don't have my own place yet, I don't have my own studio yet, and I haven't found the right library section yet with you standing on the other side of the aisle handing me a proper book!

[Guest eminatic]

number one thing on my to do list:

threesome with another guy! my bf says he doesnt want to share me, but he made me do a threesome with another girl even though i felt the same way about sharing him!

things i also really want to do:

1: use a sex swing

2: more hardcore bondage

3: more public sex (i've only done it once in a tree lol)

4: anal sex (but that will never happen since im probably never going to heal *sigh* )

[Mike_d]

Ginger- and the proper book is? Surely not the Kama Sutra?!!? I'm not messing with that til they publish that chapter we "co-authored" I am still mad at Anne Hooper for stealing our research into the joys of sex too!! So 'Irish', what book should I have in hand? :P

Something from the Marquis De Sade perhaps?

[jesso]

Ginger- and the proper book is?

Something from the Marquis De Sade perhaps?

You know me too well

[mystofpric]

Let's see...

Anal (tired it once but he was none to gentle and Well I've never ran that fast in my life )

Sex with a woman (probably never gonna happen)

FMF (not ever gonna happen cause i don't share. period.)

Backstage during a show that i'm working on)

In an office

being truly submissive

sex with a complete stranger in one of those fantasy bathrooms

drunken sex (yeah I know that's what college was for but i when i'm drunk, i'm either sober, or passed out drunk, there's no inbetween)

sex some where that we get really dirty, like teh covered in paint, or the mud

sex in a lake (thanks for the tip about salt water and sand)

Role playing

Laundry Goddess, I'm an amazing actress...... (hey that'd knock role playing off for both of use and I'd hook up witha chick, win win right? )

[komana]

1) Another FFM, with a girl I trusted this time (haven't figured out how to find the girl)

2) Bondage with me as sub

3) More bondage (see 2)

4) Sex in the ocean (don't go on vacation much)

5) Role playing

6) Sex in a dressing room (still too timid!)

7) Sex with a chick with my hubby watching (falls under FFM, but not exactly)

8) Sex in Japan... no idea why, really...

(totally off topic, but SuzyP, do you like Jacqueline Carey as much as I do?)

[its1013]

ok. here's my list.:

1.) MFM threesome - PLEASE apply herein! - teasing.

2.) sex during a photo shoot

3.) sex with a college dean in his office on his leather desk

4.) sex with two men at a strip club

5.) sex in a limo

6.) repeat the waterfall scene from THE DINNER PARTY!

i need another shower y'all. good night.

[mystofpric]

(totally off topic, but SuzyP, do you like Jacqueline Carey as much as I do?)

I love her! And yeah, I totally stole that!

[komana]

I love her! And yeah, I totally stole that!

makes a good motto for this site

[sun_flower969]

Not much I haven't done lets see....

1. Phone sex. I did it once but was a little distracted wanna try again!

2. squirt from a g-spot orgasm.

3. Become a "swallower"

4. Have sex with my husband in public, you know like someplace where there are people around and we sneak off to be naughty in a bathroom or closet etc.

5. Sex in a swing WHEE

I cant think of any more...

[Amylynn920]

I was thinking today that there's so much I haven't done yet. Here I am over 40 and life is open! So these are on my never have done but want to list. Does anyone else have a "want" list?

1) Sex in a chair or on a table.

2) 69

3) Sex in a car

4) Sex in the grass

5) Sex in the showeror the tub

6) Sex in a pool

7) Being tied up

8) Using food (chocolate sauces etc)

9) Being undressed by my husband

Guess that's about it.

Ok one less thing to do

[OPL Laundry Goddess]

Laundry Goddess, I'm an amazing actress...... (hey that'd knock role playing off for both of use and I'd hook up witha chick, win win right? )

Sorry, babe, there is only one woman for me. It's the guys I'm willing to make room for more. LOL But I'm totally up for the fantasy, so how about you could direct or play a part in some great epic with a cast of many? I'd be up for some public participation.

~LG

[LoveGoddess]

I've always wanted to do it in a pouring rainstorm on a summer day in the middle of a grassy field!

(in front of a bonfire at night was one for the the longest time--thanks Mr. SP for helping with that one!)

almost made it in a monorail in Disney, but had to settle for a BJ.

Everyone has such great ideas and fantasies...some brought back sweet sweet memories! Ahhhhhh.

[synirr]

Me too, do tell!

1) MFM threesome in which someone other than myself gets mounted

2) Identical twins... and I have a pair in mind

3) With another woman

4) With a married man (I know, so wrong... but oh so right!)

5) Strap-on

6) On X (never even done X, but from what I hear this is something I want to try just once)

7) With someone I genuinely love

That's one down, I guess

[stockingsandheels]

Me too, do tell!

1) MFM threesome in which someone other than myself gets mounted (this one will probably get accomplished later this week)

2) Identical twins... and I have a pair in mind

3) With another woman

4) With a married man (I know, so wrong... but oh so right!)

5) Strap-on

6) On X (never even done X, but from what I hear this is something I want to try just once)

7) With someone I genuinely love

Synirr I would love to help you out with 4 and 5.

[synirr]

LOL! Two birds with one stone!

[CGEM]

1) Having a hot female stranger watching me and my gf getting it on. She would be sitting in an armchair in the corner and watching us on the bed. She wouldn't be allowed to get up of the armchair until being instructed to come and clean my girlfriend with her mouth.

2) More public places

Hmmmm... This is fun. I'll have to think more...

[ohshelly]

Sweet guy has a lot more experience then me, there are many things he has done, that we haven't done together

2)Sex at sunset on a big pink granite rock in one of our pastures. A sun warmed rock and the one you love, what could be better?

Ok, this one is off the list until next year.

Sweetguy came home from work a few days ago and called me out into the yard.

THE COWS WHERE USING THE ROCK FOR THE SAME THING!! EEEwwww.......................

He was laughing his ass off. I swear he talked them into it to get off the hook for one more year!!

He is afraid the neighbors will see us. My reply was that if they don't want to see us, they don't hafta look!! ha~ha